Don't feel silly for asking
its a great question.
Our bedtime routine (Started at 8 weeks) ha always been as follows.
6:15pm Bath
6:30pm Bottle
The if she wasn't to tired a song, or reading.
Bed by 7pm
Dreamfeed at 10:30-11pm
If you want to do the massage I'd recomend that before the bath. Your routine should be molded to fit your LO
you know your DD better then anyone else. For us a 7pm bedtime works. Find what works for her
try different times, she'll let you know when she's ready for bed
HTH