Hi all,
My DD is almost two and we have a night time routine that works like a dream:
brush teeth
pajamas
two stories
prayers
and then lights out, noise machine on and a song
It used to be that sometimes she would allow my husband to sing to her and finish this last part of her routine but ever since the new baby came she has been leaning towards me. I usually love doing this for her but sometimes that is also the time that my other DD needs to nurse. I have tried to change up the 3 month-old schedule to get her to nurse earlier but mostly on the rare occasion that I have to be attached I would love to help my toddler accept her daddy singing to her instead.
This has recently extended to night wakings where she will wake and want us to sing to her and cuddle with her for a couple minutes. If my husband goes in she screams for me. He used to be able to handle it but now she won't give up until I give in and my tired hubby is very short on patience with it all...plus I think it is beginning to hurt his feelings. He either has to listen to the older one cry for 15 minutes or the younger one because she wants to nurse.
I am just at my wits end as to how to make it okay for all of us for daddy to do the last part of bedtime and some night wakings on the rare occasion...I can't keep doing all of it.
If you have any suggestions I would sure appreciate the help
Thanks
Alisha