Thanks for being so patient with me! Feeling a bit clueless right now...actually thinking about it we haven't had a 2h nap in the last few days, so possibly that's more of the issue
but fwiw:
7/1:
Up at 6.35, not entirely sure when WU was as a bit unsettled from 5.15 onwards
Nap 9-9.45
Nap 13.10-15.10
BT 18.45
Long NW 02.45-04.15 (I guess bt was too early after a good nap....)
8/1:
WU 6.35 (woke him....a short night, less than 10.5h)
Nap 9-9.45
Nap 13.10-14.25 - had to resettle at 45m & 1h
BT 18.45
Essentially STTN - brief noises but no help needed
9/1:
WU 6.25
Nap 9.10-9.50
Nap 13.15-15.00, was not happy when he woke
BT 7pm
10/1:
WU 5.15, back to sleep 6-6.30
Nap 9-9.45
Nap 13.05-14.45
BT 18.50
Brief NW 22.30
11/1:
WU 6.05
Nap 9.05-9.50
Nap 13.15-14.40
BT 18.40
Unsettled around 3.30-4ish, needed help
Then today's mess......
Looking at that it appears we got into a mess after that long NW/short night....so maybe he could manage the 4h or so last A time if he does a 2h nap, but really can't with a shorter one. Either way does that mean cutting the morning nap shorter?