Hey girls,
Add me to the list
Cole typically does 12 hours total, 10 at night and it's broken sleep as he's still waking and 2 for nap. the longer nap is the only thing that keeps me sane (And I work, so I only have two days of insanity!) His schedule is like this:
wake 6:30ish (on the couch, with me
)
7:00 breakfast
8:30 snack
11:30 lunch
12:30-2:30 sleep
~2:45 snack (or when calm from waking, always clingy and grumpy when waking)
6:00 dinner
~ 8:30 pm bedtime.
Bedtime is usually exactly, within 5 minutes, after 12 hours of AWAKE time. so, with a 6:30 wake and 2 hour nap, he goes to sleep at 8:30. If he has a 1.5 hour nap, he'll go to sleep at 8pm. I have to time his bedtime precisely on the 12 hour schedule or we get lots and lots and lots of tears. Last week was our first cry-free bedtime since he was born. And the first time he lay down happily and I covered him up with his blanket. Of course, we've had tears again over the weekend, but I think he's getting teeth.
I'm working on GW and I'm ALMOST out of the room. I'm dreading that step though...as I'm sure it will involve lots of tears again. His room is very small, so even though I have been moving away from his crib in increments...i'm still only about 4 feet away. Yesterday for nap was the FIRST time I said "want to go in your crib with woof woof?" and he said YES!!! I lay him down and he just said "hold my back mama". Even though I've been doing GW at night, I've still been holding him for naps, so this was a HUGE step. Of course, last night he wanted me to hold his back again. Anyway, I used to have to hold his hand or rock him for all sleeps so this is much improved.
I'm still going on the couch at night when he wakes (usually around 1:30am) I want to get out of the room at bedtime and see if it helps his waking, before working on that. One thing at a time to keep me sane.
He has never gone to bed happily, and always wakes crying so it's a LONG day for me. I have never been able to let him "play" in his crib before or after sleep. I'm not pregnat YET, but if/when it happens I sure hope #2 is a better sleeper or I will go koo koo
ahhh, thanks for letting me share
I wanted to share a quote I read somewhere. "You can't assume your child needs less sleep unless they are sleeping through the night and taking proper naps for their age". I always thought Cole just needed less sleep. So I am continuing to work on his night sleep until he sleeps through, then I will reassess.
wishing you all many sleep filled days and nights