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Title: Diaper keeps leaking=night wakings!
Post by: Lincolns_Mommy on October 23, 2011, 12:43:38 pm
I am not sure if this is the right board to post this on, but it is contributing to him waking at night, so I thought I would give this forum a try.
My little guy (almost 6 months) is now doing marvelously on the 4 hour EASY routine. I do give him one DF at 10:30pm and then he usually wakes up for a NF between 2 and 3. Last night he slept until 4am! However...the problem I am facing is that everynight he is waking up with a diaper that has leaked. And it leaks so badly that his sleeper is SOAKED!!! It wakes him up. I do believe that last night that he would have slept maybe the whole night...but for some reason, he is either a) producing too much urine for his diaper to hold at night, b) I am putting on his diaper wrong (but I don't think this is the case since I have also got my husband to do the "before bed" diaper just to make sure") or c) my LO has started sleeping on his side during the night, and the wetness is always down his side. I am wondering if the urine is flowing to the side of his diaper where there is less absorbency. The leaking problem began around the time that he started sleeping on his side.
I am wondering if anybody has any suggestions for me.
We use Pamper Baby Dry and we really like them. I have tried using a size larger diaper for the night...but when I use those, it leaks on his back.
So frustrating and I need to know what I am doing wrong or what I can do to fix this!
Please help!!!

:)
Title: Re: Diaper keeps leaking=night wakings!
Post by: FroggyMom on October 23, 2011, 16:01:06 pm
Hi there!

I experienced the same problem with my DS when he was a little over a year old.  He would wake up soaked EVERY night.  So, we had to change him, the sheets, everything....every morning!  I also use Pampers Baby Dry, and LOVE them!  However, we switched to Huggies Nighttime diapers for night.  They are thicker and more absorbent than the Pampers Baby Dry and worked for us!  As my son was a little older than yours when we switched, I do not know what sizes they come in.  But, it's worth checking!  Good luck!  :)
Title: Re: Diaper keeps leaking=night wakings!
Post by: Mama2C on October 23, 2011, 16:36:23 pm
We have found that Huggies are more absorbent. for DS at night. Might want to try them? I know a lot of moms who found Pampers worked better for their girls and Huggies were better for their boys...I love pampers (feel softer to me) but huggies just fit him better!

Title: Re: Diaper keeps leaking=night wakings!
Post by: clazzat on October 23, 2011, 18:49:52 pm
We are having exactly the same problem so I am going to follow along and see if anyone has any suggestions - we have tried two nappies, bigger nappies, one small nappy and a bigger nappy over the top... Tonight I have wrapped a terry nappy around his waist to see if that can absorb enough to get us to the morning.

One thing that hasn't worked for me but others have said does is changing him either at the df or when he wakes for his feed. I tried both - changing him at 11 didn't help, and when I went to change him at 3am he was already soaked through!
Title: Re: Diaper keeps leaking=night wakings!
Post by: Lincolns_Mommy on October 24, 2011, 11:50:34 am
Tried the huggies last night....and another big leak! My LO is still in size 2 diapers so I couldnt get the night time ones. I bought the snug and dry (size 2) and I actually did a diaper change after his dream feed...but when he woke up at 6:30 this morning he was soaked once again. boo. I might have to try doing a diaper change before his night feed at 2:30am. I don't know what else to do at this point. :(
Title: Re: Diaper keeps leaking=night wakings!
Post by: Lincolns_Mommy on October 24, 2011, 11:51:27 am
It's inconvenient but I guess there are worse things I could be dealing with....:)
Title: Re: Diaper keeps leaking=night wakings!
Post by: clazzat on October 24, 2011, 18:18:17 pm
The terry nappy round his waist worked for us last night - it was a little wet on the inside, but it hadn't leaked through and we had to wake him at 7. :D
Title: Re: Diaper keeps leaking=night wakings!
Post by: Lincolns_Mommy on October 24, 2011, 22:56:41 pm
Yay! Awesome! I am putting 2 diapers on my little guy tonight...I'm not quite sure what I think about it...I put a size 2 (his regular size) with a size 3 over top. Is this ok to do? I made sure that the top one wasnt too tight.
What is a terry "nappy"? I am not familiar with nappy. Is that a towel or washcloth?
Title: Re: Diaper keeps leaking=night wakings!
Post by: Erin M on October 24, 2011, 23:19:12 pm
I think if you double up, you're can put some holes in the inner diaper (like with a pin) so it can get to the outer one.
Title: Re: Diaper keeps leaking=night wakings!
Post by: C_mother on October 25, 2011, 01:15:48 am
Have you tried a wool diaper cover (for cloth diapers) over the disposable?
Title: Re: Diaper keeps leaking=night wakings!
Post by: *Jo* on October 25, 2011, 08:51:09 am
Ive had this issue from day one with Levi (granted he is younger) I tried all the methods mentioned above and the only one that has worked is a larger sized nappy AND a PUL cover (I use Baby beehinds one) and voila no more wet baby clothes and sheets. One night there I tried it wihtout the cover and yep we had major leakage.
Title: Re: Diaper keeps leaking=night wakings!
Post by: Lincolns_Mommy on October 25, 2011, 12:21:29 pm
Jo....what is a PUL cover? what does PUL stand for?
Title: Re: Diaper keeps leaking=night wakings!
Post by: clazzat on October 25, 2011, 15:54:31 pm
Nappy = diaper!  Terry cloth ones are actually just a piece of material which is basically like a towel.
Title: Re: Diaper keeps leaking=night wakings!
Post by: *Jo* on October 25, 2011, 21:59:48 pm
Heres the ones I buy: http://www.babybeehinds.com.au/store/pc/BBH-Nappy-Cover-PUL-with-Velcro-14p9.htm
Title: Re: Diaper keeps leaking=night wakings!
Post by: tea_gurl12 on October 26, 2011, 00:53:53 am
We also had the same issue with a leaky diaper. DS was in a size 2 but we gave Huggies Overnight size 3 a try and they worked for us! :) I admit the diaper was on super tight around his waist, bc DS was a little small for a size 3, but I found it absorbed better than his Pampers baby dry.
Title: Re: Diaper keeps leaking=night wakings!
Post by: snowbird on November 01, 2011, 22:30:27 pm
We had the problem of LJ waking from a wet nappy. Now we change her before the df which is a pain but helps a lot. We use pampers baby dry - the larger size for absorbency. And tried Huggies but didn't help!

