How bizarre!!!
Have had a bit of success with the sleeping as i decided not to get stressed about it. I have taught Lucas to go to sleep by himself, so no more leaning over his cot for me!! I realised it was ruling my life and I was getting obsessed, so now he still sleeps for 45 minutes, but i put him down 4 times a day.
Last week he slept for 2 hours once and 1 1/2 hours once and i thought i had it cracked but no!! Not to worry - am now going out with him a lot more and enjoying him for what he is.
Maybe this will come back to haunt me in a couple of months, but i'll deal with it then. What about you? Did you find anything that helped?
Have any of your friends got a baby like yours? Mine haven't - i'm sure they think i make up stories about him!! They all seem to have it so easy.