Hi there,
Thank you both for your replies. I really appreciate it
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I know exactly what you are saying - he is my son, and I know what is best for him, but I do find that when I am talking to MIL, she does not seem to be listening to me - She is too busy playing with DS. I do get frustrated, and DP says I am carrying on too much, but I know that I am right, but do not know the right way to approach it.
Anyway.... this is what Thomas's schedule usually looks like:-
6:30 - 7:00 - Wake
7:15 - 8oz Bottle, with cereal (always has his cereal straight after his bottle)
8:30ish - Put him back to bed and he usually goes back to sleep without any problem - he used to sleep for about an hour - but now sometimes am even battling to get him to go down and if he does, it is for a max of 30 minutes or he refuses to go to sleep - even if I try later on in the morning he still refuses to go down - He just screams.
11:30 - Lunch 1 Jar of food, with half a jar of fruit
12:00 - 12:15 - He used to go for a nap for about an hour, but now refuses point blank
2:30 - 7oz Bottle
3:00 - 3:30 He used to go down for a sleep for about an hour
4:45 - Dinner - 1 Jar of food, with half a jar of fruit
6:40 - Bath and play in bath
6:15 - Bottle
6:45 - 7:00 (most of the time 6:45) - go upstairs, put in sleeping bag, give dummy and BOBO (his favourite blankie), and turn his music light on that shines on the ceiling for 10 minutes, and he is usually asleep before the light turns itself off. - Now our bath and bed time routine is still perfect, it is just the naps that he is refusing point blank to go down for.
I have been back at work since the beginning of January and work 5 days a wee, and DS had been really settled with her and it has all just gone wrong over the past 3 or so weeks. I have gone part-time since the beginning of February finishing at 3:00 to spend a bit more time with DS. Come to think of it - it was not long after I started going part-time that his whole nap schedule fell apart, although I am not doing anything differently - do you think that could have anything to do with it?
Looking forward to hearing your replies.
Thanks again.
Regards
Paula - Mum to Thomas - 12 July 2005