Hello Everyone,
I'm beginning to be concerned over a few recent changes to DD's nighttime sleep patterns. First of all, she has never been a good night sleeper- only having slept straight thru (11-12hrs) a handful of times. However, we were on a roll until several months ago when she started getting her first molar. After that eased up, she had an allergic reaction to some pasta (a week ago, Monday), and we spent a week of digestive problems waking/keeping her up. Then, as that problem was ebbing, the Week of Excitement began because my brother got married this last weekend, and all three sets of grandparents descended on us.
During last week, in which my mom and step-dad were staying with us, we tried to have as normal a schedule as possible, and did fairly well. But, we had more frequent than normal night-wakings. Friday and Saturday (the rehearsal and wedding days) she was up much past her bedtime, and was put to bed by my in-laws. Those nights, she was sooo exhausted, she only had one night waking around 11, and slept through after that until about 6am.
The last set of grandparents left on Tuesday, and I have been home with her all day Tues, Wed, and today- but her nighttime sleep has been horrible. Also, her naps- with the exception of today's 3 hour nap- have been much shorter than normal. I know she's over-exhausted, but early bedtimes have not been helping!
Here's Vienna's "normal" schedule:
6am Awake
1030- 1230 Nap (sometimes up to 3 hours long)
6-700pm Asleep
Of course, the wakeup time can vary anywhere between 530 and 7, and we shoot for bedtime 12 hours later.
She used to be very good about being put to bed after a little bit of bottle, books, and a lullabye. She'd roll over and cuddle her blankie and stuffed frog, and go right to sleep without a peep. But NOW....
Her schedule the last few days:
5/530 Awake
8/930 COMPLETELY exhausted, Nap- lasting 1.5-2 hours
1230/2 Second nap attempt, usually no luck
5/530pm put down to bed
630/730 finally asleep
She has gone from sleeping 11-12 hours a night, albeit brokenly, to only getting 10-11 hours with up to 4 wakings in the night. She usually has a few sips from the bottle at each waking- up to 2-3 oz- but then normally goes right back to sleep. Recently, she goes back to her crib easily, but cries out after 10 min or so for one of us to come back. It now takes 30-45 min to get her back to sleep, where it used to take 15 min, max.
Getting her to sleep has also become much more involved. She started having some sep. anxiety awhile back, and I started the gradual removal, but now I'm still either next to her crib, or a mere 4ft from it. I've tried PD, but she laughs and comes back for more! If I just lie next to her crib, she throws her animals and blankie down to me, then screams if i don't give them back.
I've given up the last few days- mainly out of hunger (I'm also 7mo pregnant and get VERY hungry waiting for her to go to bed- whether I have a snack beforehand or not...) and DH has taken over. He just lays down next to her crib and ignores her. After a period of time of babbling and playing in her crib, she gets up and screams, signing "milk". He takes her out of the crib, gives her a little bit more bottle, tells her it's time for sleep, and she settles right in. He doesn't even stay to see her to sleep.
So, to make a long story, well, long... My main questions are as follows:
How long can I expect for her to take to getting back on track after the week of disruption?
How do we stop the throwing the stuff on the floor? She even does it when she wakes up for the day...
Any ideas on how to get her to stop thinking of me in her room as playtime? I try to be as boring as possible.
Because she resists a second nap (she's been on one nap for several months now...), how can I push her one nap to a reasonable time, if she's getting up soooo early?
And I guess most importantly, Is it "just a matter of time?"
Thanks in advance!
Shauna