my daughter is 4 mo's old & on 3.5-4hr EASY. the past two weeks her daytime nap habits have changed dramatically for the worse. she is a spirited baby & she really fights going to sleep. she has always seemed to think that she will be missing something & didn't care to be swaddled very much. She got used to the swaddling though and usually would just whine a little before falling asleep with hardly any coaxing. now she screams her little head off, kicks, cries so much that she hyperventilates, shakes, and chokes on her own saliva. sometimes she gets so worked up that nothing will calm her down. she closes her eyes & doesn't even seem to realize that i am there or acknowledge any sounds (like me shushing, humming, talking to her) other than her own wailing.
i am still swaddling her with one arm out because she has such trouble staying asleep lately & she still flails her arms all around waking herself up. we use noisemakers (ocean sounds & an air filter) to help her go to sleep. we always use the same pre-sleep routine: close the blinds, swaddle her, turn on noise makers, tell her, "it's time to sleep," rhythmically pat her back while holding her, try to block out visual stimulation, and sometimes give her the paci when she wants it.
when she's fussy i've tried the pu/pd and that seems to stimulate her & upset her more. even shushing sometimes seems to anger or upset her, causing her to cry louder & open her eyes.
then when i finally get her to sleep, she wakes up after 20-45 minutes. lately, it's more like 20 minutes. i've stayed in the room with her after putting her down for up to an hour many, many times. she jolts a lot and sometimes doesn't seem to go out of rem at all. sometimes she will cry or whine in her sleep too. when she wakes up i know she's tired because she's grumpy, but she won't go back to sleep.
has anyone else had experiences like this?