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Title: Why I am so happy to be breastfeeding!
Post by: Samuel's mum on March 30, 2006, 11:17:32 am
This board is often about the struggles of breastfeeding and is visited by lots of mums new to breastfeeding and I feel like a bit of celebration!!

Here are a few of my thoughts:
I love the fact that Sam is so happy and content when he's settling down for a feed.
I love the fact I've been able to travel to Japan, America and all over the UK and haven't needed to worry about bottles.
I love the fact my breasts feel so useful having taken up so much space for so long!
I love the fact I have discovered a subject of study which I found so interesting and feels so important.
I love the fact our feeding time is such a calming and loving and safe place for both of us.

I'm not going to list all the health benefits of breastfeeding here as they can be found in lots of different places. Here are a few links if you are interested in reading more:

http://aappolicy.aappublications.org/cgi/content/full/pediatrics%3b100/6/1035

http://www.oregon.gov/DHS/ph/bf/benefits.shtml

I know not everyone has the choice to feed their baby in the way they want to so I feel it's important those of us who can appreciate it.
 
This link has interesting information for mothers who choose either breastfeeding or bottlefeeding.
http://www.bbc.co.uk/parenting/your_kids/babies_feeding.shtml#breast_or_bottle?

Title: Re: Why I am so happy to be breastfeeding!
Post by: rooby-rooby-roo on March 30, 2006, 13:24:24 pm
Great post Emma! I am so pleased to be breastfeeding too! It is something that i can do and do well and without too much worry, and for someone (me!) with fragile self-esteem that is so great to know!! I love that Red is now old enough to get excited about breastfeeding and takes moments to look up at me and grin or blow me an affectionate raspberry!

Funny - last night i was feeding him at about 10pm ish. Not normally done, but i had gone out to a concert at my sister's school and just got back, he woke up and even though he had a bottle at bedtime from Daddy i fed him. He wasn't really hungry but enjoyed the comfort and when he was nearly asleep he reached his hand up to my mouth for me to kiss. It was such a quiet, special moment. :) :)
Title: Re: Why I am so happy to be breastfeeding!
Post by: Mariek on March 30, 2006, 13:31:40 pm
I'm glad you've posted this Emma.

When I was having Grace I was so gung-ho about how I was going to breastfeed and how it was going to be easy "Women have been doing this for centuries... yada yada yada...". You get the idea. Well, pride cometh before a fall don't they say. When I couldn't BF (too long a story to recount, again) I was absolutely gutted.

I'll certainly be trying again when #2 arrives - but you can rest assured I won't be quite so pig-headed about it this time round..... and I certainly won't be taking it for granted if I'm successful. It's good that people appreciate that they can do this and how special it is.

thanks

Title: Re: Why I am so happy to be breastfeeding!
Post by: JacobMarksMummy on March 30, 2006, 14:18:20 pm
Brilliant idea Emma!

I love bf my DS as its the only time in the day when he is still. Its a speacil little cuddle just for us and it makes DS healthier and me healthier. I love the fact he is getting benifits that will help him not only now but also all his life.  I love the fact I could go on a camping holiday with him when he was three months old and didnt even have to wory or think about feeding him. Its the best kind of take-away and being a tight ar*e I love the fact its free!!!!  :)
Title: Re: Why I am so happy to be breastfeeding!
Post by: evelyn on March 30, 2006, 15:35:23 pm
Before i had my 2nd dd (ddno.1 was ff, me young and uninformed), I couldnt even read the breastfeeding chapters in the baby books....i dont know why but i found it disturbing, but strangely i knew i wanted to give it a go for a while....
6 months later and we are still bf!
I think it is the most special time of my life, the only word i can use to describe the feeling of closeness when we are feeding is "heaven".
Even now with treatment resistant thrush the thoughts of stopping bf makes me lonesome.  I only ever intended feeding for 3 months but now see how i could stop for another while, especially as i am returning to work next week, as i know we will have our specia; times together.
Title: Re: Why I am so happy to be breastfeeding!
Post by: nathan_smom on March 30, 2006, 15:40:40 pm
Thanks for posting this thread!  When I first began BF I would literally count the minutes before the feed would be over..I was in pain everywhere...didn't know how long I could do it!  But as the days passed, it gradually got better and better.  I remember thinking..if I only BF for a month it woud be beneficial for my son....well, over 7 months later I am still doing it and I am SOOOO glad I stuck with it.  In fact I get a bit teary eyed when I think about the thought of weaning him!  My advice would be to give it a try...you might be surprised
Title: Re: Why I am so happy to be breastfeeding!
Post by: woopster on March 30, 2006, 16:09:28 pm
I'm not bf this time round - too many things against us.  And I REALLY miss it.  I bf DS1 for 17 months and loved (nearly  ;)) every minute f it.
Title: Re: Why I am so happy to be breastfeeding!
Post by: kgmf123 on March 30, 2006, 19:18:09 pm
Hello,

I have had two children, one was exclusively ff and one is exclusively bf and although I don't enjoy the bf experience (I posted on the other thread) I am so happy to be bf for the following reasons:

(i) My baby is positively thriving and hasn't been ill at all
(ii) She seems a lot less 'colicky' than her brother was
(iii) Feeding is very quick
(iv) I got back to my pre pg weight after 4 months (took 18 months when I ff)

So despite not enjoying it, if I was to have another child I would certainly bf again. I would say if you are pg and reading this and undecided on what feeding method to choose, I would always recommend bf, but just be prepared that the experience may be 'different' to what you expect.

Kat x
Title: Re: Why I am so happy to be breastfeeding!
Post by: Lilah'sMommy on March 30, 2006, 20:10:34 pm
Thanks for posting this!

I love BFing because:

1: It made dd so portable when she was young... all I needed to leave the house was diapers, and my breasts.
2: Of he special bond we share.
3: DD has been sick only twice in her life, and only once very badly.
4: I have a minute to just sit and enjoy my toddler, my wonderful little girl.
5: She loves my milk!
6: I lost all my (ample-- 50 lbs!) preg weight by 5 months and then proceeded to lose 12 more lbs.
7: Because it's something only I can do for her!
Title: Re: Why I am so happy to be breastfeeding!
Post by: deenz on March 31, 2006, 02:06:24 am
I am extremely grateful that I am able to bf, and that I had absolutely fantastic support in the early difficult days with dd1!

I love the closeness, little eyes watching me, little hands stroking my hair/chest/face.
I love all the amazing benefits that bf'ing has.
I love that through bf'ing I have been able to become passionate about it, and love learning new things about bf'ing.
Title: Re: Why I am so happy to be breastfeeding!
Post by: KellyC on March 31, 2006, 13:54:45 pm
I contributed to the other post too - unfortunately not everything is straight forward!  I love that I'm breastfeeding Zander because I know I'm giving him the best start in life and it makes me proud that I've been able to do it for so long.  I secretly love it if Zander's upset and daddy can't calm him because he doesn't have the equipment I do (I don't do this often - AP and all that but there have been occassions where it's been necessary!).  I love that I don't have to clean and sterilise bottles (very lazy indeed!) and that breastmilk is free.  Lastly I'm pleased that my breasts aren't empty sacks that reach my knees just yet - for this reason alone (let alone all the others!) I really don't want to stop!

