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Re: Working moms/mums - come share tips and get support too! #2
« Reply #120 on: August 16, 2008, 01:57:38 am »
Candice,

Thanks for your reply. Actually, we went to the Dr. last thursday and as your said, he confirmed that she shouldn't decrease the amount of milk she is taking (at least at the beginning) so I think I'll keep pumping. He said that as time goes by, she would probably drop lunch time feed (around 8 mo) and replace it for solid meal - this doesn't help too much as this time I'm there to give her my breast  ::) but even though, I'll try to keep pumping. I definitely think it's going to be worth making this effort for longer.





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« Reply #121 on: August 16, 2008, 02:09:18 am »
Hi Lidia, just saw your post and was on, so thought I'd say hi.  I hope things are going well.  Keep up the pumping.  I start my new job the week after next, so am getting nervous.  Will be taking dd to daycare this week to familiarise her with it and will probably leave her there for a half day on Thursday to see how she goes.  It is very strange because I had no problem taking ds to daycare (was sad about it of course) when he was 8 months, but for some reason, I feel sick to my stomach about the thought of dd being in daycare right now.  I just think it is because she is such high maintenance and I'm worried she won't get the same attention I give her....  Anyway, I hope Milena is doing well,  K xx
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« Reply #122 on: August 16, 2008, 03:37:41 am »
Kerrie, I totally feel the same about leaving my DD2 in daycare.  I was devastated to leave DD1 in daycare at 11.5 months, but with DD2, I'm even more upset at the prospect of it... she's got reflux and kidney trouble and has difficulty with solids... it just seems like she's more of a baby than Maren was at this age!  It's a small consolation that they'll be in daycare together, and that this time it's not a stranger I'm leaving my baby with, our DCP is like a member of our extended family.  Hugs, I know how hard it is!

I bought my Medela Pump In Style Advanced (Metro Bag) on eBay yesterday so I should be getting it maybe next week. I'm not returning to work until October, but I plan on starting to pump right away to stockpile.  When I go back to work, I'll be dropping 2 BFs and pumping 2x a day (at lunch time and then at 9:00 pm I think - her BFs will be 6:30 am, 6:30 pm, and probably one night feed as before).  Does this sound about right?  If so, do I start with the 9:00 pumping session and keep her on the 4 BFs a day (plus night feed), and then try to get her to take one feed with a sippy in a month and then drop the second BF a couple weeks later so that we're on track when I start work?

TIA!  :-*
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« Reply #123 on: August 16, 2008, 06:10:31 am »
Just a thought marensmama...

You may need to pump more than 2 times to make up 1 bottle (most moms do).  Also, you may find going 6+hrs between pumping or feeding a little hard on your supply, I know I did!  I had to just make more time to pump during the work day to avoid long stretches without any breast stimulation...but everyone's different so who knows?




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« Reply #124 on: August 16, 2008, 19:25:38 pm »
Hi girls,

Kerrie - Hi! As you know, DH hates when I log on this website so I always try to post on this forum b/c posts are shorter than the Birth club one... :P  I miss all the girl, though  :-[  I try to reply there but it's so hard to read and then do personals...
Anyway, thank you for the encouragement, I'll keep pumping. I love weekends b/c I can spend more time with DD and I don't need to pump (my breasts really need a break!). 
Big hugs to you, I've read on the other post that you may need to leave kids with a nanny! I'm sure things will work for you, I'll be thinking of you all!

Marensmama - I pump at the same time as DD would nurse if I were with her so that on weekends her milk will be there for her ;) The amount that I get on week days isn't enough for a bottle, as Shark said. The caretaker always mix fresh milk with frozen (half of each). I hope this helps!
 


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« Reply #125 on: August 17, 2008, 02:08:51 am »
You may need to pump more than 2 times to make up 1 bottle (most moms do).  Also, you may find going 6+hrs between pumping or feeding a little hard on your supply, I know I did!  I had to just make more time to pump during the work day to avoid long stretches without any breast stimulation...but everyone's different so who knows?
I was thinking the same.  Is there any way to fit 2 pumpings into your work day?  Like Lidia said, try to do it when she'd be feeding normally/having daycare bottle.  If at all possible, I'd try to start with that.  If you find that you're a champion pumper & don't need the extra pump, you can always drop it later. 

