Dear All,
I am so relieved to have found this has been posted so recently and hopefully will be continued. My DD will be three at end of October and has been having what we now know to be night terrors for over a month - virtually every night without fail.
Until a couple of weeks ago, I thought that she was having a tantrum because she would scream so much but it was becoming clearer and clearer that she actually had no idea that I (or my DH) was even in the room. She completely freaks out if she is touched and although she is a really eloquent talker the only thing that she says that makes sense is "Mummy" over and over, the rest is wailing and complete gobbledegook - totally unlike her (although we do get occasional daytime tantrums!!). She acted like she was being attacked if I touched her and clearly didn't see that it was me there. It was so frightening and I felt so helpless, as they tend to go on for up to half an hour, that I used to just stand crying.
I scoured the internet frantically trying to find out what could possibly be up with her (we live in Spain so I have no HV equivalent) and the sheer relief I felt when I stumbled upon a huge forum thread dedicated to night terrors.....it had other people experiencing everything we were going through.
For me, just reading other peoples experiences, helped so very much and from that night, I am able to just sit in her room with her saying things like "It's OK, mummy's here" etc. When she comes round, she is clingy and hot and thirsty!
Two key things that I learnt from the forum were that often night terrors manifest themselves when a child is hot, either due to fever or weather....we are in the very south of Spain where these night terrors seem to have started as the weather really got hot. We now put the fan in her room to it's highest setting and only put a nappy on her (rather than nappy and light t-shirt) People suggested that for some reason, cooling feet down worked like a miracle cure, or keeping them uncovered (from clothing and bedding) helped to prevent...personally if I tried to get close to my DD feet while she is in the middle of a night terror, I risk having my face scratched off or her injuring herself...so a no-go for us, but may help one of you!
Secondly, I read about the homeopathic remedy Belladonna....I went and bought some immediately and tonight is her fifth night that we have given it to her. First night she slept all night!!!! Second night she woke screaming but this only lasted about 7 minutes, which has never happened. The the last two nights she has slept through again. Tonight? Well, we shall see but I can honestly say that although doctors say that they will eventually grow out of it (and I'm sure that they do) but for me, I needed to do something and I'm am more than happy to go the homeopathic route to save the upset, anguish and tears that we have been going through. By the way, I guess it goes without saying but it should be noted that you must get professional advise before administering any homeopathic medicines to children.....Hope that this helps. Becki xxxx