Kelly x
Title: Re: Why I am so happy to be breastfeeding!
Post by: Peppermom on March 31, 2006, 16:35:01 pm
Me too! Me too!

I love that little coughing noise she makes when she is hungry. 

I love that she has to feel my skin when she nurses (makes it hard to nurse in publis sometimes though).

I love that sometimes I am the only one that she wants to calm her.

I love that she wants to lay in bed beside and nurse to go to sleep everynight like clockwork at 8:00.  It calms me and I sleep better after that too!

I love that my employer is understanding and even made a special spot for me to pump after the births of all three of my babies.

I love that knowing that fat little smiling face and "michellinman" legs are a direct result of my boobies & milk!

I am going to boohoo here at work thinking about it.............thanks for posting this!
Title: Re: Why I am so happy to be breastfeeding!
Post by: jbepko on March 31, 2006, 20:32:36 pm
I love breastfeeding because
1) No one else can do it for my baby- as a working mom that's really important
2) he always plays with my hands while nursing
3) he is just so cute when his eyes light up at nursing time
4) it means I don't have to pump!!!
5) I know how much I will miss it when we wean
6) its my special time with him....and he is growing so fast
Title: Re: Why I am so happy to be breastfeeding!
Post by: Christa on March 31, 2006, 20:51:13 pm
I love breastfeeding for an opposite reason than Samuel's mum:
I love the fact my breasts feel so useful having taken up so LITTLE space for so long! Mine are very small (32A at the most) and they were certainly not useful for attracting men.

I love the fact the size has nothing to do with how well one can breastfeed. My lo was almost exclusively breastfed and everyone who meets him comments on how healthy/ sturdy/ exuberant etc etc he is.

I love that he can tell me he's hungry even at this young age... if I am holding him he squirms his body to the side and starts rooting around, he's very obivous.
Title: Re: Why I am so happy to be breastfeeding!
Post by: owelley on April 04, 2006, 13:59:35 pm
I LOVE BREASTFEEDING!!!  For me, nothing else comes close.  There's just this certain connection that I feel to my daughter everytime.  We had a rough start at first but I just thank God that he gave me the courage and strength even thru cracked nipples etc. to NOT give up!!
Title: Re: Why I am so happy to be breastfeeding!
Post by: mommytsa on April 09, 2006, 19:49:27 pm
I am happy to breastfeed because

1.  I get to have a special time with him
2.  Only I can do it
3.  I am giving him the best food that is tailor made for him
4.  I am doing everything in my power to help him overcome his milk allergy
5.  He hasn't gotten nearly as sick as a lot of other babies do
6.  Mama milk grows big healthy babies!

I can hardly believe that I'm still nursing at nearly 11 months!  I'm so glad that I didn't give up when it was so hard in the beginning (he wouldn't latch for 6 weeks, so I pumped pretty much constantly and totally felt like a cow).  DON'T GIVE UP!  Much like pregnancy, it'll all be worth it in the end.
Title: Re: Why I am so happy to be breastfeeding!
Post by: KellyC on April 09, 2006, 21:34:14 pm
At just over 7 months I've discovered breastfeeding lying down (think he was too small until now!) - for Zander's first feed of the day I bring him into bed and feed him lying down cuddling him and it's the best feeling in the world!  I also love the way that as soon as he sees 'his' booby he opens his mouth wide like a baby bird  :)

Kelly x
Title: Re: Why I am so happy to be breastfeeding!
Post by: Vanessa S on April 11, 2006, 14:43:21 pm
While I was breastfeeding I'd have said the best part was the experience. He was just sooo cute while he was eating.

But now that we stopped (2 weeks ago) I'd have to say that the best part was NO DIAPER RASH.  :(  Since I've stopped breastfeeding we're constantly having to air out his little behind so that no rash develops. We were using Pampers but now we're slowly switching to cloth without a cover and frequent changes. Seems to be helping.
Title: Re: Why I am so happy to be breastfeeding!
Post by: katriona on April 11, 2006, 15:46:50 pm
I love that when I'm breastfeeding Theron I can relax and know that he's safe. It sounds weird, but it seems that I always have an ear open toward him, even at night while we're sleeping, and only when he's breastfeeding, and I know he's safe there, and enjoying himself, can I truly relax. Also, if things like naps or night-time sleep have gone totally to pot, I feel that at least I'm doing something right when he feeds! He loves it so, and has grown so well on it.

I also love that sometimes nursing is the only thing that will calm him. Great when he's ill or teething. We were in the ER about a month ago in the middle of the night, and he had to have one of those awful chest x-rays done. (They kinda sit him on a bicycle seat and close a plastic shell around his chest, hold his arms over his head, and take the picture.) He was so upset and stressed out  :'( Nothing would calm him, so I found a quiet corner and tried to nurse. He started calming even as I got him horizontal, and tried desperately to find my boob. I hadn't even undone my mismatched pyjamas (listen to your mother said about wearing clean underwear and matching jammies, just in case!) and he was whimpering and rooting away. It about broke my heart to see him, but I was so glad that I could offer him that comfort. Eventually he fell asleep there, and I just left him resting while still latched on. Everytime the staff came in they'd loudly chirp "EATING?" and I'd whisper back, "No, sleeping."

I also love that DH has totally come round to the idea of breastfeeding. When we were discussing our options before Theron arrived, DH felt that formula was the way to go, as breastfeeding would just be one more thing I'd have to learn, and one more pressure that I'd have to deal with. He also wasn't sure how he felt about it, people staring at me etc. DH even went so far as to bring a second-hand fridge home from work, with the "brilliant" idea that we could store formula in the fridge in our bedroom, so he wouldn't have to get up in the night to help with the night-time feeds. He could just lean over, open the fridge, and retrieve the bottle. I was pretty much decided that we would breastfeed by that point, so didn't even try to point out that most babies wouldn't welcome chilly milk especially in the middle of the night, and he'd have to get his butt out of bed and into the kitchen to heat it up anyway!

Anyways... I knew his opinion had changed when we were moving states, and Theron was with us in the front of the U-Haul truck. I was breastfeeding at a truck stop, and this group of three truckers walked by, having a good old ogle. DH yells out "It's only breastfeeding a**holes! Get over it!" I was like "Yay DH!!"  ;D

Mrs. B.
Title: Re: Why I am so happy to be breastfeeding!
Post by: Emmet's Mommy on April 12, 2006, 15:26:47 pm
When grandmotherly types see us nursing they rush over to tell me how wonderful it is that I am nursing. Of course ds can't resist the attention and stops nursing to give his adoring public a better view and a big smile.  Also we've just begun solids and there is a real change at diaper time-- when EBF they were not smelly at all.  He has never been sick at all, even though DH and I both got nasty sick once. 
Lastly, its my ace in hole when I really need it.  If he's fussing and an important phone call comes through, I just latch him on and buy a little silence.  Recent studies indicate that breast milk functions as a pain reliever so when  I nurse him after getting a shot at the Dr. it doesn't just comfort him it actually makes it feel better. 
Title: Re: Why I am so happy to be breastfeeding!
Post by: Logan Justin mom on April 12, 2006, 18:50:15 pm
I also love breastfeeding.  I bfed my 10 yr old until he was 20 months and I am now breastfeeding my 6 month old.

