Kiwi_one, you have no idea how much better I feel after reading your post. It is so refreshing to hear from a mom that knows what it's like to have a spirited one. Our LO sound exactly the same! People think I am crazy because I am constantly watching the clock, but if I'm off our A time by even a few minutes, DS looses it! He is definitely still acting tired and gets extremely grumpy around 2 hours or A time, but with the short naps and your advice, it is clear he does need more A time. Today went extremely well- I pushed for 2 hours and 15 mins of A time and got 2 great naps. He was OT by the catnap but he was able to get himself back to sleep (I may have let the catnap go a little too long but I let it slide today). Please see my EASY below and let me know your thoughts. Should I just keep with the 2 hr 15 min A time for a few days and then gradually move towards 2 hrs 30mins?
Woke at 7:00
E 7:30
A (2 hr 15 min)
S 9:15- 10:45
(He woke after 45 mins but was able to fall back to sleep quickly and did another 45 min)E 11:30
A (2 hr 15 min)
S 1:00- 2:35
(He woke after 38 mins but quickly fell back to sleep)E 3:30
A (1 hour 55 min) - acting very fussy and rubbing eyes so I didn't push the A time any longer
S 4:30-6:00
(He woke up after 30 min and fussed for 20 min but went back to sleep. I had to wake him at 6:00)E 7:15
A (1 hr 40 min)
S 7:40
*Will DF around 10:30pm
I'll take any advice you're willing to give! Should I keep on slowly pushing A times? And should I focus on the first to A times and then later focus on pushing the last couple?
And you are completely right about APOP and spirited babies...there is absolutely nothing I can do to help him sleep! He is extremely independent and anything I try always worsens the situation! We you ever able to get your spirited one to sleep anywhere besides the crib and without the dark room and white noise??
Regarding solids- I have only just begun adding them into his diet. I have only given pears and rice cereal as of now and give him some an hour after his morning bottle and an hour before his bedtime bottle. I'm still a little confused on how to start adding solids and how much and when- but that's a whole different issue
I may ask for your help on that as well once I get his naps fixed!
Thank you again!!! It is so nice of you to offer your support and advice!