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Title: Message from Tracy's family
Post by: andyg2 on December 09, 2004, 18:05:18 pm
Dear Parents and Children, To all those who were blessed by Tracy.

I am sad to announce that Tracy, my mother passed away on November 25th 2004 after a long battle with Melanoma Cancer. Post an eosphojectamy in 2001 Tracy prayed and worked her self back to a state of health, never moving far from her consults and talking with families and helping troubled little ones. Even from her bed she made notes and wrote her third book, with all her strength I watched this beautiful flower, my mum, wilt a little each day, her rays of sunshine came from phone calls and letters which would light every cell in her body to hear how people were doing.

Until her dying day she made sure she instilled into me her teachings and knowledge and love for what she did, a true diamond on this earth Tracy has left this. Her everything was in her work and in her understanding of helping parents at such critical times in their lives.

As her eldest daughter Sara, I would like to thank you for all your love and support and I made a promise to my mother that I will carry on her legacy and in remembrance of her work keep the portal open for her to help me from above carry the message, to have parents help parents, and know that there is always a solution to every problem and the number one solution is LOVE, and that love, patience, practice and perseverance are the most important ingredients in overcoming and "fixing" everything.

I was blessed to call her my Mother. She was not only a mentor she was my breeze, always lifting me to be better, and also to my sister, Sophie she was a best friend, filled with so much compassion and love and the patience of a rock. I feel blessed to have been taught by her and have a part of her with me always.

God bless to you all, as she would say to me, don't ever stop learning as life is short so live it while you can.

Sara.
Title: Message from Tracy's family
Post by: Diego's Mama on December 10, 2004, 00:13:16 am
Sara,

Thanks so much for posting.  Your mother was an inspiration to so many here.  It's wonderful to know that you hope and plan to carry on her work.  She was so talented and in tune with the needs of babies -- that is such an incredible gift for her to have passed on to you.

We would love to see you around the boards more when you feel able to; we welcome you with open arms.

Deepest sympathies to you, your sister and family.
Title: Message from Tracy's family
Post by: jacks mom on December 10, 2004, 02:09:23 am
I am so sorry for you and your families loss. I was touched by Tracy, and she will forever be part of my life, through my relationship with my children. Thank you for your message, and your courage to continue her legacy. God Bless.
Title: Message from Tracy's family
Post by: carolyn on December 10, 2004, 03:26:14 am
Sara, I am so sorry for your loss.  Your mother was loved and respected by many parents all over the world.  She has been an angel to us when we needed a light to help guide us through the many phases of our babies' developments.  Thank you for keep the love and legacy going.
Title: Message from Tracy's family
Post by: Lana on December 10, 2004, 03:42:55 am
Sara

Thank you so much for taking the time to post at this very trying time in your family's life.

So many of us here felt that we knew Tracy even though we had never met her in person. 

Her legacy will live on because she gives hope to all new parents that they can do it even in the darkest moments of teething, night wakings and short naps.
Title: Message from Tracy's family
Post by: tripper on December 10, 2004, 20:51:30 pm
Thank you for sharing your wonderful mother with us.

She truly does live on, through her teachings, and all of us are better parents because of her.  I only have to look at my two beautiful children to know that they are much happier, well adjusted kids, because of your mother.

I am so sorry for your loss, and although I never met her in person, it is my loss too. :cry:

Tripp
Title: Message from Tracy's family
Post by: jaxnp on December 10, 2004, 22:33:56 pm
Thank you so much for your note.  I'm so sorry for your loss.  Please know that there are so many of us out here that were helped immeasurably by your mother, and her message will continue to be carried on.  God bless.
Title: Message from Tracy's family
Post by: tiia on December 11, 2004, 19:05:52 pm
It's so wonderful to know that you will be carrying on with your mothers work.  In that way what she believed in with continue to live on and help many other parents and babies to whisper happily!
My condolances to you and your family.  I, too, have recently lost someone close to me, my sister, and so can understand a little of what you must be going through right now.
I echo what diego's mamma said, we would love to hear from you again sometime in the future.
Your mother will be missed and remembered by so many!
Thank you for sharing her with us and for carrying on her important work!
Tiia
Title: Thank you.
Post by: soila on December 13, 2004, 16:39:13 pm
It was with such great sadness that we learnt of your mum's departure.  My husband and eldest daughter were really saddened because they knew how much Tracy's work meant to me! 

She will be sorely missed.  Thank you for your message.
Title: Message from Tracy's family
Post by: FionaAndLogan on December 14, 2004, 04:48:14 am
Sophie and Sara

Watching my Mom slowly lose her battle with cancer was the hardest thing I have ever done.  My heart goes out to you both.  Thank you for taking the time to post here during this time, and for recognizing your Mom is missed by so many.

Tracy was a special lady, and I know she is watching over us all.

Take care and much Love
Title: Message from Tracy's family
Post by: miichan on December 29, 2004, 10:24:22 am
Dear Sara and Sohie,

I just found out the loss of your mother.  My deepest sympathy goes to you both.

I found your mother's book when I gave birth to my son 19 months ago.  I am a working mother and was afraid that if I will be a good mother and able to return to work without sleepless nights.

I've read many books on the subject and one was your mother's.  Your mother's advise was the most kind approach to the babies and I've followed her advise every step of the way.  When I had questions, I consulted this web site.  As a result of following your mother's advise, my son is a very well rested and adjusted happy toddler now and we get joy from him each and everyday.

I'm glad to hear that you will be following your mother's footsteps.  I hope that every mother and baby in this world will continue to benefit from your mother's work.

Your mother will always have a special place in my heart.

My prayer is with you and your family.

Sincerely,
Fumie
Title: Message from Tracy's family
Post by: Anonymous on January 03, 2005, 04:55:23 am
i am deeply saddened to hear this news, my thoughts and prayers go out to you her daughters. Tracey's books were life changing for me, they set me free as a parent.

My deepest heart felt sympathies go out to you and your families
Anne Baines
Title: Message from Tracy's family
Post by: Anonymous on January 03, 2005, 05:02:10 am
i am deeply saddened to hear this news, my thoughts and prayers go out to you her daughters. Tracey's books were life changing for me, they set me free as a parent.

My deepest heart felt sympathies go out to you and your families
Anne Baines
Title: Couldn't have made it without Tracy
Post by: Lisa V on January 05, 2005, 15:26:39 pm
Sara,

Thank you so much for your posting, your mother was an angel and truly a blessing to so many.  I was so fortunate to have had the opportunity to talk with her several times. She has been my life line in taking care of our baby boy Connor who suffers with severe acid reflux.  When we thought there was no hope and we literally were not going to survive, Tracy came into our lives, she was our miracle.  To this point we receive little support from the Dr's and were on our own.  Her loving heart and remarkable knowledge of babies was the answer we had been praying for!  I have never meet anyone with such a big heart, gentle soul and loving spirit.  I am so sad at the news of her passing, but am so happy to hear that you will continue to carry on her legacy.