-it's made just for him
-it's premade, no mixing of formula
-it's always the right temp, no heating it up
-I feel so close to him
-it's not just for food but also for comfort when afraid, hurting (teething), or when there are too many people around wanting to hold him and he just wants mommy
-I also just learned that while sitting in the back seat, if I lean forward in my seat, with my seat belt still on, I can nurse him in the car while we are moving, without having to stop and take him out of his car seat...lol
Title: Re: Why I am so happy to be breastfeeding!
Post by: Katet on April 13, 2006, 05:28:30 am
I think I have to say, that when people commented that both my boys were very big (both over 10kg/22lb at 6mo) I could say "hey thats what mother nature intended as I bf them all the way to that size"  My bm was that good  ;D ;D
Apart from the health benefits, for me I just love the closeness.
Title: Re: Why I am so happy to be breastfeeding!
Post by: lotti on April 15, 2006, 19:27:23 pm
Thanks for that post. It was exactly what I wanted to hear today!

I've been coming under some negative pressure just recently from family and friends who seem to think that at 9 months it's time to stop breastfeeding. Needless to say ... I disagree.

My beautiful boy is so happy and healthy I can't understand why anyone would be negative. And it is such a special time spent together.

Thanks again

Charlotte
Title: Re: Why I am so happy to be breastfeeding!
Post by: nathan_smom on April 16, 2006, 16:06:22 pm
My goal was to try and nurse until my son reached 6 months.  At that point, I tried introducing formula just one feeding a day in a bottle. Some days he would take it but most he would push it away and reach for me.  This went on for a over a month with me feeling inadequate, asking everyone I know how they got their child to take the bottle. Wondering what I was doing wrong.
It wasnt until yesterday that it hit me. Why in the world am I trying sooo hard to push this bottle thing and formula on my now 7 1/2 month old son?  I am lucky enough to still  have plenty of breastmilk for him and he seems to ONLY want this.  So what if I can't leave him for more that 4 hours at a time because I need to be there to feed him.  He is a baby, my baby, and wont stay this little for that much longer.  He is telling me he still needs me, and only me for his "liquid nourishment" and I am there for him until he decides to move on. Why?? Because I am his mommy!! :D
Title: Re: Why I am so happy to be breastfeeding!
Post by: KellyC on April 16, 2006, 18:09:08 pm
Nathan's Mom - I had a blip at around 6 months too when I decided to give Zander formula in a bottle for his 2 daytime feeds.  I lasted 2 days!  We were having difficulties with him being very distracted at the time but now it's much better and he also only has 3 feeds a day so I don't feel particularly tied.  The only feed in the middle of the day is not long before his nap and we have to be home for that anyway!  I definitely feel more tied by the naps than by breastfeeding  ::)

Kelly x
Title: Re: Why I am so happy to be breastfeeding!
Post by: KellyC on April 20, 2006, 13:16:50 pm
I don't mind that he wakes up at 6am at the moment because I get to bring him into bed for his feed and I can keep my eyes shut  :)  Yesterday it just didn't feel right and it wasn't until I'd finished feeding him that I realised I'd been giving him my top boob instead of the bottom one which is why it was so difficult to keep it in his mouth - must have been too sleepy myself!

Kelly x
Title: Re: Why I am so happy to be breastfeeding!
Post by: LisbonMom on April 21, 2006, 21:36:30 pm
Anyone can change her diaper, anyone can put her in bed, anyone can make her smile, but I'm the only one that can give her the best nutrition!
I love bf because of all things it's when I feel the most that I'm a Mommy !!!
When lo has been crying a lot and I'm at my wit's end and it's feed time, I love it when she smiles at me after draining the boob, as if to say I love you anyway!!!

I was talking to dh a while back about how I overcame all the struggles when bf dd#1 and it got me thinking that back then, somehow, formula was never an option!
Title: Re: Why I am so happy to be breastfeeding!
Post by: webfoot on April 27, 2006, 08:14:53 am
I love how he kicks me in the tummy as he nestles up.

I love the new postitions he's trying (who knew!?!)

I love the fact that I don't have to worry about bottles!

And hey you get 10 points a day on weight watchers for bf, that's like 500 calories!

Okay that's not driving me... though...

it's those little grunts and sighs they kick in with around 8 months, how cute are thouse?

My little man is boob obsessed, I swear I am going to be bf now until he's 3, I just know it!

You make it this far how do you quit? I need that link to the website w/ all the witty bf t-shirts you can buy! LOL!
Title: Re: Why I am so happy to be breastfeeding!
Post by: squeaky's mum on April 27, 2006, 09:01:54 am
I am also so happy to be breast feeding...

I found it really really painful for the first 10 weeks but I got help and we have not looked back since.

I love how Sophie plays with my face and skin as she feeds
I love how I feel her slowly relax and fall asleep in the evenings
I love how I don't have to bother with sterilising
I love how it gives Sophie and I time to just sit and be 4-5 times a day
I love looking at her and thinking 'Wow, I made that!'
I love the fact that I made my prepregnancy weight by 5 months

When I was pregnant I thought, I'll feed her to 6 months. Once I overcame our bf problems, I thought, I'll try to get to a year. Now I think, Sophie can give it up when she is ready. I am so pleased I have this amazing source of nutrition when my little girl has developed a milk allergy. For me, bf has been hard, it has tied me to my little girl when maybe I could have got out a bit more, but it has been worth it over and over again.

Claire
Title: Re: Why I am so happy to be breastfeeding!
Post by: Mum of girl, boy, boy on April 29, 2006, 19:16:59 pm
I am so pleased to be breast feeding to.

With DD I said I would give it a go for 6 weeks and see. I have no idea why I thought that and why 6 weeks. I ended up having a c-section and was so determind that I would breast feed as I felt I had been robbed of a natural birth and in someway I suppose failed. DD was tongue tied so we had to get over that hurdle but I continued to feed until 11.5 months by which time I was pregnant. Bfeeding changed when I was pregnant and I decided to stop.

With DS I had another c-section and again really wanted to feel close to him because I hadn't had that natural birth. DS is nearly 5 months and I really do enjoy feeding. When I look at the pictures of both my babies and how big they grew on my breast milk alone it makes me feel really chuffed with myself.

I hate the thought of feeding formula (I understand sometimes there isn't a choice) although as DD got older she had the very occasional bottle (i.e when we flew to Australia it was easier than trying to feed food!). I don't understand why people would choose this a way to feed a baby. It's not human milk.

I will keep hoping that nothing gets in the way of me feeding DS until I am ready to finish breastfeeding. One thing is for sure I will be glad when I can take something other than paracetamol for a cold. I've been pregnant or breastfeeding since Sept 2003.  I can't wait to have a really good night out and perhaps even get drunk (not that I normally do that anyway).

