:lol: Hey Laura...yeah, it's a BIT crazy these days!!!!! You may want to check out a thread started by Cazao in the nap section...called "longer wake times..." A few of us were wondering about schedules and we had to move to a "nine month old" one. Meg's mommy, Michelle, had some great advice (as did the other women) but it turns out she ended up having to go to one nap whereas I think we're still in the "two smaller one's" place.
At any rate I don't know if this will help but here's what we've been trying to do now...(after MUCH tweaking and still no "solution"!
7 wake & 8oz. bottle
8 breakfast
10-11 nap (we wake her if she doesn't on her own but she usually does)
12 lunch
2 8oz. bottle
2:30 until 3:30/4 nap
5:30 supper
7 bath & 8oz. bottle
7:30 bed
Usually Ella sleeps 11 1/2 hours overnight. On a good day! But between the teeth and all the new mobility... blech. Her latest thing is standing in the crib. Over and over and over again... and it's so hard now to get her down... last night she woke at 3 then again at 5 and off and on until we got up at 6:45. I have been really trying to distinguish between the mantra cry and the HELP cry... though her mantra cry is getting right p.o.'d!!!! :lol:
I'm just trying to not go in too, too much and if I do I lay her right back down again and say "night, night" in a firm voice. I give her a back pat and head stroke then leave again. I usually don't get past the door before she starts "screeching" again so I go back in and do it again. I also talk calmly saying "it's okay Ella, mummy's here, you're just going to sleep darling, etc." And so it goes. It's been about 1/2 hour to 45 minutes for each sleep. Exhausting but... I want her to know it's not play or cuddle time. She is waking very happy still and over all is a happy girl. I think we too just have to ride it out and be consistent.
What is your schedule like? Maybe you could work towards a shorter morning nap even if it's 30 minutes and keep the afternoon one decent seeing as you're not to far away from one nap?
I guess in some ways I am lucky as I never have to worry about bringing Ella into bed as she has never wanted any part of that! :lol: Nor cuddling, rocking, etc. Even when we get to the pu/pd stage she just pushes off me. She wants me there... but not tooooo close! :lol:
I saw your other post and can't remember off hand but I think Matthew's Mommy was right in the being consistent part. It's soooo key! The hard part is for us...
Keep me posted...
Sharon