My deepest sympathys to you, your sister and family.
Title: Message from Tracy's family
Post by: marcieml on January 05, 2005, 19:27:25 pm
When I was emailed a few weeks ago re: your mother's death I couldn't believe it.

It was Tracy who I discovered in an issue of parenting magazine(2001) and it helped me so much.  She helped make it E.A.S.Y.  I send you my condolances.

I now know the World was a better place with her and her legacy lives on.

God Bless
Marcie
Title: Touched by an angel
Post by: chrisd on January 07, 2005, 12:48:09 pm
My deepest sympathies go to you and your family, and I hope that in time you will find comfort in the messages people have posted.
I cannot begin to express my gratitutde to the work your mother did, she listened and guided so many people, I for one feel like I have personnally lost a great friend.  She helped me through the most troublesome times of my sons early days and now as they are toddlers I still turn to the books and website as often as I did.  It was her inspirational words of wisdom that has taught me to be the mother I am today - and allow me to raise the most wonderful independant, happy confident boys I have.  My family are the reason I get up in the morning and smile, they never fail to amaze me with the things they have learnt and challenges they overcome.  I have Tracy to thank for this.  Once again, thank you for allowing us to share the most wonderful woman that you have had the honour to call mum.
Title: Deeply deeply saddened...
Post by: Aixa on January 09, 2005, 05:40:02 am
I cannot get get passed the shock of finding out about Tracy´s passing... I am a guatemalan mom iving in Guatemala city, who called hoping for a reply from someone at Baby Whisperer... to my surprise, someone did call, set an appointment with Tracy and got to talk to her for almost 4 hours via 2 telephone calls!!! just 3 months before her passing... What a blessing!!!! I always thought we were so fortunate to recieve her help, but now that is just too short of a statement... Those 4 hours we talked like we had known each other for years, and after addressing my main concerns about my daughter, we went on to talk about personal stuff and as I watched the time go by in my handwatch, I realized that Tracy was one of those remarkable souls who lives to give passionately ALL of what God placed on her hands to give. She surprised me even further after offering to come to Guatemala and teaching me her methods and training me to be her "latin hand" I simply couldn´t be happier...
Now, I mourn the loss of that shining star but am determined to carry her message of child caring in my native Guatemala, where so much needs to be learned. I will stay in contact.
To Sara and Sophie... my heart goes out to you and know that your mom will live on in the hearts and minds of all af us, and will reflect on the children growing blessed because of her. God bless you
Much love from Guatemala... Aixa López
Title: Deepest sympathies.
Post by: Guest 2 on January 09, 2005, 23:48:46 pm
I've only just heard here in England, U.K. So sorry, Tracy was a great writer and had empathies for her readers.

My sympathies to Tracy's family.
Kind regards, Caroline Jones, Leicester, England. U.K
Title: Thank you and so much more
Post by: sueirwin on January 10, 2005, 02:12:26 am
I just wanted to say thank you. My first child has been touched by Tracy's inspiration and caring. I feel I have lost a mother as well, for she has taken that role with me, and many other people.

I am truely sorry for your loss, even in the new year, our thoughts and prayers go to you and your families. This world was lucky to have had a human spirit like Tracy's for the time she was in it.  God bless her. And I hope she looks down and see's the difference she has made.

She was wonderful

Sue and McKenna Irwin
Singhampton, Ontario- Canada.
Title: Message from Tracy's family
Post by: guest 4 on January 11, 2005, 05:16:39 am
Sara and family,

I am so sadden by your loss and my prayers are with you.  Your mother was an angel, and brilliant to boot! I stumbled upon her on television while I was at home struggling to understand my first baby, born only a month earlier.  Once my husband and I read her book, it was like she saved us. Everything she said, we did. If we were ever at wits end, we'd consult "Tracy".  I credit her for keeping us sane during what was a most difficult time for us.  I have since had another baby and would not have managed either without her books.  And I continue to give her books as gift to every first-time mom I know (and a few second-time mom's who weren't fortunate enough to have them the first time around)! 

Again, my heart and prayers are with you and your family.  I will forever remember your mom and how she changed my life! (Thank you, Tracy! Peace be with you!).

.....Angela Ferguson, San Diego, CA
Title: Message from Tracy's family
Post by: sophiem on January 11, 2005, 19:24:31 pm
My condolences to you and your family.

I discovered your mother last week on TV. And let's say it's was not my best week but your mother help me see a light at the end of the tunnel. My husband got me 1 of her book and I'm only on page 41 and there's already a difference in our lives. So thank you for sharing your mother with us. She is an angel watching over all babies.  When you fell sad just think of all those happy babies our mother helped and keep helping from above.
Title: Message from Tracy's family
Post by: Mother Kerr on January 12, 2005, 22:59:10 pm
Dearest Sara and Sophie,

I was shocked and saddened to hear that your amazing Mother is no longer with us.  She was a truly remarkable woman, and will be sorely missed by families the World over. 

She was an inspiration to me and, to be honest, she has helped me cope with the premature birth of my twins as if she were a friend or family member.

I am glad that you will be carrying on her wonderful life's work.

My deepest sympathy and heartfelt prayers,

Annette
Title: Message from Tracy's family
Post by: sambayliss on January 13, 2005, 16:52:03 pm
Dear Sara and Sophie

I am very sorry to hear about your loss.  Your mother was an example to us all.  Having lost my own mother when she was 44 ( I was 17) and being an only child I never had anyone to show me how to raise a child. 

When I was pregnant I found Tracy and have never looked back, she has helped me have the confidence to be a mother to Thomas and to enjoy it more than I ever could imagine. 

My heart goes out to you both and I wish you well in all you chose to do.

Sam
Mother to Thomas 29/10/04
Title: Message from Tracy's family
Post by: Anonymous on January 14, 2005, 22:58:25 pm
I have only just heard the news, I can't believe it.

Such a special lady who wil be missed by so many


My deepest sympathy to all her family and friends
Title: Message from Tracy's family
Post by: kurby on January 17, 2005, 18:02:30 pm
I"m in shock to hear this very sad news.

I have only just recently been introduced to Tracey and they television program.  Only this morning I had mentioned the program in another chat room and decided to see what information I could find online.

In Toronto we have only had about a half dozen of her programs shown on tv and from only those few I could see what a caring and loving person Tracey was.  How much knowledge she had to offer and how much she will be missed.
Title: Tracy
Post by: Jacqui on January 20, 2005, 23:02:50 pm
Having just taken delivery of Tracy's book for guidance on Toddlers, I thought I would log on to the website after a long absence.  I just couldn't believe it when I read of Tracy's death.  My heart felt sadness goes out to Tracy's family.  My mother died of cancer of the oesophogus in 1994, and to see someone you love, respect and care for deteriote in front of you is a terrible thing.

I am a great fan and advocate of Tracy's work and know for sure that my gorgeous, happy and well balanced daughter is a product of Tracy's teachings.  I read and watched Tracy's work when my daughter was born and have followed Tracy's guidance throughout, she was an absolute genious with children.  I feel bad that I have only just discovered how ill Tracy had been - selfishly I hadn't needed to log on to the website for over a year as my daughter has been such a "text book" baby and having followed Tracy's books, she hasn't caused me too many problems.