J
Title: Re: Why I am so happy to be breastfeeding!
Post by: First Time Mom on May 04, 2006, 03:38:57 am
I've read all of the posts and feel the same way. Today my lo received her immunization shots and she got fussy and cried quite a bit tonight. I had the option of giving her baby Tylenol but hate giving meds when I can give something better! I've never fed her in bed laying down but before dinner I decided to bring her into my bed cuddled beside me as she was crying so hard. I offered her my breast and she immediately latched on and nuzzled and sucked for 20 minutes until she fell into a deep sleep. The tears stopped quickly and I let her sleep cuddled up to me for an hour before I put her into her crib. No meds required!
Title: Re: Why I am so happy to be breastfeeding!
Post by: robynfuller on May 14, 2006, 11:04:44 am
Lovely posts, I feel so fortunate to be breastfeeding as my mum was not able to - no milk, so thought I might encounter problems.
She latched immediatly and at first was a bit sensitive but after a few days it was fine.
I love breastfeeding because

- its the best start I can give my dd
- its free
- no sterilising
- i love how she now can reach up to my face to touch my lips for a quick kiss inbetween
- its creating big strong healthy bones and happy baby and happy mum
- only I can do it

I could say alot more, but all you ladies have wrapped it up pretty well.
Robyn
Title: Re: Why I am so happy to be breastfeeding!
Post by: Christa on May 15, 2006, 13:01:14 pm
When ds was just a tiny thing and got sleepy during his feeds, I would start to take him off and then he would do a few really quick sucks almost as if to say "look look I'm eating, don't take me off" it was so cute because I could tell he was loving just being there.
Title: Re: Why I am so happy to be breastfeeding!
Post by: welshkitten71 on May 15, 2006, 13:18:37 pm
 :D  im happy to be bf this time as i couldnt manage with my other children as i didnt have enough milk. Its great to be able to feel so close to her every morning :)
Title: Re: Why I am so happy to be breastfeeding!
Post by: Michaela's Mom on May 26, 2006, 09:02:44 am
I too loved the time spent breastfeeding my daughter - it was a special time for just the two of us to bond, relax  and just be together - i couldn't carry on after 4 months though because my milk supply was in short supply ( my baby was about 6kg at that stage and needed more nourishment than i could give her).

For weeks afterwards i was seriously depressed as i missed the closeness we had shared - now, anyone could feed her and not just her mommy. Anyway, it took a while, but i got over the disappointment and the transition for breast to bottle has done her no harm whatsoever - she's a healthy (and growing!) 9.8kg at 7 months so she's still thriving.
Title: Re: Why I am so happy to be breastfeeding!
Post by: KellyC on May 26, 2006, 12:14:29 pm
I threw in the towel at Weight Watchers in January and have done nothing but stuff my face ever since - last week I re-joined and I've lost 3lb  :o  I'm certain I have breastfeeding to thank for that so what other reason do I need to keep going?  ;D
Title: Re: Why I am so happy to be breastfeeding!
Post by: nickatumba on May 26, 2006, 12:43:39 pm
i am so happy to be breastfeeding! this is my third child, he is 4 months now! (hard to believe it is going so fast) my other children are 9 and 7.

i breastfed my first son untill he was 14 months.
i breastfed my daughter untill she was 11 months (had to go back to work, and she wasn't interested anymore)
and i plan to breastfeed this little guy  untill at least 1 year or so.

i am currently a "feeding friend" in my town. (a program provided by the public health services) i help out other mom's who are having a little trouble ( latching on, milk supply, and pumping) and of course answering any questions they have.

besides being the absoulute best thing in the world for a baby these are the reasons i love breastfeeding

- i love the special bond it has with your child. just knowing that no one else can feed him the way you do is special in itself
- the look in his eyes when he looks up at you and knows that you are there and he is safe and sound in mommy's arms, just melts my heart.
- when he looks up and has the biggest smile and then starts to feed again, and then look up and smile, and feed again. like it is his own special game.
- knowing that i can go anyplace in the whole wide world with him and not have to worry about bottles, warmers and such.
- knowing that his crib is right next to our bed, so that when he wakes to feed, i can feed him and he falls right back to sleep before he is wide awake.
- breastfeeding is great!
Title: Re: Why I am so happy to be breastfeeding!
Post by: nathan_smom on May 27, 2006, 00:47:53 am
Well, now that I am NOT breastfeeding anymore...I REALLY miss it.  I think it might be b/c it was my son's decision and not mine, but I am fortunate to have been able to go this long.  My son would NOT take the bottle not matter what I did for 8.5+ months, then one day while BF...he pushed me away and still acted VERY hungry...I offered the bottle kinda as a haha, here you go, but I don't think youre going to like it....and to my dismay he sucked down 7 ounces.....and puished me away the next feedings and drank the bottle.....Now I can only BF a bit right before bed...better than nothing!!!

oh well...life goes on!!

Good Luck to all of you who are continuing to do it!!!
Title: Re: Why I am so happy to be breastfeeding!
Post by: Janeen1234 on June 05, 2006, 02:36:13 am
Awesome thread.......

I love love love breastfeeding.  It is such a special bonding moment with my son.  Its so convenient and no waiting for a bottle to heat up.

I also love that only I can do it (unless I pump).  It has really helped to get him away from greedy relatives. ;)
Title: Re: Why I am so happy to be breastfeeding!
Post by: jules_is_cute on June 09, 2006, 01:42:38 am
Me too! Me too!

I love that little coughing noise she makes when she is hungry. 

I love that she has to feel my skin when she nurses (makes it hard to nurse in publis sometimes though).

I love that sometimes I am the only one that she wants to calm her.


Me too!!  Me too!!  Nursing is so amazing...I can't say that I thought it would be so wonderful the first 2 weeks both nipples were purple and completely scabbed over.  I had to pop a clogged nipple duct with a needle...

But I'm so glad I stuck with it.  I too have become so impassioned about breastfeeding.  And although I try to say I don't judge moms who CHOSE not to do it (of course I have the deepest sympathy for those who can't) it's not true and I don't get it at all.  There's nothing better on earth at this point.  I have a poem you'll all enjoy:


Dr. Seuss for Nursing Moms


Would you nurse her in the park?
Would you nurse him in the dark?
Would you nurse him with a Boppy?
And when your boobs are feeling floppy?


I would nurse him in the park,
I would nurse her in the dark.
I'd nurse with or without a Boppy.
Floppy boobs will never stop me.


Can you nurse with your seat belt on?
Can you nurse from dusk till dawn?
Though she may pinch me, bite me, pull,
I will nurse her `till she's full!


Can you nurse and make some soup?
Can you nurse and feed the group?
It makes her healthy strong and smart,
Mommy's milk is the best start!


Would you nurse him at the game?
Would you nurse her in the rain?
In front of those who dare complain?
I would nurse him at the game.
I would nurse her in the rain.


As for those who protest lactation,
I have the perfect explanation.
Mommy's milk is tailor made
It's the perfect food, you need no aid.


Some may scoff and some may wriggle,
Avert their eyes or even giggle.
To those who can be cruel and rude,
Remind them breast's the perfect food!


I would never scoff or giggle,
Roll my eyes or even wiggle!
I would not be so crass or crude,
I KNOW that this milk's the perfect food!


We make the amount we need
The perfect temp for every feed.
There's no compare to milk from breast-
The perfect food, above the rest.




Those sweet nursing smiles are oh so sweet,
Mommy's milk is such a treat.
Human milk just can't be beat.


I will nurse, in any case,
On the street or in your face.
I will not let my baby cry,
I'll meet her needs, I'll always try.
It's not about what's good for you,
It's best for babies, through and through.


I will nurse her in my home,
I will nurse her when I roam.
Leave me be lads and ma'am.
I will nurse her, Mom I am   
Title: Re: Why I am so happy to be breastfeeding!
Post by: deenz on June 09, 2006, 08:38:06 am
That's fantastic!!
Title: Re: Why I am so happy to be breastfeeding!
Post by: nathan_smom on June 10, 2006, 01:32:41 am
Perfectly said!
Title: Re: Why I am so happy to be breastfeeding!
Post by: shelliz on June 10, 2006, 01:48:22 am
LOVE the poem!  I just had to send that to my friends who are nursing! thanks for that!

