Oh my goodness, if it's not one thing...
14 month old DS is waking 1-2 times a night, and then VERY early in the morning between 5:15 and 5:30 always on-the-dot.
We have done PD at about 10 months, and it worked, he slept through (ST) after about 3-4 days of it, for about 2 nights then stopped.
At about 12.5 or 13 mos we did Wi/Wo, it worked, he ST after 2 nights of it, for about 2 nights then stopped.
He goes to daycare. Takes one nap from about 12:30-2:30 sometimes 3. He's had a lot of colds and ear infections. But now has tubes in his ears, which should really solve the ear infections problem. He goes to bed at 7 with no fuss, and goes down for his naps with no fuss. In the bed, wide awake after bottle and story, sing three songs, and I leave. It's rare to have to Wi/Wo. And if I do - it's maybe twice. He's the same no matter if it's me or DH that puts him down, although that was not always the case.
So - to fix the NW's I did the Wi/Wo and PD - to teach independent sleep, and it worked for a while, but no more. I've done everything possible to help any pain from teeth to ears - to the point where we've even got tubes!! There's nothing wrong with this kid! He's totally fine. Happy as a lark, smart, right on track developmentally, and as far as I can tell, he's not in pain. So why won't he sleep?
In the night when he wakes, I go to his room, hand him his sippy of water, hand him his paci (I don't put it in his mouth for him anymore) and lie him down. Pat on tummy for a short while till settled and leave. Sometimes this works and I go back to bed, others, like last night, I have to Wi/Wo for as long as 30 minutes.
For the early wakes, I've tried W2S - which worked the first 2 nights I did it, but then stopped working even though nothing had changed. And this morning, I did Wi/Wo for about 30 minutes until he finally settled and slept until 7:15 - when I actually had to wake him up to leave for work/daycare. The thing is, that unless I intervene with W2S or this Wi/Wo that I just tried today - he does not sleep for more than 10 hours at night. The nights that he misses his bedtime because of a social obligation (extremely rare) he will sometimes sleep in - for a total of 10 hours...
Any thoughts girls? Possible that I have a baby that does not need more than 12 hours total sleep? Please say no...