And one final big question!!!: Say it turns out that somehow I figure out that she doesn't need that catnap, then how do we "get rid of it" and how do we adjust the other naps to ensure that she gets enough daytime sleep at other times, cause right now she's a shakey one hour napper in the am (depending on wake time --say 9:30 or :45 if she wakes at 7:30, or 8:30 or :45 if she wakes at 6:30, etc.) and the same or maybe 1 hour fifteen in the pm (another 2 hrs, 2 hours 15min after waking from the am nap.) Night time sleep hasn't been more than 11 hours--more like 10 1/2. Her catnap has tended to be anywhere from 20 min to 35.