When he is awake i do put him under a gymini which might be too stimulating but im unsure what else to so with him?
Gymini is ok imo but you could just pick him up & walk around. Show him objects around the house, name things... go for a walk in the pram, put him on a sling & walk around.... Read a book.... give him tummy time & lay on the floor with him & sing him a song...
To extend his naps i've tried most things, the problem is when i go in his eyes are wide open and hes really smiley which makes me think he's not tired? But he usually naps for at least 45 minutes. What do you guys do to extend naps?
When he wakes at 45mins, don't go to him immediately. Wait to see if he will put himself back to sleep. If he's up & happy, it could mean that he needs more A time? You could try shh/pat (if he's crying) or you could try w2s. Go into his room at around 30-35mins & do something to stir him (like move a blanket or stroke him cheek or hand) & this should be enough to get him through 45mins.
Also what do you do when your out? Do you just accept they will end up OT?
Sometimes thats all you can do
. I used to take the pram in case she would fall asleep or take the baby bjorn with me & try to walk around until she was asleep (I had to cover the top of it with a blanket cause she would otherwise be too busy looking around). Otherwise if he's not taking a nap when you're out, you could just do an earlier bedtime so they make up for it at night.
i meant to add. He only woke twice last night. He slept at 7.30pm then woke at 3am and fed then at 5.30 and fed then slept till 7am. So his lack of sleep in the day did not imapct on his night sleep. This is what usually happens, no matter how little or how much sleep he has in the day he sleeps the same at night. Its makes no sense. In fact when he sleeps more in the day he wakes for 1st feed earlier recently (1am).
Anyone know what thats about.
The drive to sleep can increase at night if they sleep less during the day BUT thats not to say that you should cut daytime sleep just to get a more sound night,..... because if he's not getting the proper sleep during the day, he will get very overtired & his night sleep will be haywire as well. So try to work on naps & good daytime sleep & it should all fall into place.
Let me know how you go
Layla