Although I never met Tracy, her down to earth attitude left those who knew her work, feeling that they had.  I remember when my daughter was just a few months old & had started to wake during the night again, I posted an email on the website and was shocked that Tracy replied personally - that was Summer 2003 - at the time, I just couldn't believe I had received a personal response - but that I guess, after reading all of the dedications to her, was Tracy just being Tracy.

If you can hear me Tracy, thank you so very much you have made such a very special contribution to my daughters life.

Wishing your family all the very best, Jacqui, Coventry, UK
Title: Message from Tracy's family
Post by: sallyd1974 on January 24, 2005, 21:41:41 pm
I was so happy to find this site and so sad to discover tracys passing on it she was and is an insperation to familys everywhere i hope to train as a midwife and will always remember the advice she gave as an avide watcher of her tv series in the uk i would like to send my love to all her family and friends tracy will never be forgotten :(
Title: Tracy
Post by: RobinAndAmelia on January 26, 2005, 21:02:04 pm
I just today found out about Tracy's passing and am truly saddened by this news.  I just watched two episodes of her show on Discovery last night and had no idea.  I am a mother of a 19 month old and Tracy's first book was my bible.  I read it before giving birth and referred to it quite a bit afterwards.  I read her 2nd book when Amelia turned 1.  I am looking forward to reading the third book as well.  All the best to Tracy's family and I hope you take comfort in knowing what a profound impact she has had on so many people.

Robin Brunet, Canada
Title: Tracy's still with us . . . .
Post by: barefootnanny on January 28, 2005, 11:39:49 am
:cry: I was a little shocked when I read of Tracy's passing. Her influence has extended, not only to parents, but to all those who care for children.
I have cuddled babies for the past twenty years and Tracy still managed to teach me a thing or two.

I have recommended Tracy's books to many parents and nannies over the past year, since discovering her program.

My husband would ask, 'How does she know the baby has (colic) - she's only been there for ten minutes?'
After a few weeks of explaining, my answer became, sit back - watch and learn.

He did.

Tracy's skills and her ability to share them with sometimes desperate parents, I believe was the key to her success.

I have seen many childcarers/ specialists try to explain to parents how to adjust their behaviour to address a problem.
The majority often made the parents feel like they were doing everything wrong. Tracy never did.

I'd watch the faces of the parents on the show the first few times, looking for guilt or rejection to appear, it never did.
Tracy never made them feel that way.

 :wink: She not only holds the title of the Baby Whisperer ~ she also has earnt the title of Parent Whisperer !

Sophie and Sara must be so proud of their Mum.

I'll be thinking of her often , as I settle young babies.

She's still around us, whispering sweet nothings to sleeping babies. :D

Best Wishes to you all

Marina
Title: so sorry. mexico loves you tracy hogg
Post by: Anonymous on January 28, 2005, 21:58:59 pm
so sorry sara with the notice...i just cant belive it ¡¡¡  it have a few days ive found this wonderful forum, and know about this sadness notice,makes me shocked¡¡¡
ive just saw her tv programs on discovery, and now its my favorite one, she was so intelligent and with just loooking at her you can saw the sensibility and spiruality of her soul,  but i dont gonna talk about her on past, cause i think she always been in our minds,tracy always gonna  live on my mind, cause about her ive learned how to comunicate with my baby, shes a great women and she always be present in every heart of the people she help, like me and my family
thanks so much  tracy, for everythig you gave us, gives , and given
Mexico loves you Tracy Hogg

(sorry about my english,expect you did understood me)
Title: so sorry. mexico loves you tracy hogg
Post by: Anonymous on January 28, 2005, 22:00:51 pm
so sorry sara with the notice...i just cant belive it ¡¡¡  it have a few days ive found this wonderful forum, and know about this sadness notice,makes me shocked¡¡¡
ive just saw her tv programs on discovery, and now its my favorite one, she was so intelligent and with just loooking at her you can saw the sensibility and spiruality of her soul,  but i dont gonna talk about her on past, cause i think she always been in our minds,tracy always gonna  live on my mind, cause about her ive learned how to comunicate with my baby, shes a great women and she always be present in every heart of the people she help, like me and my family
thanks so much  tracy, for everythig you gave us, gives , and given
Mexico loves you Tracy Hogg

(sorry about my english,expect you did understood me)
Title: MExico loves you tracy hogg. thanks so much¡¡¡
Post by: HAIDY on January 28, 2005, 22:05:24 pm
so sorry sara with the notice...i just cant belive it ¡¡¡  it have a few days ive found this wonderful forum, and know about this sadness notice,makes me shocked¡¡¡
ive just saw her tv programs on discovery, and now its my favorite one, she was so intelligent and with just loooking at her you can saw the sensibility and spiruality of her soul,  but i dont gonna talk about her on past, cause i think she always been in our minds,tracy always gonna  live on my mind, cause about her ive learned how to comunicate with my baby, shes a great women and she always be present in every heart of the people she help, like me and my family
thanks so much  tracy, for everythig you gave us, gives , and given
Mexico loves you Tracy Hogg

(sorry about my english,expect you did understood me)
Title: Message from Tracy's family
Post by: Anonymous on January 29, 2005, 03:56:12 am
Ms Hogg's book helped me through the difficult days with my daughter, and now we have the best relationship.  I was so saddened to hear of her passing.  I felt, while reading her book, that she was talking to me and helping me personally.
Title: Deeply saddened
Post by: nhorby on February 04, 2005, 00:58:34 am
Dear Sara and Sophie,

I just found out of your mother's passing today and raced to the website to see if it was really true.  I'm so sorry to hear that it is...I read your mother's books and I've recommended them to every pregnant woman I come across because your mother had such wisdom!  I couldn't have gotten through breastfeeding without her!  And once I became pregnant with my 2nd, I knew it was time to re-read her books so that I could avoid the mistakes I'd made the first time around...I'm so very sorry for your loss.

