ok, well, there are many issues (as with every new mom), but i think i have narrowed it down... here's my story.....
my 4 month old david, little spirited babe, just getting now on 3 1/2 hour easy (except for teh 45 min naps... different topic, i know)....
anyway, putting him to sleep:
after sitting on my lap in the living room to wind down, we go to the bedroom, swaddle (he starts to fuss unless i do it while laughing at him), and rock in the glider with his head in my neck while i sing and pat him until his eyes get droopy.
then we go to his crib and, eyes open now, i pat and sing or shush until he falls asleep.
this was going on for over a month.
now my back has almost gone out and i can no longer bend over or even sit and lean into the crib to pat and shush him for so long (it takes another 20 minutes usually) until he goes to sleep.
tears in my eyes, yesterday we decided to try contolled crying (consolling after 5 min of continuous crying).
it worked well for naps (went to sleep within 10 minutes) but at night or to go back to sleep after his short nap, well, he could cry for over an hour.
i broke down to my husband and he is now singing him to sleep again, but i am with him all day and do not know what to do. my back is in jeapordy and i am only 26!
any advice from veteran whisperers? please???