So Lilah has been talking herself to sleep for up to an hour or more for quite some time-- probably about 4 months or so. When her chatter reached the 2-hour+ mark, we made changes to her daytime routine-- limited her nap-- and that helped. But since her sister's arrival, she has been getting out of bed, screaming, stripping off her pajamas and diaper, asking to go peepee over and over, demanding that we cover her up with her blamket for the 800th time, and until we got a door knob cover for her door, was running out of her room over and over laughing like it was just the greatest game (we've always closed her door, as we live in a small 2-bedroom apartment to cut down on the noise in her room, so I didn't feel like I was "locking" her in her room-- in other words, she's never been afraid of having the door closed). At first we figured that it was because of Iris's arrival, and we'd just wait it out. It has improved quite a bit since then, but it's still a full hour most nights of these antics. For a short time we let her skip her nap and that did help for a bit, but then she started up with this again, even though I know she was exhausted, and I need a break during the day, so we reinstituted nap. She does this whether her sister is in her room or with us (goal is to have them in the same room), but probably happens for less time if her sister is there... though it's hard to have her there every night at her bedtime, as Iris is very hard to settle for sleep, and it just will not happen with Lilah asking what I'm doing and talking constantly the whole time I'm there.
Here is her routine:
8:00 am wake up (I usually need to wake her after her late night antics)
12:30-2:30 nap (though it usually takes at least half an hour for her to settle for this nap-- if it takes a really long time, I might let her sleep as late as 3:00, but no later)
7:00-7:30 start bedtime routine
8:00-8:30 lights out
an hour or more of bedtime circus and she's usually asleep between 9:00 and 10:00.
Anything routine-wise I should tweak, and any other suggestions? We're trying a sticker chart now. Last night was the first night and it was better (quiet in half and hour), but there was still more acting up than I care for. Luckily her sister slept through it.