Pat
Sammy 02-02-02
Jonathan 08-13-05
Title: Message from Tracy's family
Post by: sallyf on February 10, 2005, 07:34:06 am
I just wanted to let you know how much your mother's books have changed our lives. I read the Baby Whisperer when my touchy baby was only a few months old. He is now a very happy and thriving 14 mo old textbook toddler. I believe that he feels more understood, respected, and safer because of your mother and her wonderful books. The world has lost such a treasure. I was truly saddened to hear the news of her passing, and it is with tears in my eyes that I am writing this post to you.
Title: Message from Tracy's family
Post by: sallyf on February 10, 2005, 07:34:39 am
I just wanted to let you know how much your mother's books have changed our lives. I read the Baby Whisperer when my touchy baby was only a few months old. He is now a very happy and thriving 14 mo old textbook toddler. I believe that he feels more understood, respected, and safer because of your mother and her wonderful books. The world has lost such a treasure. I was truly saddened to hear the news of her passing, and it is with tears in my eyes that I am writing this post to you.
Title: Message from Tracy's family
Post by: sallyf on February 10, 2005, 07:35:55 am
I just wanted to let you know how much your mother's books have changed our lives. I read the Baby Whisperer when my touchy baby was only a few months old. He is now a very happy and thriving 14 mo old textbook toddler. I believe that he feels more understood, respected, and safer because of your mother and her wonderful books. The world has lost such a treasure. I was truly saddened to hear the news of her passing, and it is with tears in my eyes that I am writing this post to you.
Title: A great loss to us all
Post by: Adrian Taylor on February 11, 2005, 13:51:52 pm
My wife Joanne and I are desperately sad to hear that Tracy has been taken from us all. We have been able to give our darling 'spirited' baby (born Sept 03) so much more understanding and encouragement with the benefit of Tracy's wisdom - having her books and other resources available has truly been like having the guidance of an older and wiser parent on hand to help us through. Our little girl spent the first six weeks of her life constantly crying out for structure, but we were unable to read any of the signs that mattered. When we first read "The Baby Whisperer" in October 03 we were stunned by Tracy's profound insight and comprehensiveness. The ability to identify different types of cries was a lifeline for us. By adopting EASY we were in a structured routine and surviving much better within a week. From then on we have read other sources of help and information, but have continued to regard Tracy as the clear-headed arbiter of parenting theory and practices.

Bit by bit we started dropping Tracy's name into all kinds of conversations about raising our daughter - "What would Tracy do?" - almost without thinking. All our friends and family have soon learned about her holistic and common-sense ideas if they have spent any amount of time at our home. We have been evangelising her work to all new parents we meet (and will continue to do so).

We had no idea she was unwell and have both shed a tear today for this wise and wonderful friend we have never met. Our sincere condolences go out to all Tracy's family.

We are indebted to Tracy for sharing her experiences with us in a way that has contributed enormously to our quality of life, and has helped ensure we have a happy and confident little toddler. We are so pleased that the development of her work and ideas will continue.

Love and best wishes.

Adrian, Jo and Lily xxx
Title: Deepest Condolences
Post by: SallyFredLenYan on February 15, 2005, 13:43:05 pm
For The Family,
I have just found out the news. I can honestly say, Tracy changed my life. I have two boys only 13months apart. Tracy has had an amazing influence on how I view my family. Through her thoughts and teachings I have come to enjoy every moment I have with them, bad and good. I am the Mum that I always wanted to be and have found myself to be the happiest I have ever been. Happier today than yesterday and not as happy as I plan to be tommorow. Thank you Tracy for all you have given. As a family you must be very proud. Everywhere you look you must see Her.
Thank you from Me and My Family here in the Channel Islands
Title: Deeply Saddened
Post by: Lornao on February 15, 2005, 14:53:00 pm
My husband and I were deeply saddened to hear that Tracy has passed away.  Her role in our lives and that of our two dear children can not be underestimated.  In the long hot summer of 2003 our super-touchy new born was transformed into a darling textbook baby and we regained our lives and our sanity.   Her legacy will be profound and long-reaching.

Lorna, Jonny, Daisy and Olivia
Title: In Tribute of a Wonderful woman, with Deepest Condolences
Post by: Ri on February 17, 2005, 13:41:17 pm
Dear Sara,

thank you for taking the time to post about your Mum.  I have never met Tracy, and have only recently come across her programme 'The Baby Whisperer' on the Discovery Channel.  My Son is almost 15 now, but I would have given anything to have known what to do with him as a 'difficult baby'.  At the end of a recent programme I was shocked to read 'In Memory Of Tracy Hogg', and have come on line to see what has happened.  I am deeply saddened, and tears fall as I type this.  To have touched so many lives, even ones she has never met, is an incredible gift.  I only said to my husband, before the end of the programme, that she was someone I would have dearly loved to have as a personal friend.  She was genuine, and beautiful, both inside and out.  My thoughts are with you and your family, and everyone who is feeling her loss.  May the Gods guide her well.  Know she lives on!  This board is testament to that!  Beauty, Love & Gentleness, Ri x
Title: in sympathy
Post by: lexmom on February 18, 2005, 15:34:46 pm
I was deeply saddened to hear of your loss.  Your mother gave so much of herself to us struggling parents.  Because of her, we are able to be much more effective in dealing with all the "difficult times" with our little ones. 

I will think of her each time Lex wakes up early from a nap, or doesn't sleep through the night. 

She has truly touched the lives of many.  My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.
Title: Message from Tracy's family
Post by: nathansmummy on February 20, 2005, 10:24:30 am
I have only just got back online after several months.I had no idea this had happened.

Sara and Sophie and family,I am so sorry to hear about your sad loss.I love watching The Baby Whisperer,it has given me lots of tips and I have been able to help friends to from watching this programme.Your mum was a truely wonderful person xx
Title: quisiera los teteros de la niñera experta
Post by: isabel on February 23, 2005, 21:18:46 pm
hola  estoy en venezuela   y quisiera  los teteros  o biberones  de tracy por favor  alguien que me pueda  ayudar  como comprar los teteros  gracias  espero su ayuda :?
Title: quisiera los teteros de la niñera experta
Post by: isabel on February 23, 2005, 21:19:12 pm
hola  estoy en venezuela   y quisiera  los teteros  o biberones  de tracy por favor  alguien que me pueda  ayudar  como comprar los teteros  gracias  espero su ayuda :?
Title: thank you for your mum
Post by: lipstick on February 24, 2005, 02:06:59 am
I lost my nephew in aug 2003, he was stillborn at full term + 10 days, i thought my sister would die too. she got through it and gave birth to a BEAUTIFUL baby boy in june 2004. through months of extreme tiredness, heightened emotions and stress...your mum pulled my sister through this anxious time with her marvellous books...thank you for sharing your mum with us x

i hope your mum is "whispering" to my dearly departed nephew up above, that thought makes me smile x
Title: I'm Sorry
Post by: Goddessyn on February 28, 2005, 22:45:21 pm
Dear Sophie & Sara:

My daughter is nearly 4 months old, and I've just recently discovered your mother's book.  I didn't realize that your mother had passed until I found this forum.  Nonetheless, even now, I want to extend my deepest condolences.  I continuously refer to her book as if she were right here telling me/showing me how to be a better parent, a better person, for my daughter.  I feel your loss.  Your mother has truly blessed my life by sharing her simple wisdom, informative knowledge, and great understanding of infants; of this I am truly thankful.  I'm sure you two feel truly blessed to have had such a person as your mother.  I hope the two of you will continue to pass on her legacy of the Baby Whisperer as I will continuously recommend her works to those that yearn for a deeper connection and understanding of their children for generations to come.
Title: My condolences
Post by: Jill11 on March 02, 2005, 14:02:22 pm
Dear Sara and family,

Today I watched The Baby Whisperer on TV as I normally do whenever she is on and at the end of the program it said In Memory of Tracy Hoggs, and this feeling of dread came over me.  I went on the internet to discover that she has passed away.  I am so sorry for your loss.

