Hi LadyMira and SylvieA,
I just wanted to let you know that I had the same problem with my DD when she turned 5 months. I attributed it to nipple confusion because this breast refusal co-incided with my going back to work and my having to introduce the bottle. At that time too, I think the distracted phase was coming on and it was just too too boring for her to be facing just the boob. With the bottle, there was just so much more she could touch and see and do. I too posted many desperate pleas for advice and support. It really broke my heart that she wouldn't nurse readily and screamed and arched her back whenever I tried to put her to my breast. With stress and her fussing, my let-down was slow or wouldn't come at all and this made matters even worse. Those were the darkest days of my life! I don't have a perfect solution cos she still doesn't want to nurse during the day...she has too many things on her baby agenda other than nurse! However, she now nurses after her 6pm bath, just before bedtime. Also, she still wakes at about 3-4am in the night... she nurses readily then. My dreamfeed has always been, and still is, a bottle feed of EBM. Just a few things that other mummies have suggested and that I thought helped:
1. if you have to use a bottle, use a small teat so that the flow doesn't come so readily.. otherwise the LO gets lazy! It takes 40 muscles to BF but only 4 to bottle feed!
2. nurse when your LO is sleepy (just about to sleep or waking up)
3. offer a bottle first until BB is not ravenous then try to slowly offer the breast
4. keep offering the breast at every feed but DO NOT force the issue... if she refuses, then don't press on... it will make matters worse... definitely no forcing her head to your breast!
5. try inducing a letdown before she starts to suck so that she will get an "instant reward" of milk .... 2mths on and I still have to do this other wise my LO will just scream and not come to the breast! *sigh*
I know how awful it feels when your LO wants the bottle more than you... just keep at it and don't see it as rejection of you but just the breast as a separate entity. Good luck and I hope this has helped. PS it took me close to a month to get her back to the breast even just for the night feeds. HTH!