{{hugs}} all!  :D  You can do this!
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« Reply #126 on: August 20, 2008, 19:17:16 pm »
Great thread... I am still on maternity leave but have started receiving emails from work so my hopes of not having to go back before 24th of Oct 08, seems to have gone out the window... lol

I work for a telecommunications company that is dominated by men and I am wondering how I am going to manage going back to the office? We have numerous fridges in the dept and I plan on using one of them to store my BM. I wonder how this is going to effect the men who make use of the fridge? lol

I am determind to continue breastfeeding despite my work demands and it helps that i live only 5 mins from the office.

Anyways, just want to say congrats to all the breastfeeding working mommies, it sounds like hard work!!!

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« Reply #127 on: August 20, 2008, 19:27:02 pm »
{{hugs}} TristansMom!  You will manage. 

Are you going to be in the same physical location as before?  Are you in an office so you can shut the door?  Some women I've heard of were able to borrow their boss's offices if they didn't have their own.  I pumped in a little "anteroom" before you got to the toilet stall portion of the bathroom.  It had a couch, bookcase, and was set off with some shower curtains for privacy.  Not the best, but certainly not the worst, either. 

Mark your milk as "not for coffee."  ;) 

Good for your determination!  That'll help A LOT!  ;)  Post back as you have questions & concerns. 
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« Reply #128 on: August 20, 2008, 20:17:47 pm »
unfortunately we all work in an open plan enviroment. We have a gym in the basement of the building that has a small room with a massage bed on it where I plan to express away from prying eyes... lol.

As to the ''not for coffee'' LOL. I will make sure that they are aware. The milk is for only one man and thats my lil man, hehehe.

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« Reply #129 on: August 20, 2008, 21:18:17 pm »
Thanks for the advice.  I only get a half hour break for lunch, so it's not likely that I could pump 2x at work and once at home.  It'll be once at work and once at home.  Hopefully I will have enough stockpiled before I go back to work to help out with it at first.  If only my new pump would come in the mail!!
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« Reply #130 on: August 21, 2008, 00:31:31 am »
Hi!

Marensmama - IKWYM... I asked BIL to bring my Medela PISA from the US as it costs double the price here in Brazil.

Today I was out of office on a meeting which was held on a hotel. I planned to pump twice (10:30 am as I normally do and lunch time, when DD normally nurses) and as there wasn't a suitable place to pump, I decided to do it in the bathroom, although I don't think it's hygenic enough  :P  Anyway, when I turned on the pump, I heard a sound: the AC adaptor burned out!!!  >:(  There wasn't information on the voltage!!! I just couldn't believe that was happening to me, as I'm very cautious about my pump.

To make long story short, the Hotel is going to pay for the damaged adaptor but my boobs got soooo engorged that I still feel it a little sore.  :(  Thankfully, DH managed to buy a similar one until I could get a new one from the local Medela representative and now I can feel relieved that I'll be able to keep pumping DD's precious milk! ;)

I read somewhere from Kate that once you start pumping, your pump becomes your best friend, so my advice is to always ask about voltage before plugging in.  ;)




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« Reply #131 on: August 21, 2008, 02:42:40 am »
Is my milk going to dry up? I am so worried about it. Having my LO have my milk is the most important thing in the world to me. I feel like the pump just doesn't gather as much as my LO. I plan to pump as much as possible when I am at work. I am just going to have to make time. I should be able to get a few pumping sessions in....any advice to make sure my LO doesn't have to supplement?


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« Reply #132 on: August 21, 2008, 12:39:04 pm »
TristansMom, Ikwym about the male dominated work environment - I work in the mining industry, so full of men too...

I am starting a brand new job next week and have no idea where I am going to pump.  From what I have seen the office is open plan and even the offices are all glass, so not sure if any of them have blinds, otherwise I'll be stuck in the bathroom pumping.  They are just undergoing a refurbishment which is due to be finished soon, I wonder if it is too late to try and see if I can get a private room put in somewhere.  Oh well, I guess I'll find out next week  :-\

Lidia - I'm sorry about your pump AC Adapter.  Wow, I never would have even thought about checking the voltage incase that happens.  It's funny how we get used to an electric pump, I guess in the old days where there was no pump, people used to do this by hand, but I wouldn't have a clue how to even do that  :-[

Well, I got my Ameda double pump in the post the other day and so far have used it three times and LOVE it.  It has made such a difference and I've been getting a letdown straight away - I have been having so much trouble with my mini pump and my letdown, so I am so relieved.  Even after dd has fed, I am still getting a few oz out.