My husband and I have been working towards adopting a baby for the last two years (we hope it will happen this summer) and we have watched Tracy's videos and read her books.  We both learned so much and because of Tracy's warmth and caring I really felt like I knew her.  My mother who is in California and myself (living in England) both love watching Tracy's show and we always refer to her.  It is like losing a good friend.

You must be so proud of her and how she touched so many people's lives.  Thank you for continuing her work, I'm sure she is looking down on you with great pride and love.

Warm wishes,

Jill
Title: Goodbye Tracy
Post by: thebuzz on March 02, 2005, 16:56:37 pm
I have just heard the terrible news. Tracy was an inspiration to us all, i never  met her in person, but feel I knew her very well through her books and Discovery Health series.

My thoughts go out to her family. She was a wonderful individual who helped so many, and touched everybody who had the pleasure of knowing and learning from her.

Rest In Peace Tracy xx
Title: WATCHING OVER US
Post by: Denise Roe on March 06, 2005, 18:41:11 pm
A PRAYER FOR TRACY

DEAR GOD,

PLEASE TAKE THE SOUL AND SPIRIT OF THIS DEAR DEPARTED ONE INTO THE SWEETEST CORNER OF YOUR MIND,THE MOST TENDER PLACE IN YOUR HEART, THAT SHE AND I, MIGHT BE COMFORTED.
FOR NOW SHE HAS GONE, AND I PRAY DEAR GOD FOR THE STRENGTH TO REMEMBER SHE HAS NOT GONE FAR.

FOR SHE IS WITH YOU AND SHALL REMAIN SO FOREVER.
SHE REMAINS WHITHIN ME, FOR WE ARE ALL IN YOU TOGETHER.

THE CORD THAT BINDS US ONE TO THE OTHER CANNOT BE CUT, SURELY NOT BY DEATH.
FOR YOU, DEAR GOD, HAVE BROUGHT US TOGETHER, AND WE REMAIN IN ETERNAL CONNECTION.
THERE IS NO POWER GREATER THAN YOU.
DEATH IS NOT YOUR MASTER, NOR MINE.
THESE THINGS I BELIEVE AND ASK MY HEART TO REGISTER.
I SURRENDER TO YOU MY GRIEF.
I SURRENDER TO YOU MY PAIN.
PLEASE TAKE CARE OF YOUR SERVANT, MY DEAR ONE WHO HAS PASSED.

AND PLEASE, DEAR LORD, TAKE CARE OF ME.

AMEN


REST IN PEACE TRACY

 ALL MY LOVE DENISE XXXXX

 (A PRAYER FROM THE COURSE IN MIRACLES)
Title: I'm so sorry
Post by: Tiffany Manser on April 27, 2005, 11:47:53 am
I've just found out I'm pregnant and this was the first site I wanted to visit to prepare myself for first-time motherhood using Tracy's wisdom. 
I am shocked to hear that we lost her last year, and my sympathies and best wishes go out to all of her family and friends.
The world will be a slightly darker place without her, although we will be eternally blessed with the wisdom that she left behind.
Kind regards
Title: What would life have been like without Tracy's advice?!
Post by: Kirst 32 on May 13, 2005, 21:24:45 pm
I was fortunate to read Secrets of the Baby Whisperer a couple of months before the birth of my beautiful son, Connor.  Having lost my own mother to cancer aged 17 and having no experience with babies at all, I was relieved to find a source of advice that really made sense and took the fear away - at least a little!  I breastfed (plus some formula to give me a break) for 4.5 months, he slept through the night from 9 weeks old!  I was able to take him shopping because I knew he was fed and rested.  I could leave him with his grandad for a couple of hours and catch up on sleep or spend some time alone with my husband.  We could manage and he was happy!

I'm really sad to hear of Tracy's illness and death, but wow!  To die knowing you've given even complete strangers so much - who could really ask for more?  Her family must be so proud and I'm sure all who have benefitted from Tracy's wisdom and care will wish them all the best.
Title: Message from Tracy's family
Post by: AmandaJCM on May 15, 2005, 04:28:03 am
Through her books, Tracy truly guided us into parenthood.  We have a happy baby, and we have a calm and settled life with a newborn; we owe that luxury and pleasure to her.  I sing her praises to anyone who will listen, and think we are all blessed to have been taught these methods.  Very sad, but very grateful.
Title: Prayers for Tracy
Post by: Ana Karina on May 17, 2005, 00:15:35 am
Dear Sara and Sophie.
 I just read your note about your mom passing away. I was very saddened for I had no idea that she had passed away, since I accessed the site for the forst time this weekend. I am so grateful for Tracy's help. Even though I never met Tracy, I found her books so helpful, and written with such love and happiness, that I made it a point to have my husband buy several copies in the US so that we could give them as gifts to our friends who were and are expecting babies. They have been equally touched by her beautiful books.
I can't imagine what you both must feel. In this earth Tracy is and will be terribly missed by many. I am so sure, however, that a person as loving as your mom is without a doubt in Heaven now. I will keep her in my prayers, and I will keep thanking her for her help. Just yesterday my husband and I started the pu/pd method with our baby Natalia Isabel and it's working wonders. We were so happy that our eyes both were moistened as we thanked the Lord for His help. And guess who was the instrument of his help....yes, your mom.
Now you both continue to be instruments of God's hand by keeping up this wonderful site which is such an enourmous blessing for all moms who access it.
Congratulations for your strength and for giving continuity to Tracy's legacy here on Planet Earth.

Much love in Christ,

Ana Karina
Title: Shocked
Post by: Kirsty Atkinson on May 25, 2005, 10:04:55 am
Oh my goodness, this is the first time Ihave logged onto this site - I can not belive that Tracy is gone... her book is forever by my side.  She was a very knowledgable and caring individual - her suggestions always work for me and I will always treasure the advise that had made our family so happy. Goodbye Tracy xxx(http://)
Title: Message from Tracy's family
Post by: alison reed on June 09, 2005, 20:34:03 pm
:cry:
I have just read the sad and very upseting post about tracy. I wish to post my upmost regards to tracy's friends and mostly her family.  She will be sorely missed but as long as this site and her books are still out there her heart and help and love for her work will go on. I lost a friend who was like a mother to me almost a year ago to cancer so I now how much this will be still hurting her family.

