Ok, I am desperately trying to program my 9-mo-old to take regular, long naps.
I am confused about what Tracy says to do on one point -- he went down for a nap at 9:20 (woke at 6:50) and slept for one hour and 10 minutes. I got him up, though I believe he could benefit from another 10-30 minutes, but pu/pd seemed silly for that amount of time. (am I wrong?) So that was 10:30.
Knowing him, I knew he'd be tired after 2 hours, though that would only take us until 12:30. Sure enough, he is very sleep right now. And in the sleep interview, Tracy says to ignore the clock and put him to bed (p15, robbing peter...) However, in the book she says to watch the clock for the first few days and to keep the baby up until the next nap, which for a 9-mo-old seems to be 1pm at the earliest (or else he'll need an afternoon nap).
Should I put him to bed when he's tired? (12:30)
Keep him up till 1:00, and hope he goes down for a catnap in the early evening since that will be a huge stretch until bedtime (between 7-8pm)?
Keep him up until 2:00 which is what the norm seems to be for his age, and what would allow him to stay awake w/o a catnap?
When he is overtired, he is very hard to get to bed. And his afternoon naps are near to impossible, I've been fighthing this battle for months. TWO afternoon naps... well, that would be a miracle.
I just don't know what to do anymore. I am desperate.
Thank you for any help!!