Title: Re: Why I am so happy to be breastfeeding!
Post by: Sam's mum on June 10, 2006, 20:50:36 pm
I also love breastfeeding.  Recently went on holiday with some friends and thier lo who is 4 weeks older and they are bottle feeding.  I always knew bottle feeding was more hassle but had never really appreciated how much!!  I will keep feeding for as long as I can.  We also have greedy relatives and although I'm pumping so my husband can give a bottle we're not sharing with anyone else! ;)  Why does no one warn you that your not just having a baby but your in-laws are having a grandchild!! :o

Fiona
Title: Re: Why I am so happy to be breastfeeding!
Post by: jules_is_cute on June 10, 2006, 21:03:31 pm
no kidding, my LO won't take a bottle, I'm secretly elated about this until I need/want to be gone for more than 3 hours, and can't.   shhh. don't tell anyone. 

But she will take a binky, go figure, I can't stand the way anyone else tries to offer it to her.  It looks like they are trying to shove it down her throat...It makes me crazy!!  I mean really to me, no one holds her right, no one talks to her right, no one puts her diaper on right, no one plays with her right, no one can do any of it the way I can/do...I guess that is why mommies are so special.

~Patty
Title: Re: Why I am so happy to be breastfeeding!
Post by: ¤ Efka ¤ on June 11, 2006, 18:42:38 pm
I secretly like it too that no one else is able to feed LO. ::) Though now am trying to teach him to take botle, so DH can feed him too.
Title: Re: Why I am so happy to be breastfeeding!
Post by: jacksmummy26 on June 19, 2006, 08:44:57 am
Awww i have to write on this too - i went all teary eyed reading this (wish i found it during those hard times) i love it because:

Its something only mummy can do (also perfect when baby was newborn and i didnt want someone holding him i would just say whoops i think he needs a feed and grab him back all to myself naughty i know!).

It makes those moments when you know bf is going to end soon sooooo much more special.

It keeps me watching my little baby and notice each and everything his little face does.

It is something to look back on when he is older and not sitting down for two seconds!

I love the fact that only i can do it and only i can give him that special something that keeps baby happy no matter what (sorry daddy but i do!)!

I love playing with his little hands when he reaches up to pull my lip or touch my nose.

I love looking into his beautiful blue eyes and wonder what he is thinking!

I love having to make the time and sit with him rather than just proping a bottle in his mouth which im sure i would have done if i ff and i was busy.

i love making him smile when his feeding and can see him trying to do both at the same time!!

im sooo going to bf again in the future was umming and arring about it but this thread has reminded me whats its all about so thank you x
Title: Re: Why I am so happy to be breastfeeding!
Post by: Lovejoy on July 31, 2006, 20:45:07 pm
i love the closeness that i have with my dd that noonelse can ever imitate
i love her satisfaction
i love her concentration when drinking
i love just watching and taking in my beautiful dd
i love breastfeeding and so does my dd
Title: Re: Why I am so happy to be breastfeeding!
Post by: Jodi and her boys on August 10, 2006, 22:49:49 pm
-I love what my lo does with his eyes when the letdown happens (rolls them back, like saying,  Ohhh this is sooo good!)
-I love how he nuzzles his head in my chest when he wants to nurse
-I love how he plays with his feet when eating
-I love the first feed in the morning, so quiet and peaceful for us both

Great thread!
Title: Re: Why I am so happy to be breastfeeding!
Post by: leahonline on August 13, 2006, 01:34:51 am
I love how her eyelids get so heavy as she relaxes
I love how she stares into my eyes and it's just the two of us for a few minutes
I love how her tiny body feels pressed against my chest
Yes, you're right about when the baby tries to smile while sucking--that makes me grin every time.   ;D
And I'm bad too--I LOVE that no one else can feed her like I do!  She'll take a bottle sometimes, but never with the obvious satisfaction she gets while nursing. 
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Post by: daisymelan on August 13, 2006, 17:26:10 pm
Because it hurts my heart so much, now that we've stopped.
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Post by: jules_is_cute on August 15, 2006, 02:27:50 am
I have to add something else...now when Jules nurses she takes a little handful of my boob and kneads it almost like a kitten, it's so adorable...and now she signals that she's ready to switch sides by popping off and on and going Mam-mom-mum-ma-ma-muh-ma and then sucking a bit more and then popping off and repeating a long slew of mom types sounds...she's too young to be saying "ma-ma" with any meaning, but I can pretend.   :D

~Patty
Title: Re: Why I am so happy to be breastfeeding!
Post by: aisling on October 03, 2006, 01:34:41 am
Hello amazing ladies!

Just thought I would drop on by and say: We are still happily breast feeding at almost a year!

Nello is having his bday next week and I am feeling very nostalgic for my pregnancy, birth and early newborn baby days.....BUT.... I still have my little bf'er, thankfully! Thought you all would understand.  I hope?  :-[

We have had such an amazing year with him and breastfeeding has been a real pleasure. I would never have imagined in a million years the impact BF'ing would make on all of our lives...incredible.

Guess I'll keep BF'ing until somebody (DS) or something (boobs give in?!) tells me to stop. DH is also very supportive and thinks we have the healthiest and strongest baby in the world. I overheard him telling one of his mates that our LO is so strong and has never been sick because my wife ate so much spinach when she was pregnant (crazy craving to have, I'd say) and because of BF'ing.  It was sweet but I was also giggling a bit.  ;)

I also would love to help anybody out with advice and will answer where I can on this board as I hope everyone has a positive experience as we have.

Some experiences we went through so far this past year:

*We made it through BF'ing with 8 teeth at 8 months old, starting with the first one at only 4 months old!
 
*We made it through months 4-6 of DS not wanting a bottle.  That was a bit tough, but it wasn't the end of the world as I am a SAHM.  Now he takes a sippy, bottle, doidy cup, waterbottle, my tea mug, you name it! LOL!

*We made it through months 7-9 with DS wanting to explore the world instead of sitting nicely in Mum's arms BF'ing and me wanting to give it up as I thought he was losing interest...but we perservered and once he was walking at 10.5 months he went back to nursing so much better.  Although, he only likes it laying down on a bed in his room in quiet, but that is ok with me....it is our special quiet time.

*At 9 months, I went away for 3 days and pumped (not a fan of pumping, but did it!) and when I returned, he fed no trouble like I was never gone, thankfully.

*We went T.O. to U.K. at 6 months and can't even imagine what I would of done withought BF'ing on the plane and travelling around, it was a life saver.

*Other than the good old teething running nose, have never had a sick LO all year.

*I actually have missed (probably sounds crazy to many) those 3am feedings half asleep, just the 2 of us. (sigh)

*Probably lots more, but will stop now.