My love, heart and regards to tracy's friends and family
Title: Message from Tracy's family
Post by: finlaysmammy on June 28, 2005, 19:20:51 pm
Dear Tracys family
Ive only learned of Tracys death today and immediatley logged onto this website to pay my condolances.
I too lost my mother to cancer 5 years ago and know how you must be feeling. The pain never leaves but becomes bearable and I think of her everyday, even more so now i have my son whose 18 months old.
I think its wonderful that you're keeping her work going, and that a piece of her is forever in you and she always will be. As my mum said to me, a couple of weeks before she died, to be with her, all i had to do was think of the memories and reach into my heart and she would be there.

my heartfelt sympathies go out to you all.
rest in peace Tracy.xxxx
Title: Message from Tracy's family
Post by: emjaytee on July 21, 2005, 01:44:05 am
I have just started watching 'The Baby Whisperer' on the Discovery Health channel, and I have learnt so much. What an inspiring woman! I was totally shocked to discover today when I logged on here for the first time that Tracey has passed away. I had no idea.  :cry:

My sympathies go to all her friends and family, and I hope to learn a lot more from this amazing woman through this site. (((((Hugs)))))

Megan in Australia
Title: I am so sorry for your loss
Post by: mama2bella&alessia on July 26, 2005, 21:51:01 pm
I have not met your mother, but to me she is a fantastic person.  Everyday that I parent first my daughter Isabella and now our new daughter Alessia, I always refer to what I learned from Tracy.  She totally is the reason that my daughters are so well behaved and adjusted.  When I logged on today for the firsttime to the website and found out she had passed, I was in tears.  She was and always will be a part of the lives of her parents and children that she helped.  Thank you so much to Tracy and her wonderful family! God bless you!
Title: Message from Tracy's family
Post by: chell on August 12, 2005, 17:55:30 pm
Although I never met Tracy, it feels as though I have. It is so sad and such a loss that she is gone. The work that she did was so amazing. She has really changed my life, through the dedication and kindness of all the people who have helped me and my baby, Jacob on this website.

God Bless to Tracy and all of her family.

Cheryl
Title: Message from Tracy's family
Post by: DREAMER on August 31, 2005, 01:31:51 am
I only recently found Tracy's show on television.  I am not much of a television viewer but I was hooked and recommended it to other friends, I plan on purchasing one of her books as soon as I get to Chapter's and just found & joined this forum the other day which I am also hooked on! Now I just found this news and feel as if I missed out on ever having the opportunity of meeting Tracy which in some odd way saddens me as I am new to everything here and feel as though I knew her a little! I can't explain it.  I am very sorry about this great loss. I have many members in my families with cancer or whom have "gone home" from such and I offer my deepest condolances for yours.
It is wonderful to think that so many people still rely on her wisdom even though she is not physically with us, to help us with our precious ones.
Title: Message from Tracy's family
Post by: eileen on November 08, 2005, 22:44:25 pm
I am both shocked and deeply saddened by the news of Tracy's passing.  I just found this website after recently giving birth to my second child.  Tracy's first book was a major help to me with my first child.  My first husband was killed on September 11th while working at the WTC and our son was only 10 weeks old at the time.  We both read Tracy's book together and it helped us to get our son on a managable schedule and allowed us to share in a lot more happy times during our sons early days of infancy, which are also some of the last days we shared.  Tracy gave us a gift in those last moments which I am eternally grateful for. 

Now with a new marriage and a new baby I found myself once again reaching for Tracy's book.  (Erin is 6 weeks and the book is helping me keep my sanity.)  I went on this website in the hopes to thank the wonderful baby whisperer who gave and continues to give me strength as a new mom.

I am so sorry for you all that loved her and called her your own.  I am all too familiar with the intense pain of grief and am so sorry that you have to take this long endless journey.  Time , although takes us further away from our loved ones that we lost, does ease the pain, but it never really makes it go away.  I hope the beautiful memories that you shared and knowing how much your Tracy was cherished by so many strangers that she helped will bring you comfort, peace, and strength. Her spirit will live on through all that she touched.

Much peace,
Eileen Erwin
Title: Re: Message from Tracy's family
Post by: maritamar on February 07, 2006, 02:34:45 am
I didnt know.. I found out tonigth..eventhougt I read her books everytime I need to get strength.. I Cried so much when I read that I will not be able to know her, she who has been like my teacher in so many ways, thanks to her I want to speacialice in child psychology... I can bealive I found out a year and a half later... I can stop crying... her teachins have been so great to my touchy little one, I wanted so much to meet her some day, it was like a dream I had... and to think that my baby was 1 month when she join the Lord... thats something Im certain about... she helped me so much, and im sure so many families too! I pray the Lord for her family and thank him for her life!


Thanks Sara for open your heart to us...
Title: Re: Message from Tracy's family
Post by: Tatiana on February 08, 2006, 08:31:43 am

Dear Sara and Sophie,

I dyscovered Tracy from her first book (the only translated in italian). the most important think I've learned is to give and teach indipendence to my child. A symple concept that only your mother with her wonderful book passed me. This concept changed my way of beeng a mother and made it EASY of corse.
Your mother changed the roules and was able to tell evrybody how to do it.
Thank you for keeping this site, and thank you Tracy for all you teached.

tatiana
Title: Re: Message from Tracy's family
Post by: stephanie 78 on February 08, 2006, 21:22:44 pm
Dear Sara and Sophie

I am so desperately sorry for your loss. I only read that your mum had passed over yesterday and feel sad that such a wonderful life was take from you. She always appeared to be a vibrant and loving person - a true nurse if ever I saw one.

I wish to offer thanks for Tracy and May her leagacy live on in you 


Stephanie - Niamhs mummy
Title: Re: Message from Tracy's family
Post by: ma on February 26, 2006, 01:36:36 am
Hi Sara and Sophie,
I am so sorry for your loss.   Even though some time has passed now, she is fondly remembered by myself and many other parents in this world.   I remember reading her first book when my son was 2 months old.  He is now 5 years old.  The information she taught was priceless and the loving way that she shared it was even better.  I still think of the email question that she had responded to me back in 2001.  I was astounded that she actually responded to someone she didn't even know.  What a fabulous, caring lady.  Thank you for sharing her with us... my thoughts are with you and your families.
Lynne
Title: Re: Message from Tracy's family
Post by: badger on March 18, 2006, 22:43:55 pm
Hi I just felt that I had to add to this post. I have only just found out about your loss and a'm really sorry. It came as a real shock to me and my partner that Tracy has died. We feel that she has part raised our son Alex. It is a tribute to her great insight of children that she can be such a great influence years after her untimely passing. As a greater person as I once said 'Age shall not weary her, or the years condem. She will be remembered'.
My thoughts go out to her familly.
Badger.
Title: Re: Message from Tracy's family
Post by: kirstenscolesmama14 on March 27, 2006, 03:19:33 am
I am so sorry for your loss. I only realized that Tracy had died when I was re-introduced to the Babywhisperer community after my son was born. My DD (born 2002) was my first and I remember thinking that if I could afford it I would hire Tracy to come into my home. With the birth of my DS (2005) and dealing with PPD I was looking for someone to consult (this is when I found out about the tragic loss of this beautiful woman). So I instead spent a long time reading this book (over and over again). I needed the BW book to help me deal with a very "difficult" son who by using her technique has truly become my "Angel" boy. I am interested in pursuing a career to honour Tracy and the wonderful work she has done. I'm not sure where to start but I will find my way. I want desperately to become a moderator and with time and patience I will do so. I will do anything right now to show my appreciation for her. She truly was God sent in my life.

Once again I am very sorry for your loss,

Suzie, Kirsten ( 3 1/2) & Cole (8 months)
Title: Re: Message from Tracy's family
Post by: Bexmummy on April 17, 2006, 12:53:17 pm
I'm so sorry that Tracey passed away as she was a wonderful woman and spent her life helping so many people. It's a lovely thing to hear of someone who works tirelessly towards making the world a better place for us all. To make this world kind and loving for little ones is to weave the future of the human race.

