Hugs, this whole thing is frustrating.
I thought Tyler had a reaction when you got him home? Is that unusual for him that the reaction be delayed? He does seem to go through periods where he seems fine and you seem so happy about it all....any ideas what is going on at those times that makes it different? Maybe he wasn't fussy there because he was in a different environment...he probably got lots of attention that, as a Mom, it is sometimes hard to do all the time, because as well as taking care of the kids, you are trying to run the household etc. If she just had him for the weekend, it would be easier to just dedicate more time to him kwim? But the physical reaction symptoms, are they often delayed?
I think it is so hard at this age. I am constantly questioning whether or not Kate is having a reflux flare-up, whether it's just general teething issues, just having an off-day or whatnot.
I don't know...I don't like the look of that rash. I would be trying the elimination diet too, if it were me.