Hi again. I feel like I'm constantly on here with a new query
I had previously posted this on the sleep board and weaver was helping me out but it seems to just be a nap issue... for now at least. DH did all 3 naps for 2 days last week and since then, I am having an extremely tough time putting her down for naps. No AP/ changes done by him.We sing, swaddle, hold till drowsy & PD. Now, he just swaddles, puts down & she's out. It seems like every time he does it, she gets a little more independent. With me, she starts crying as soon as I darken the room and then I have to shush pat for her to fall asleep. She loves being with both of us and until this week, putting her down was equally easy/tough for both of us. Has anyone gone through this? Weaver suggested more cuddle time but that doesn't seem to have made a difference. I feel terrible. I can't understand what she is trying to tell me, and I feel like such a failure right now. As a result, I get more nervous at each nap time and keep second guessing myself, which she probably can feel.
Just in case anyone was thinking it, I did NOT let her CIO or do anything to break her trust.
Please help me. Not being able to help your LO is the worst feeling in the world. TIA.