I can see from this site that people are continuing her work and supporting each other, which is a great thing to see. I got so much help from Tracey's book when Rebecca was little, especially because she suffered from severe eczema. The E.A.S.Y plan made things much...well... easier for us all. Fortunately, she's mostly over it now and is a bright, bouncy fun-filled little girl.

My heart-felt condolences to you Sara and Sophie... You are the result of your mother's efforts and love too. I bet she was very proud of you.

Love Vic xoxoxoxoxoxoxox
Title: Re: Message from Tracy's family
Post by: Missy Lou on April 21, 2006, 21:15:41 pm
I had no idea either.  There have been SO many times in the past 10 weeks that I've wished to be the person in one of her books that she miraculously helps.  My little one's life and my life have been made so much easier because I read your mom's books.  It's amazing how much she knew about babies.  I can't imagine what the past weeks would have been like without her help.  I know that my daughter's life will be made easier because your mom taught me how to be a good mom.  Your mom was such a blessing to so many women and I am so thankful that someone had the good sense to give me the Baby Whisperer. :-*
Title: Re: Message from Tracy's family
Post by: LauraTH on June 18, 2006, 14:22:06 pm

Hello

I felt that I needed to send a message to Tracey's girls after learning of the passing of their mom.

I have been having a very difficult time with my second daughter and it was recommended that I read the baby whisperer. It gave me a glimmer of hope and allowed me to start to realize that my family can make it through this stressful time. I then found this web site and have felt even more impowered, but I think what makes me realize that God as guided me to you is the coincidence that my daughters name is Sara Zocha which is Sophie in polish. Maybe this sounds corny but that is a very suprising coincidence. I do believe your mother is continuing her work through Gods eyes and I thank her and you for this wealth of knowledge and support.

God blessed your family with your mom and we are blessed to have been able to hear her words of wisdom.

thank you,
Laura
Title: Re: Message from Tracy's family
Post by: aussiestyle71 on July 25, 2006, 21:45:34 pm
I would just like to let you know that I was living far away in Canada, away from my Australian mum, when I had my first two children. Your Mum's book was like my Mum talking to me whenever I needed help. My Mum passed away at Christmas time 2004 and my third child arrived 6 weeks ago. I have just purchased your Mum's new book hoping that her wisdom would help me yet again. I was saddened to read that your Mum too had passed. I am just grateful for my Mum and your Mum's wisdom with child rearing and hope to be as good as my Mum was and as good as your Mum seemed to be.
Thanks for letting me write, Carmen.
Title: Re: Message from Tracy's family
Post by: urbantis on April 20, 2007, 02:13:52 am
hello Sara and Sophie, I just want to said that I am very sorry for your loss, there have been more than 2 years now but I need to said this to you anyway. I´m first time mom and she helped and helps me everyday, she is in my mind every single day, I tough about you so many times, because Tracy always talk about you on her books. she would be very proud, and I imagine how proud you are! she is a blessing in our lives. (sorry about my bad English, I´m still learning). god bless you all.
Title: Re: Message from Tracy's family
Post by: OnyxRayne on May 28, 2007, 15:24:49 pm
Thanks you, Sara, for your kind words. Your mother helped new parents old(I read of a fan that is in her 40s) and young(I was 20 when I had Ella, and I've been reading your mother books a lot.) I was reading the first book not even 30 minutes ago and started to tear up.
I wish I could have met Tracy, she seemed like such a caring woman.
I lost my mother myself recently, so I can definitely see where you are coming from.
Our prayers are with you and your family.
Sincerely,
Mat, Lisa, and Ella Newcomb
Title: Re: Message from Tracy's family
Post by: brow1562 on June 07, 2007, 13:51:50 pm
I just stumbled upon this note- I had no idea that Tracy, the Baby Whisperer, became so ill. All through reading her book, using her methods and recently accessing this web site I pictured her alive and well, out there somewhere in the world helping families in person.

I just want to say, I only read one of her books and it has definitely changed my life and that of my baby girl Isabelle. Suddenly, we are getting 8 hours of sleep per night, without interuption, from interuptions every 2 hours all night! And now that I have implemented EASY, my baby is much happier and so am I! Tracy's family can know that her work continues to help so many families world-wide.

My best wishes for the health, happiness and peace of Tracy's family.

Heather
St. Gallen
Switzerland
Title: Re: Message from Tracy's family
Post by: Elvira on June 29, 2007, 11:46:36 am
Tracy is helping people even now.  I never heard of her until I saw a documentary in Discovery Channel about two months ago. Then a father was telling me about difficulties with his month old baby that sounded to me like reflux, and I mentioned to him the baby whisperer and what I had seen in the documentary, some advice was immediately helpful so I looked for this page and passed him the link.

She is not with us physically, but she is very much with us in every other way and still helps parents...and babies.   
Title: Re: Message from Tracy's family
Post by: We Three on July 21, 2007, 01:50:09 am
Sara...I hope it helps you to know that through your mother, I believe my life may have been saved. I went through a horrible case of post-partum depression coupled with anxiety disorder following the birth of my daughter last December. If I'm being honest, there were times when I lost the desire to live. This site and the women on it were a lifeline for me, and helped me through the darkest, scariest experience of my life. The love, friendship and safety that exists here is astounding, and I know that your mother is smiling at all of us and our babies. I pray that grief moves through you gently, and that the love of your Mom keeps you going. I hope that it gives you peace to know that the legacy of your Mom has not only guided countless women and families, but also perhaps saved lives.
 My best to you and yours....and all of my gratitude to your dear Mother.
Title: Re: Message from Tracy's family
Post by: Ennypen on July 21, 2007, 20:25:13 pm
Thanks for sharing that - it means a lot to us all that we are helping to keep Tracy's work alive in a way that she would have been proud of.

H xx
Title: Re: Message from Tracy's family
Post by: WVMom on September 17, 2008, 02:57:25 am
Your mother touched my life and my babies lives in ways I never would have imagined.  Your mother was a God-send to us. 

When I discovered your mother's passing, I mourned like she was my own family.  In a way, I am still mourning her loss.

She will always be in my heart.
Title: Re: Message from Tracy's family
Post by: DebMcGee on November 06, 2008, 10:54:03 am
Tracy really was an amazing woman that we should all admire. I discovered her last book about a month ago, not realising how much it meant to her to finish it before she passed away until I read about her on this site, so it means even more.

I also want to say how grateful I am for this website so keep up the good work.

Tracy will be in a better place now, probably sush patting the angels she's surrounded by.



Title: Re: Message from Tracy's family
Post by: Ennypen on November 06, 2008, 15:07:42 pm
 :-*
Title: Re: Message from Tracy's family
Post by: NewCanadianMom on May 18, 2009, 01:44:30 am
Dear Sara and Sophie,

I was so sad to learn that your mom passed away. What a special woman she was and what an incredible impact she has had upon the world.

