Juliet, I'd love for him to use a pacifier, I just can't seem to get him to take one.
Today was another bad day for naps. I slept with him in the morning so we both got a long and needed nap. I nursed him every time he woke at 45 minutes. In the afternoon, I didn't have help again, and ds had a dr appointment, so he got really worn out, and I didn't have the heart to have him scream to sleep when it was my fault that he was so tired. Somehow it seems it isn't fair to do to him if I made him overtired.
I knew about BW before he was born, and was planning on doing it from the beginning. I guess I didn't realize beginning really meant day1, and he just fell asleep so easily, and I was so out of it....
so here we are nursing to sleep again. I failed entirely with big ds's sleeping. by age 2 he has figured it out, thank G-d. I seem to not have the energy for sleep training.
Here's the real thing, though - I find it IMPOSSIBLE to get him in bed when he's ready. My oldest needs something, or I need to eat, or I have to take them out, or whatever. By the afternoon he is always overtired, and then sleeps half hours, plus it takes longer to get him down. Ds1 can't take that all afternoon.
And, guess what (thanks for staying with me til here, whoever has read this far)!
I'm schlepping both kids over seven time zones next week, to my in laws, where there is no way I'll be able to let him cry more than five minutes, if that. We'll be there a week, then back home with two jet-lagged kids.
I know that makes this not such an ideal time to start this, but on the other hand, he needs to be able to fall asleep by the time we get there.
Saturday - Tuesday I should have my father and step mother back here to help, so maybe I really will be able to have this underway.
Thank you so so much for all the support! It's ridiculous doing this here by myself.