Hope you enjoyed my story,

Aisling and Nello xx
Title: Re: Why I am so happy to be breastfeeding!
Post by: ladyboggess on October 08, 2006, 03:08:11 am
I am proud to be bf b/c of  all the wonderful reasons above (of course) that are great for my DS, but also b/c at 8 wks of age, I WEIGHED LESS  THAN I DID  BEFORE I WAS  PREGNANT!!!  Now  I  am at a healthier weight (135 lbs) than I have been in the past few years (Pre-med in college lacks the time to eat OR exercise)  and  MY THIGHS DON'T TOUCH ANYMORE!!!! ;)
Title: Re: Why I am so happy to be breastfeeding!
Post by: waffler on October 08, 2006, 04:27:31 am
I find when i b/f now I just watch her the whole time. Her eyebrows move up and down, so expressive. I wonder what's going on in that mind.

When i lay her on my lap and reach to lift my tshirt, her mouth opens wide and she tries to lunge for me.

I love how she's sitting quietly on someone's lap, then when she sees me she gets SO excited - i'm sure it's b/c i'm her food source ;)

Initially i was going to stop at one year , i thought feeding past that was "weird" but i've oh so changed my mind! I want to feed for as long as she does (however i do hope she'll want to stop by the time she's dating LOL)

My DH loves watching me b/f. In the morning he peeps into the nursery, and he says he takes a mental picture of his two fave girls and keeps it with him while he's at work.

Oh, and i love, how if she's been crying cos she cant sleep, and i used to b/f her to sleep, she'd make all these really happy appreciative noises almost like "mm-hmm" and it SO soooooooothes her. I know its a prop, and we've gotten rid of it now, but i secretly loved feeding her to sleep, it was just me and her...

Title: Re: Why I am so happy to be breastfeeding!
Post by: newmommy21 on October 08, 2006, 04:45:14 am
Wonderful thread! I too love breastfeeding because of every single reason all you ladies have listed. Every single one of them!!

 In my religion, breastfeeding for two years is required and we believe that on the second birthday of your breastfeeding baby, an angel sends down glad tidings and blessings to you and your lo. Just thought you guys would like that bit of info, keep up the good work ladies!
Title: Re: Why I am so happy to be breastfeeding!
Post by: Jodi and her boys on October 08, 2006, 21:21:53 pm
Newmommy21--what religion is that?  Just curious.  Maybe I should join as I can't seem to think of parting with bfing at 12 months!
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Post by: katriona on October 09, 2006, 02:47:33 am
Oh, and i love, how if she's been crying cos she cant sleep, and i used to b/f her to sleep, she'd make all these really happy appreciative noises almost like "mm-hmm" and it SO soooooooothes her. I know its a prop, and we've gotten rid of it now, but i secretly loved feeding her to sleep, it was just me and her...

still sometimes do a "night" feed at about 5am, just to persude DS that it's really not quite time to be awake yet. the way you summed it up really tickled me :D i know exactly how you feel. daytime feeds just aren't quite the same, are they!
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Post by: newmommy21 on October 09, 2006, 04:55:02 am
Newmommy21--what religion is that?  Just curious.  Maybe I should join as I can't seem to think of parting with bfing at 12 months!

haha...its Islam...and it has always been my motivation during the difficult times in the beginning.
Title: Re: Why I am so happy to be breastfeeding!
Post by: yorkshire on November 01, 2006, 21:19:55 pm
I love it too.  It is the most special time in the world. 

All I worry about is that I won't want to give it up when it is time that I should.
Title: Re: Why I am so happy to be breastfeeding!
Post by: Petunia on November 07, 2006, 02:29:03 am
Ok, my turn.

 The reason I am so happy to still be breastfeeding is because of the health benefits to my baby and myself.

Really, honest, that's it.  And it makes me feel so incredibly satisfied to know that I am giving my children the best start in life possible - something that will benefit them their entire lives.  It's not something you can go back and catch up on later on.  It's a one-shot deal.

My number one reason for even breastfeeding in the first place was for the health benefits.  If there wasn't such overwhelming evidence, and more of it coming all the time, about how beneficial mother's milk is to the baby and about how beneficial nursing is for the mother, I wouldn't have bothered.  In my opinion, contrary to the hype, formula feeding is ten times easier on the mother in this crazy 'modern' world we live in which gives no credence to breastfeeding.  Every formula feeding mom I know has left her baby in the care of a relative for 6 hours or more just weeks after birth.  They've gotten to go out and been rejuvinated and rested from baby care.  Can't do that when you're breastfeeding exclusively.  But I relish my sacrifice in that area as an important and worthwhile one. 
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Post by: newmommy21 on November 07, 2006, 15:08:02 pm
Well said Petunia. No matter how easy it might seem, in my opinion..and in my life...breastfeeding is a big sacrifice. Many many of my friends and acquaintances have had babies recently, and like you said, have been able to leave their babies for long periods of time to do whatever they want. At social gatherings or family gatherings, the baby would just be passed around and who ever had it by feeding time would just stick in a bottle. In my case, I would run upstairs and (in the beginning) struggle getting my lo to latch on, and then stay on, and  sometimes deal with his frustration if my letdown was too slow, or not having enough milk...dont even get me started on how hard it was to be out of a house.

Anyway, its much much easier now but my point is that it is hard, and it is a sacrifice, but I am still happy to be breastfeeding and will continue to do it for each of my babies
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Post by: nathan_smom on November 08, 2006, 01:20:14 am
Breastfeeding is a huge sacrifice...just like you said...I remember only being "allowed" to be out of the house for max of 2 hours...my LO would not take any EBM out of bottle!!
But....looking back on it....I wouldnt trade any of it for the world....Even though I could never find a comfortable feeding position....I loved the closeness of having my baby right on me....it was an amazing experience!!
Title: Re: Why I am so happy to be breastfeeding!
Post by: jbjhiker on December 04, 2006, 15:36:37 pm
From the first moment that she latched on and looked up at me with those beautiful brown eyes with a complete sense of trust- I was sold.  I love the bond that bf has created between her and me.  I love the way her little nose wrinkles up when she first latches on.  I love it when she smiles at me with my breast still in her mouth and milk dribbles down her cheek.  I love the way her eyes light up when she knows it is time to feed.  I love the way her little hand holds onto mine during feeding.   I love the sense of peace and joy it brings to me to hold her close and provide her with the best nutrition that I possible can give her.  I love the fact that it is portable ;), always warm, always ready, and always enough. 
Before I gave birth to my dd, I had reluctantly decided to breastfeed because I knew that was what was best, but from the moment I first fed her, I never could imagine doing anything else.  Even in that first week when we struggled to get her to latch on and suck properly, it was worth it.  It is one of the great miracles and blessings of motherhood!  I truly love breastfeeding!
Title: Re: Why I am so happy to be breastfeeding!
Post by: newmommy21 on December 04, 2006, 18:08:31 pm
Wait until your dd is a little older and will start stroking your arm and chest and making little mmmmmmmmmmm(yummmy) sounds and hums little singsongs while playing with her feet and trying to laugh and suck at the same time...its adorable and it feels so good to watch it!   
Title: Re: Why I am so happy to be breastfeeding!
Post by: Erin M on January 02, 2007, 15:13:01 pm
I was so very happy to be breastfeeding this past holiday as we had a ton of relatives in the house and every time my lovely 2 mo dd got hungry I got to take her back and have her all to myself.  So incredibly selfish, but I don't think I would have gotten to hold my baby for the past week and a half without that.  :) :)
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Post by: aisling on January 02, 2007, 15:42:21 pm
Ohhh, Erin, how lovely for you both.   :-*  Not selfish at all!!

