Hi there, so sorry I disappeared from this thread. Lots has happened.
DS (now 8 mo old) got a very bad viral attack - cold, chest congestion, the works. Regular cold/cough meds didn't work, so had to nebulize him for 6 days. He became much better about 4-5 days ago, and with that, his sleep improved dramatically. From 4-5 wakings at night (during his illness, prior to his illness he was on zero wakings) he was down to 1-2 wakings and on one day, none. His day naps, however continued to be max 45 min during the illness, whereas they had been on track to increasing to between 45 min to 1.5 hours before the illness.
(Then I got the viral too, and then DH, resulting in utter chaos, hence my disappearance from this thread. Am back because I'm feeling better since yesterday)
DH and I were ecstatic, and resolved to start moving him to 2 hours 45 min of A time (he had been on 2.5 hours and I had let him continue on 2.5 hours because he was so ill) so that we could gradually move him to 3 hours A time. There was a dramatic improvement in his naps and night sleep right from the day we moved him to 2 hours 45 min A time. For 2 days he took 2 naps, 1.5 to 2 hours each, and slept through at night for 10-11 hours, with 1-2 wakings.
Then yesterday, Day 3, his naps were again brilliant (2 naps, 1 of 1.5 hours and 2 hours 15 min) and he went down for his bedtime at 7.15 PM. BUT he kept stirring and whimpering till 7.45 PM, so we decided to check, and sure enough, he'd pooped. So we changed his diaper and resettled him by 8.15 PM - but by then I guess the damage was done. He kept waking up, every few minutes, between 10 PM to 1.30 AM, and then again 3-4 times after that till 7 AM.
Then today, he took a long first nap (2 hours 15 minutes), and he started fussing right before his 2nd nap, though I was putting him down after 2 hours 45 min exactly. We checked, and again, he'd pooped, so had to be cleaned and resettled with a lot of patting, as a result of which he only slept for 45 min.
In the evening, I put him down for the night at about 7 PM, after 2 hours 45 min, he was looking sleepy and ready to drop off, but he wouldn't. Kept fighting and trying to sit up. We checked, no poop. We gave him a top-up feed (3 oz) because he'd emptied the previous bottle (6 oz). He had most of it and I wound him down with some soft singing and slight walking around with him in my arms. He seemed to drift off, only to start crying in an hour. Shush-pat only seemed to make him cry harder, so we did PUPD a few times, then he quietened down, so we put him down again. This was 30 mins ago, he seems to be sleeping, but I fully expect a hugely disrupted nights' sleep again.
Sorry for the huge amount of detail - just feeling very scared that for some inexplicable reason all our good work with sleep training seems to be coming to naught :-(
Here's what today looked like in EAS format:
Wake-up 7 AM (after a very disturbed night sleep, as explained above)
A time 7 to 8 AM
1st solid feed 8 AM
A time 8.15 to 9.30 AM
1st bottle feed 9.30 AM
1st nap 9.45 AM
Wake-up 12 PM
A time 12 to 1.30 PM
2nd solid feed 1.30 PM
A time 1.45 to 2.30 PM
2nd bottle feed 2.30 PM
2nd nap 3.15 PM
Wake-up 4 PM
A time 4 to 5.30 PM
3rd solid feed 5.30 PM
A time 5.45 to 6.30 PM
3rd bottle feed 6.30 PM
Down for bedtime 6.50 PM (Not successful, as explained above, lots of crying, followed by shush-pat/PUPD, followed by a top-up bottle feed)
Finally down for bedtime 8.15 PM
Have therefore had a very rough couple of days after a few very promising days where things looked set to improve.
Please help us understand what's happening here, what am I doing wrong?