Hello!
thanks for asking after me. Hope you are ok. Yep everything is going great, I feel totally liberated! The last 2 nights DD has woken only twice at 1.00 and at 5.00 (the same as the previous 3 nights) I have given her the dreamfeed as Daisymel suggested and so I have refrained from feeding her when she wakes during the night, just sssh/pat. She's only taking at most 30mins each time (sometime much less, like 5 mins!) and then she has then slept on until 7. Her sleeptime is still at 8.00pm so this is only slightly early for waking, but I can work on that. Breastfeed is before bathtime, then a massage and then a story from DH. I then just place her in the cot and she makes only a slight moan before turning round and sending herself off to the land of nod. DH saw this for the first time last night and was amazed! Is this the same baby who couldn't stand going anywhere near her cot and would bawl as soon as she realised where she was on waking (on the rare occasions that she slept in there!). It really is just so amazing and this is after less than a week, things can only get even better! Quite often in the night now I hear her wake and have a little moan and then.....silence and she's in dreamland again....all on her own! Amazing!
Daytime naps are going well, but I still need to work on them, they are ranging from an hour to an hour and a half, hour ones normally in the afternoon and the first one of the day is usually a good one of an hour and a half. (Before they were generally averaging 45mins so this is a big step). She's generally more difficult to settle off for daytime naps, its like she's fighting it but I know she's tired, so I just keep picking up and putting down and she soon realises that mummy's going to win this one!
Meal times are fun once again, she is eating much more than before (that 8th tooth is through now - she now has 4 on top and 4 on bottom, so I think this may have had something to do with the lack of appetite) and because I've been sleeping better, dispite the 2 awakenings (no little feet kicking me in the tummy, and constant feeding through the night), I have a million times more patience and can keep feeding time upbeat and fun. As soon as her hand goes up and her head starts shaking I just say "ok you've had enough" and leave it.
I feel that she may be a happier baby right now, she generally is less grizzly and I feel that I can work her needs out far more. I can't thank you and Daisymel enough, it really has been wonderful having your advice and support.
Here is her routine at the moment, like I say I think it needs a bit more work but this is it for now.
S
E - 7 am wake - bf
A
E - 8.00 - breakfast
A
S - 9.30 - 11.00
Y - (I've discovered the joys of reading a magazine and having cup of tea again!)
E - 1.00 - lunch
A
S - 2.30 - 3.30
Y
E - 3.30 BF
A
(S? I've been thinking of maybe introducing a short sleep here even if its half an hour what do you think?)
E - 5.30 Dinner
A
E - 7.00 - BF
A - Bathtime, winddown story
S - 8.00
E - Dreamfeed around 11.00pm
(currently waking at 1.00 and then 5.00)
Wakes - 7.00am
Please do let me know your thoughts, I can't believe its only been a week. I can still work on this. I can't tell you how chuffed I am with myself, such a sense of achievement. Feel like things were just landing wherever they fell before. Now I feel like I'm the one in control and Isabella is definitely feeling that too, I've no doubts about that.
Have reserved the book at the library, waiting for them to call to tell me when its in, so looking forward to reading that during my 'you time'!!
Thanks once again
t-mumma xxx