it was a total success! I actually just hung around his room while he napped and made sure i was by his bed at the 25min mark! I then put my hand on his chest and rocked his crib very gently, when he started to stir i popped him paci back in and placed my hand on his chest. I did have to stay for 20mins like as i could hear his breathing was faster. To be honest i wasnt that sure that i was doing this right but he slept the original 30mis, 20mins with my help then another 40mins after that! He was a very happy boy when he woke up! So ur suggestion is that if i do this for a few naps he will naturally ne able to soothe himself into the next stage of sleep? Will he not just get dependent on my being there and the paci being put back in?
I tell u today really did give me aboost to my confidence! Thanx guys