Hi Kelly
Jude sounds exactly like my son Nathan - he is 7.5 months old and it sounds like he follows exactly the same routine as Jude, the only difference is that Nathan goes down at about 8pm and usually sleeps until about 6 - 6.30am, on average he would wake up crying from about 2am onwards 3 or 4 nights a week
As you described with Jude, Nathan is a very good eater and is still on 5 bottles and 3 solids a day, however over the past week or so he has started to leave about 3 ounces in his 7am bottle and sometimes his 3pm bottle so I have decided to start phasing out the dream feed - I am terrified that this will result in him waking more during the night or waking earlier in the morning but it has to be done at some stage!!
He has been teething badly since Christmas but still no teeth!! I am sure this is disturbing his sleep and we have started breaking the golden rule and taking him into the bed if we can't settle him after about 30 mins - this has been working well as he settles well in the bed but he is still happy on other nights to settle back into his cot. I totally agree with you that the middle of the night wakings are a total killer - I wonder if phasing out the dream feed with have a positive effect, I will keep you updated
Rhona