Here is today's schedule:
4:30am awake & short BF (about 2 minutes)
4:30-6:10am pu/pd (short BF at 6:00am - 2 min)
6:40am wake & BF (about 3 min each side)
8:45am breakfast
9:50am nap
11:10am wake & BF
12:15pm lunch
2:45pm nap
4:00pm wake & BF
5:00pm dinner
6:15pm bath, book
6:45pm BF & bed
7:25pm asleep (fussed a lot)
I would have put her down earlier for her first nap, but my husband was watching her this morning and didn't give Naomi her breakfast so she didn't eat till almost 9:00am.
To answer your questions:
1.
What is she like when she wakes at 4:00? Is she happy, tired, crying? - She wakes up at 4:00/4:30am crying, immediately stands up in crib and yells for me, shortly turning into full blown crying if I don't respond. When I go to her she grabs for me and will fuss if I don't feed her and yell bloody murder if I put her back down inthe crib.
2.
When she wakes at 5:30 is she happy? - Same thing when she wakes at 5:30am (or like this morning 6:40). She's happy as can be as soon as I'm holding her though & ready to play.
3.
Today she had 3.5 hours of A time before her first nap, does she do ok with that? - She is an extremely spirited baby, so she doesn't ever give any real tired cues, but I do think she may do better if I only let her have 3 hours A time before her first nap. Today's A time was 3 hours 10 minutes and she had a good nap, so I'll try to keep it closer to 3 hours.
4.
Are you having any other waking besides 4:00 and then 5:30? - She sleeps mostly through the night with the occasional wake up 30 min to an hour after first falling asleep but settles within minutes if I go in and lay her down and give her a few pats.
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Could she really be hungry at 4:00? - I am finding I am having a hard time giving her her final feed before bed. She is so spirited that she will squirm off a million times and then come back for a few seconds in between grabbing whatever is closeby. I've tried feeding her in a dark closet for this feed, it didn't do any good. So I try to offer it to her as much as I can between before and after bath, her book and then even while she's standing up in crib!
Last night I even reduced the amount of solids with dinner and gave her a few ounces of expressed milk along with offering BF for night feed but she acted the same was towards the bottle, finally got about 2 1/2 ounces into her along with however much she ate while BF. If she was hungry she'd eat more right? She doesn't seem famished in the morning, it's more of a comfort sucking I think and doesn't protest if I take her off after a few minutes.
ETA: She just woke up crying after 50 minutes so I fed her again, she ate a full 5 minutes then went down without any protesting so hopefully that will top her off till morning...