I am going thru a similiar situation as you.HUGE HUGS...My 18mnth old went from sleeping thru the night to waking 3-4 times a night, everynight since xmas. were exhausted and at a complete loss as to whats wrong. He's also happy and fine during the day but at night he's wheezing, gassy, will fall asleep on me and wake 20 mins later crying. This has gone on up to 5hrs one night. I just borrowed a really great book from a friend called"An encyclopedia of natural healing for children and infants"written by Mary Bove, N.D. It talks about food allergies and symptoms in the book. After reading it today I think thats whats wrong with my son. I think he may be lactose intolerant. She says in the book that symptoms from a food allergy are:
Asthma,Eczema,hay fever,Headaches,Hives,Chronic runny nose,Nasal congestion, Sinusitis,Tonsilitis,Chronic diarhea,tired, fatigue,poor sleep problems.
I hope things get better for you. I know how it can really affect a marriage also. Its hard on everyone when your not getting any sleep and your struggling to find an answer. I hope you find yours..Take care Tracey