Thanks for the replies. I couldnt check the computer last night anyway as we were up until 12:30 am trying to get him to sleep. He got a total of 3 hrs and 45 min in naps and didnt fall asleep for the night until dh rocked him (which I hate).
Our wind down for naps consists of diaper change (if needed), dim lights, humidifier, swaddle (this is where he gets all worked up), and then I pick him up to tuck in the swaddle corner and tell him that he is going to take a nap etc., He usually cries for about five minutes (I cant be in the room or he wont stop) and then farts around until he falls asleep. Lately, he spends most of his time upset and trying to get out of the swaddle. Bedtime our routine is diaper change, story, massage, humidifier, dim lights, swaddle, and bottle.
He is a spirited/text book little guy with A LOT of energy. When he is not overtired he is always cooing and laughing. He is trying VERY hard to roll over, and I think the swaddle and the positioner are standing in his way. I have tried getting rid of the darn thing, but he ends up hitting himself in the face and not sleeping. Then I cave in and reswaddle him. It makes me just want to cry when I think about having to retrain him to sleep without it as it was soooooo hard getting him here.
He was taking long naps, I guess that was what got us into trouble. He was sleeping 7 ish hours :oops: I have tried to extend his naps with the shh/pat and it makes it worse. I have tried stirring him which works sometimes. I have tried laying my hand on his chest only to have him think it is play time. It was making me crazy so I just decided to go with the 45 min naps until he grew out of it.
Gage loooooves his crib. He will whine to go back to bed after he has been up for about 40 mins and then fart around in his crib for another 30min. If he is overtired he will stay in his crib for an hour or 2 farting around. I usually try to get him to sleep at this point because it just seems abusive to let him lay in there that long. After I try to intervene I always wish I hadnt because he get really cranky. Then I ask myself, "Why did you bother him, he was just fine!"
I am sorry this is so long. Thank you for listening.