I remember that last Xmas when DS was only 10 weeks old. SIGH..... I still got to nip away and he had his nip at bedtime though this year with all the noise of the company in the background... it was so nice...I even closed my eyes for a bit... I could of stayed all night, but the chocolate cheese cake and coffees were calling my name!  LOL!

I am happy to be BF'ing as we just finished the last of cutting our 16 teeth (yes I cut them too IYKWIM!) and Nello had a cold with a fever of 103F as well. He was only existing on BM, so I knew he was still being nourished, hydrated and it helped him to a speedy recovery I feel.

Aisling x
Title: Re: Why I am so happy to be breastfeeding!
Post by: jules_is_cute on January 02, 2007, 22:30:12 pm
yes, newmom21  totally!!!  It is so sweet.  Jules thinks she can somehow look at a book whilst nursing. (We are not on EASY, we nurse at naptime and bedtime right after a story.  Bad I know, but it works for us)  Little stinker.  She only hangs on for about 1 or 2 minutes but tries with all her might to do both, too bad for her I'm not made of rubber, otherwise she would just turn her head with my nipple in her mouth. 

And Jules got Infantus roseolla in November.  She wouldn't eat a thing, had a 104.8 fever for 3 days and didn't sleep a wink unless she was on the booby.  If it weren't for BF who know's how much wt she'd have lost.  That's enough reason to keep me doing it as long as she will.

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Post by: wolverineMum on January 08, 2007, 18:11:16 pm


I love how my son's eyes roll back in his head when he feeds..like a hungry little shark
Title: Re: Why I am so happy to be breastfeeding!
Post by: bellybutton on January 20, 2007, 23:21:39 pm
Butting in to say that the first 4 months of breastfeeding were a nightmare. My baby had constant periods of cluster nursing, She would nurse every 1 1/2 hour during the day, but fortunately I didn't give up. After 4 months things were perfect, except for the nights (she still doesn't sleep through the night... :-[). Anyway, I'm so happy about breastfeeding her because absolutely nothing can compare to the long talks we have while she nurses, in a total absence of words.
Title: Re: Why I am so happy to be breastfeeding!
Post by: marblelicious on January 28, 2007, 02:32:18 am
Even though BFing hurt so much in the first 2 wks w/ both my sons, and probably even more with my second son since I had to have a c-section, I would still do it in a heart beat if I had another baby.

It's the most special way to bond with them, which at the same time also provide them the best nutrients they could possibly get. Especially during those night time feedgins, I love the feeling of picking up Daniel and feeling his warm little body against my just when he gets started nursing.

I love to hear the sound of Daniel taking those big gulps of my milk.

I love the fact that my milk is always at the most ideal temperature & doesn't require heating up!


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Title: Re: Why I am so happy to be breastfeeding!
Post by: Lainie on January 31, 2007, 21:16:05 pm
I love big blues gazing at me full of love and trust and the great big smiles with milk leaking out the sides ;D
Title: Re: Why I am so happy to be breastfeeding!
Post by: danou on February 26, 2007, 15:49:56 pm
Wow - you ladies seem to be reading my thoughts...
I love bf'ing also because it's just Joshua and me time... the way he can tell me he is hungry by flopping himself sideways and wiggling into position... it's quiet time... he's getting the best start b/c of bf'ing... and he can come with me wherever I go and his meals are always prepped, clean and easy to serve... I also love the fact that the girls are making themselves useful... but most of all... the eye contact and sweet smile when he pops off and has milk dribbling down his cheek- it melts my heart.  :-*
Title: Re: Why I am so happy to be breastfeeding!
Post by: walker79 on March 28, 2007, 11:35:02 am
At the risk of sounding like everyone else, I won't go into all my likes about BF. As it seems everyone has already summed it up perfectly. However I will say one thing.
I love my DS and no one will ever be able to share the same moments with him, that I have.
That's why I love Breastfeeding so much!
Title: Re: Why I am so happy to be breastfeeding!
Post by: aisling on March 28, 2007, 12:36:34 pm
 :) :-*
Title: Re: Why I am so happy to be breastfeeding!
Post by: malak on April 16, 2007, 18:46:43 pm
I was going to give up on bf the first couple of weeks, but I got lots of support from friends and decided to give it a try.I'm so glad i did. my 3 mns son is doing so well.bf is a blessing and im enjoying every sec of it.Its worth the effort.
Title: Re: Why I am so happy to be breastfeeding!
Post by: hemz80 on April 19, 2007, 20:00:36 pm
I've only just found this thread but I am so glad to be breastfeeding i can't explain how much.  I love it for... ditto all the above!  But for me it's a bit more than that.  When i was pregnant i didn't do much "research" into bf... i just thought it would be a natural thing.  OMG... how wrong was I!!  My Lo just could latch on and i saw loads of people who just pulled at me and shoved my poor baby's face into my boobs etc.  I also had some emotional stuff going on with my MIL etc. 

Essentially for me... breastfeeding is a great personal achievement after all the hard work and perseverence.. it finally all clicked together!

I'm proud of my lo and myself for sticking at it and cheiving something so great!
Title: Re: Why I am so happy to be breastfeeding!
Post by: Shaunie on April 21, 2007, 19:11:22 pm
At first, I found breast-feeding very draining and struggled a great deal but after a while, it became much easier.  There was a time where I was looking forward to stopping but no that time is fast approaching, I don't want to stop and will miss it!  It's so much easier to BF and, like others have mentioned, you don't have to worry about bottles etc.

When weaning commences, DS will also be weaned onto formula - apart from the night feed if there are still any!  I will miss my LO looking up at me when he's finished and giving me a huge grin as if to say thanks Mummy!  It's a very special time and I look forward to doing it again with any future babies.
Title: Re: Why I am so happy to be breastfeeding!
Post by: jules_is_cute on May 27, 2007, 19:19:12 pm
OK, not sure how many of us are still at it now at 16 months...but just to add another reason.  Jules now says "mil-k" as she points to my boobs with the biggest, purest smile you ever saw.  Her delight in nursing is so sweet and joyful.  It cures any boo-boo, soothes any spook, works as a great afternoon "pick me up" (since a 15 minutes nursing session is like a brief nap for her, she sits up energized and ready to make the stretch to dinner, bath and bed!) 

Title: Re: Why I am so happy to be breastfeeding!
Post by: Wink's Marmy on May 28, 2007, 02:02:06 am
As THRUSH burns my breasts, I read these posts to remind me of how wonderful it is to be able to BF, despite all the setbacks I have encountered, including this latest onset of flesh-eating yeast (at least it FEELS flesh eating :-X)  The only non-hassle part of BF for us was DD's latch. I am so thankful we never had to struggle with that! On the other hand, we have struggled with low weight gain in the beginning, severe sleepy suck baby (no wakey for supper), bad PPD & other  :P emotions tied in to BF, extreme fussiness at the breast, lots of plugged ducts, now thrush, not to mention the pressure i have been under to FF from friends.  >:( Have been working on new BF friends for support.  8).... BUT despite the chalenges we have faced, DD and I have such a wonderful bond that I truly owe in part to BF. It really does bond you to your baby. BF has done so much for us. It is so rewarding to know that I am providing DD with the best stuff available to her - my milk!!! And I am the only one who can give it to her, which makes me feel very special (always nice to feel special!). And, its SO rewarding to reach goals...