Was just wondering though - dd went to daycare for a half day trial run today so I ended up pumping that feed instead (about an hour later than when I probably would have actually fed her) and got 10oz out (5oz from each breast).  Since I have no idea how much dd actually eats, but assume that this would be more than enough for a feed for her - do you think I would be pumping this each time?  OR do you usually have one larger volume, then a smaller one if you pump twice during the day?  Just wondering what happens with everyone else and what the norm might be? 

Lidia - question for you - if daycare is mixing your fresh with frozen, what happens when your frozen stockpile is depleted?  Or are you pumping enough to keep restocking the freezer? 

Sorry for all of the questions now, I'm just starting to wonder what to expect next week.  Thankfully am feeling less nervous since I have a bit of milk in the freezer, so at this point she won't get hungry, but am worried that I won't be able to pump enough to keep up all of her bottle feeds each day....
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« Reply #133 on: August 21, 2008, 14:43:26 pm »
Nicole, I hope your pump comes soon!  :)  As for not being able to pump much at work, I think Alex couldn't pump at all at work & still managed to feed her lo's for a right long time.  :-*  Here's to a freezer stash!  ;)

Lidia!  That's awful about your adapter!  :(  >:(  Glad the hotel is helping you replace.  I can't imagine not being able to do it at all.  I remember the day that dh forgot to pack one of the little connector pieces for me.  So I only had 1 complete set of parts.  I ended up pumping 1 side in the morning & 1 in the afternoon, but at least the pump itself was working so I could do *something.*  Ouch!  Hope you're feeling better today. 

{{hugs}} Jessica!  It *can* be done.  I went back to work when each of my boys was 3.5-4 months old.  I ended up bf'ing each for over a year.  :)  You're right that a pump doesn't get as much as your lo.  (Remember that is NOT an indicator of your supply, as lo is much more efficient.)  I was blessed enough to start with 3 pumping sessions at work.  I had to keep that going with J, but with Isaac, I was able to drop down to 2 sessions.  It kind of depends on how you're responding to the pump.  Have you started back to work yet?  If not, I'd start pumping now as much as you can (hard to do while actually taking care of lo's, I know).  Does your lo df?  If not, that's a great time to pump.  That one always helped me make up the difference, since I never pumped enough in 1 session to make 1 bottle.  ::)

Kerrie, first off, 10 oz?! :o :o :o  That's amazing says the woman who rarely got more than 3.5 total!  ;)  That's great.  Yes, I would think that is more than lo eats, but the only way to know for sure is to try her with some amount in her daycare bottles & see if she needs more or less.  (I'd send a bottle plus a little more fresh if you have it so they can top her off if needed, at least for the first few days.)  Let me know if you need an idea of how much to start with.  Kelleymom.com has a decent calculator, but I can't look it up right now.  Best luck with your new job.  Is there a way to tour your new job site beforehand so you can scope it out for pumping spots?  Maybe while lo is doing some trial run at daycare?  Hard to say if you'll get 10 oz each time.  I got more or less the same over my 3 pumpings (2 at work, 1 dream pump) toward the end with Isaac.  The first was usually most, and the other did usually decrease, but not much for me.  Every woman is different, though. 

{{hugs}} all around, ladies.  :)  Y'all are doing great things for your lo's!  :D
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« Reply #134 on: August 21, 2008, 19:22:14 pm »

{{hugs}} Jessica!  It *can* be done.  I went back to work when each of my boys was 3.5-4 months old.  I ended up bf'ing each for over a year.  :)  You're right that a pump doesn't get as much as your lo.  (Remember that is NOT an indicator of your supply, as lo is much more efficient.)  I was blessed enough to start with 3 pumping sessions at work.  I had to keep that going with J, but with Isaac, I was able to drop down to 2 sessions.  It kind of depends on how you're responding to the pump.  Have you started back to work yet?  If not, I'd start pumping now as much as you can (hard to do while actually taking care of lo's, I know).  Does your lo df?  If not, that's a great time to pump.  That one always helped me make up the difference, since I never pumped enough in 1 session to make 1 bottle.  ::)


thanks! I think I just needed to hear that. I do have a stash in the fridge - I honestly have no idea how many bags or ounces but i have some. I am going to have to just be really strict about it at work. If I have to go in my car then I will. I don't do the dream feed so yes that is a great time to pump. Sometimes I do it twice after LO goes to bed. She is asleep by 7:30 so I usually do an 8:30 and I have started doing an 11:30 since she doesn't wake me until 4 or 5 usually. I am just going to keep at it and remember that no matter what is going on at work...she is the most important thing. Thanks!!!!