Xx
Title: Re: Diaper keeps leaking=night wakings!
Post by: *Jo* on November 02, 2011, 01:27:59 am
interesting this thread came up again because the last two nights weve had leaking nappies again. I even changed him at the DF last night to help and he was still wet this morning... sigh.

must have to go up another size in diapers, he has put on weight but I didnt think he would be in toddler nappies for night times now
Title: Re: Diaper keeps leaking=night wakings!
Post by: Lincolns_Mommy on November 02, 2011, 07:23:09 am
Ok....ugh....enough is enough!!! Tomorrow I am going to buy a reusable washable diaper or diaper cover at a specialty store. I am so exhausted from lack of sleep (also suffering from insomnia,so even when LO sleeps, I am wide awake...running on empty right now)! Had 2 diaper leaks in 6 hours. Poor little man and poor mommy.
I really feel that I am able to cut out his NF now (as the past few nights he has barely nursed more than 2 minutes for his NF and wanted to go back to sleep)...and I am prepared to stick out any PU/PD that I need to do this week. AND my husband is off work this week so it would be perfect timing as he could help me out. HOWEVER...I find that when LO wakes up with soaked clothing, that it wakes him up way more when I change him, even though I keep the light off, keep my interaction with him minimal and use slow calm movements. He is usually up for at least an hour cooing and loudly vocalizing in his crib until he can fall back asleep. This keeps me awake because I have the monitor on in our room (something I wont compromise on). BUT when I nurse him after changing him, it calms him down and he falls asleep right away.
So, my struggle is that, even though he might now need a night feed anymore...that he will continue to wake up because of his leaky diaper, and I wont sleep anyways.
Just so tired right now. and LO is asleep but I have been unable to fall back asleep. sucks.
I will let you all know how it goes with my new purchase. PLEASE PLEASE WORK!!!!
Title: Re: Diaper keeps leaking=night wakings!
Post by: *Jo* on November 02, 2011, 08:57:04 am
am hoping it works for you!! Ive just purchased the next size up in nappies and have the large PUL cover over it so am hoping for a better night for us as well. I hate it when Im trying to settle him and I realise hes wet and its like "ugh, all that hard work for nothing cos he will def wake up after this!" even if i do it in the dark, fumbling around to change his nappy it just wakes him up completely.

let us know how you get on
Title: Re: Diaper keeps leaking=night wakings!
Post by: Lincolns_Mommy on November 02, 2011, 11:53:34 am
I will let you know for sure! Something HAS to work eventually ;) I think I am going to purchase a cover called Itti Bitti Tutto...have you heard of it? The website looks impressive and a lady in my town sells them. Here's to a better night tonight for both of us!!!! :)
Title: Re: Diaper keeps leaking=night wakings!
Post by: *Jo* on November 02, 2011, 18:47:02 pm
I have heard of them but have no idea how good they are but heres hoping it works for you!!

we had a dry night thank goodness, seems the extra size up in nappies worked with the cover :) phew!
Title: Re: Diaper keeps leaking=night wakings!
Post by: essexlemon on November 03, 2011, 12:32:46 pm
Following along as DS1 (2yrs 9months) is still having major leakage at night (he's potty trained during the day but doesn't seem to have any control at night).  I'm not sure if I should start a new thread but I have a related question as I am giving up on the disposables and going to try cloth (I have adapted the sposies in every conceivable way and I resent lining the pockets of manufacturers who cheapen their product to the point that I have to adapt it and it still won't work!)

Going up a size always used to work for us but we are in the biggest size now (I did try bedwetters' pants designed for 4-7 year olds and they were still soaked through and leaked horrifically - I think they are probably only designed to contain a dribble by this age).  He's supposed to be going into a BBB very soon as he's starting to clatter against the sides of the cot but it's going to be a nightmare if I'm having to try to wash and dry full size bedding and a duvet every day!

Anyone know what the most absorbant cloth nappy is.  At this point I don't care about cost - I just need to know what the 'gold standard' is.
Title: Re: Diaper keeps leaking=night wakings!
Post by: Yazzie on November 03, 2011, 12:48:46 pm
Hi girils, going a bigger size always worked for us, for instance ds now wears 4+, but for night he has to be in 5 or else we get big big leaks!

Good luck :)