I am very thankful for her books. She has already helped me so much in these early weeks of parenthood. I am sending much love and positive thoughts to both of you.
Title: Re: Message from Tracy's family
Post by: blitznstitch on June 16, 2009, 04:14:46 am
 :'(
I just bought her book and am using it with my little one. I had no idea...her methods seem to be working. I am sad to know she passed away. But, she lives on through her work which is continuing to help tired and confused first mothers such as myself.
Title: Re: Message from Tracy's family
Post by: Lili ~1st time Mommy~ on July 04, 2009, 14:43:30 pm

    Recently I read her 3rd and last book which I had no idea she had passed away until I came into the website...like many moms here I have been touched by her book which is helping me out with my baby girl. I will use her methods even when I have another baby. Thank you Tracy for the wonderful books and the legacy you left behind. Sara & Sophie you truly were blessed to have Tracy as your mom, I am sorry for your loss as well, but I know you are always happy and touched to hear how she helped all of us along our journey as moms.  :)
Title: God Bless Tracy
Post by: neriquel on August 27, 2009, 22:48:47 pm
Hi, I'm from Mexico. I have a 4 month daughter and I had some problems with her Eating and Sleeping. I wanted to get a routine but wouldn't find one (Iwas going back to work). When I found the book I tried to buy it here in Mexico, but there aren't any books here, so I found the ebook (the 1st one I've bought). I can't believe how much it helped me. I've told my father and husband all what I've found, so now besides me, they're suggesting it to some other parents.
When I knew Tracy wasn´t alive any more, I got very very sad, because she was now so familiar to me. She had become like part of my family, and helped me so much to have a happy baby, but you know? It made sense... I think good people is taken by God very young, because they're just ready to get to Him, and I'm sure she was.

Thank you Tracy and congratulations for your 2 girls for having that kind of a MOTHER.
Title: Re: Message from Tracy's family
Post by: thehunnipot on November 23, 2009, 06:33:15 am
I have only just joined the forum today and read this post first. My thoughts are with you even though time has passed. I got given your mums book The Baby Whisperer and started reading it the other day when I had no where else to turn with problems I was having with my month old daughter. It has been a rock and if anything it felt like I had someone that understood everything I was going through unlike some health care professionals I have dealt with. I have also started to implement some of the tips and so far so good.

Keep up the good work and just to say your mum lives on...xxxxx
Title: Re: Message from Tracy's family
Post by: Kcatzz on May 28, 2010, 18:19:47 pm
The Baby Whisperer has been a god send.  First with my oldest son, who is now six and now with my newest son who is nine months.  I had not realized that Tracy had passed away until just today when I found this site.  Tracy's words of wisdom have been especially important to me, as I lost my mother when I was only sixteen, and did not have any elders to pass on their "tricks of the trade".  Tracy's knowledge had pulled me up when I was down, gave stability to my boys and helped me understand just exactly who those little ones were - personality and all.  I send thoughts and well wishes to Tracy's family, thank you for keeping her good work alive and available as there are so many new moms who will benefit.  God Bless you and Thank you for all you have done. 
Title: Re: Message from Tracy's family
Post by: mafemaba on December 05, 2010, 17:48:06 pm
Dear Sara and Sophie,

I recently became a mother of twins and came across your mother's book. I read it front to back and thought what an amazing person she is and how great her advise. Then, I tried to contact her through this website and came to know that she had passed. I felt so sad to find that out. I felt her kindness and love and felt I got to know her. I am sure you remember her now with a lot of happiness and the pain of her loss has dissipated with time. Hope you are doing well and I appreciate the opportunity to be part of this website and have questions answered by other parents whose lives were also touched by her loving advise. All the best to you and your families. Maria
Title: Re: Message from Tracy's family
Post by: RNmommy on December 13, 2010, 14:42:53 pm
I was searching on the web to see how I could send Tracy an email to thank her for all her book did for my family and I came across her obituary.  I started to cry as I couldn't imagine not being able to share our story and thank the lady who made it all possible.  She was taken too early and I just want to pass along that her book saved my sanity and has made my son so much happier and such a great sleeper.  I am passing along her book and links to this site for all my friends who have babies/toddlers who don't sleep!
Title: Re: Message from Tracy's family
Post by: my3girlsjde on December 13, 2010, 15:24:54 pm
It's amazing how the ideas and beliefs of one wonderful woman has sparked a method to caring for our babies and an entire community. This community has been my lifeline since becoming a mother and has shared so many lessons that I try to implement every day.
My girls are my world as I'm sure you are to your mother. She has inspired me to be a better mother and tune in to the needs of my children and respect them. This is what sets her apart from every other child raising philosophy I've come across.
Truly an amazing woman, and all around the world babies are happier, and so are their parents due to her great insight.
Title: Re: Message from Tracy's family
Post by: MamaLiz on August 18, 2011, 22:02:25 pm
I have learned and grown so much and am a better, more confident and connected, and most importantly happier mother (with a happier DD and DH) for the things I've learned from Tracy's book and the ladies on this forum.  I was so happy and lost and confused and overjoyed and scared and TIRED in the early days of motherhood.  Having lost my own mother at 10, I had only my sisters to turn to, who were helpful, but also busy with their own families.  When I had a (million) question(s) or was in tears at 3 in the morning, I had the forum and her books to turn to.  I didn't post on the forum for a very, very long time, but learned and took and comfort in reading others' questions and the many responses, the FAQ, the interview with Tracy etc - the feeling of family on the forum and the openness and willingness to help others - strangers - struck me right away as being different from the other parenting books and sites.  Even her writing, the tone of her advice, there's just something about it that was so comforting and reassuring and REAL - like a mother passing on her wisdom.  I later came to understand that was exactly what it was - she wasn't MY mother, but it didn't matter.

I am overwhelmed by the gratitude I feel, and I am in awe not only of her knowledge and experience, but also to think of the many, many babies, mothers and fathers on whom she's had an impact.  This forum is evidence of that, clearly, but I know there are even more out there (incl. the person who gave me this book who didn't know the site existed).  She must have been such an amazing woman, an inspiration, and sanity-saver to so many.
Title: Re: Message from Tracy's family
Post by: vichill41 on June 18, 2013, 03:29:40 am
Hi, I am so sad to find out that Tracy has passed. I just joined the forum tonight. I  was told about the baby whisperer from a customer at work. It is the best advice I have been given.  My daughter is 9 months old and I know that knowing the information I learned from her has shaped my whole life. It has made motherhood an amazing experience. I will forever be grateful for the knowledge she has given to me. Thank you! Thank you! Thank you!
Title: Re: Message from Tracy's family
Post by: Fede on June 21, 2014, 12:45:35 pm
Hello Sara,

I'm from Italy and I've got a child (5 month). Your mother's books are near the bed, in case of emergency. If I know what to do with my baby when there's a problem, I have to thank these books!
I would like to have known her. (Sorry for my English)
I would like you two to know how much Tracy's teachings have been useful to me.
To grow up a child is really difficult but, especially the last book, explains perfectly every possible problem and how to solve it. I've never had experience with little children but reading your mothers words I've got time for me. Thamks to EASY routine.
Federica