Hi,
I just thought I'd pop by and relate my experiences. We were stuck in a BFing to sleep prop for a loooooong time- well mainly for BT and NWs (naps I could get her down by rocking her to sleep).
To get her to settle at BT I ended up swapping one prop for another really.
I BFed until drowsy and then rocked her to sleep as I figured this would be an easier prop for me to break. I had tried Pantley's Gentle Removal Plan but we just didn't get far with it. DD needed the breast in her mouth and I would have to keep her there for ages and trying to unlatch was a nightmare as she'd wake and then we had to go through the whole process again and again and again. So at BT I rocked her to sleep and put her down asleep in the crib.
Like Amanda, we mainly co-slept from when C woke up for her NF and then she came into bed with us. When we needed to get her into her own bedroom, I moved a mattress into her room and from the first NW I went and slept on the mattress in her room. We were still feeding to sleep for NWs at that point too so I would feed and then sleep next to her.
At 6.5mos things started to get really bad and C was waking so much in the night that we just couldn't go on so at that point I decided that enough was enough and we needed to sleep train. I posted here and got some great advice to use a mixture of shh/pat and to comfort in the crib so we started from the first nap where I patted in the crib, shhhhed and said comforting words. PU made her far more angry when we PD so we just went for all comforting in the crib. It really didn't go as badly as we thought and she settled within about 20minutes and we patted all the way to sleep. Over the course of the next few days we reduced the patting to just a hand on her bum, then to just sitting by the crib and shhhing before making our way out of the door and leaving her to settle herself to sleep fully.
The plan for NWs was for DH to do any before 2am and then I would do 1 NF and then DH to do any after. However, as if by some miracle, DD started STTN from the very day that we started sleep training so we didn't have to do any of that. Sounds unbelievable I know and I realise that we are very lucky that our DD accepted the changes we made so readily.
We'd had a pretty consistent WD routine for months beforehand and this is now a big sleep cue for DD- blackout blind down, a lullaby then white noise. She also loves her loveys. Initially this was a blanket comforter with a teddy bear's head but now she also has a teddy in there with her. At MIL's she sleeps with her favourite hard-bodied doll!!!
Now she doesn't have white noise, we just put 20minutes of lullabies on but she's out within 5-10mins at most.
Here to hold your hand!