6 months ago, I was miserable BF'ing. It was so so hard and such a huge struggle. Everyone told me to stop, that I needed to reclaim my sanity. But I really, really desired the best for DD and I set small goals... First, it was 2 weeks. As 2 weeks approached, I was so happy to reach the goal, that I set another to make it till 6 weeks. Then 3 months. Then 6 months. AND HERE WE ARE!!!! And can I just say that it feels SO GOOD to be here?!?

Oh, and BTW, BF is SO MUCH BETTER NOW... I think around 4 months is when I started to realize, "hey, this isn't so bad!" And DD must have agreed with me as the fussiness at the breast came to an abrupt halt.

If anyone is reading this who is having trouble, my advice would be to set small goals, realize that formula does not mean you have failed (DD has had occasional formula bottles), and to take what others around you say in contradiction to what you want for you & your baby with a grain of salt!

 So, I want to set another goal for myself: 1 year.... Here we go, thrush and all!!!!  ;D :o ;D :o ;D
Title: Re: Why I am so happy to be breastfeeding!
Post by: Aly Mac on May 31, 2007, 11:58:37 am
I just love breast feeding because it is our special quiet time together.  Today DH gave her an expressed bottle as i thought I would need it and didn't so had to use it (couldn't waste the magic!) and I had to go out of the room as DD kept looking at me and making noises - translate, wanted the *real deal* not this fake boob thing!  The next feed I just loved.... I really like the time I have with her and as Jennifer, said it does make me feel so special that I am the only one that can give her this.  It is great for DH to give a bottle - at least it's mine.  She looks at me and smiles and talks to me at the end.  When I give her a bottle, she doesn't do that!  (she does bite too! but that seems to be over for the time being).  I really want to keep feeding for at least to her first bday, and at night before bed beyond that if that's what will work for both of us. 

Anyway, enough gooey ramble from me. 

Oh, and I love the way DH looks at us when I nurse DD.  So much love and support, even though I know he feels quite left out of it all.
xx
Title: Re: Why I am so happy to be breastfeeding!
Post by: Peppermom on June 05, 2007, 14:27:22 pm
I still love this thread a year later.  I miss nursing my little Becca.  She is so grown up now.  She is 17 months old. 

I miss those sweet, sweet nursing days!
Title: Re: Why I am so happy to be breastfeeding!
Post by: fifibobandmore on July 13, 2007, 16:09:00 pm
I have just this thread and thought I would just go girls it is the best thing in the world.

My first DS gave up bf when he was 7 months old as I had a triple infection when he was 6 months and 1 of them was in my milk (it was lime green and very smelly) so he had to go on to formula milk for 2 weeks and I then managed to do anither 2 weeks after the infection before he decided enough is enough but with my 1 and only DD I gave up when he was 17 months old as she bite me that hard she made me bleed badly much to her disagreement as she wanted to continue bf and now 9 days before my 2nd DS I am leaking milk everywhere again and I intend to go atleast 12 mnths with this one hopefully. I love the fact that there is something special I can do for my baby that my husband can not do unless you express but even the baby is more content at the breast than they are on the bottle. Don't know if anyone else has noticed that if you have given your LO's bmilk in a bottle
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Post by: Lydiasmom on July 14, 2007, 10:03:44 am
Aww, I love these stories.

I love bf'ing, especially since DD has gone from tiny - newborn - 0-3m - 3-6m clothes & and when I dress her I think (&say to her).........mommy made you such a big girl...it's all down to me and I'm so proud of myself.

Rachel
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Post by: nathan_smom on July 14, 2007, 23:03:20 pm
Rachel, I agree to feeling like that as well. And it was also always such a nice compliment from my sons Dr. Each well visit, he would comment on his weight and size and say, wow, mommy is you grow so nice and healthy!! And then look at me and say, can you believe you are the source of all of this!! It would make me blush!
I cant believe I will be doing it soooo soon again. Just hope the pain in the beginning will not be as bad, and it will not hurt as much when my milk comes in...OUCH!!
So nice to hear all the positive stories!!
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Post by: Muriel - Elisa's mama on August 21, 2007, 07:34:00 am
so nice to hear all those stories!! :-*
make you think of your own and as i am now doing combined feeding, I sure think that my ast 3 BFs moments of teh day are even more precious!! something I msiss during bottle feeding is the possibility to also cuddle in the same time: your hands are with teh biottle not with yoru kid any longer!! so I catch up the moments of the BFs then!! I love being able to sweet-talk with elisa and cuddle in the same time while she is busy eating! :-* :-*
BF makes you feel like THE special mama for sure!! :D
The first months i had to leave the room when someone was giving my LO a bottle, I felt cheated then: no way a bottle was going to be better than my boob, even with ebm in it!! :'(
but past those envy moments of me against the bottle, I also enjoy the freedom won by giving 2 bottles a day now and I keep my BFs moments as my little tresures! :)
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Post by: anyamom on August 28, 2007, 16:49:00 pm
this is a lovely post to read... sometimes i do think of the terrible, horrible TORTUOUS time i had for the first 4 weeks after little anya was born. bfeeding was a torture, i used to dread it -- and hope anya wouldnt wake up for a little more time, so that i could be spared the pain. family to famliy connection in las vegas and nurse susan maurer helped me thru and here we are... my baby is 7months and still bfeeding!! sometimes when she takes long draws of milk and makes those "uhh- uhh" sounds at each swallow, my hubby and i look at each other and just smile... it really feels lovely, that i have been able to grow my little girlie... having said that, i am looking forward to giving it up at 1year. i know she will be ready for new things as would i. or at least i hope i would be able to give it up!! ciao/ sue
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Post by: elliesmama on August 28, 2007, 21:14:00 pm
I love reading all of this.  It's so encouraging to me.  I am the first of my girlfriends to have a baby, so there's not much support for me...just alot of jokes about my legendary boob size (word's been getting around, to be sure!).  Thanks ladies for helping me keep things in perspective and remember what a gift bf really is. 

AND I have to admit that lately (even though it's only been 11 1/2 wks!) I fluctuate between getting frustrated with the whole thing and loving the whole thing.  I want to continue for at least 6 mo and hopefully 1 year, but I feel bad about my body (the jokes don't help) and I can't exercise how I want (can't find a good jog bra), sometimes it can be very inconvenient, and I've never been so needed all the time.  But, at the same time, it's a beautiful thing to me that I am needed all the time and that I'm giving Ellie everything she needs for her health and sustainance. And I feel so close to her and I know it's given us a very very special bond. And this time will not last forever either and I know that I would highly regret it if I quit.  Maybe if another one of my girlfriends was breastfeeding I would feel a little more support. 
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Post by: deenz on August 30, 2007, 01:25:40 am
I am loving bf'ing a little newborn again!  Although it's hard to keep those niggling doubts out (like "is he latched on properly?" etc etc), I just love the cuddling up that we 'have' to do every few hours!  I love those cute little snuffly noises that he makes when he's looking for his milk...so sweet!
Title: Re: Why I am so happy to be breastfeeding!
Post by: Wink's Marmy on August 30, 2007, 01:29:35 am
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I love those cute little snuffly noises that he makes when he's looking for his milk

OMG! I miss that!!! Now it's just DD pulling on my bra to get to it!

Elisa'smama: BF just gets better and better the longer you do it!!! It gets easier too!! My boobs are smaller now overall... Good luck!!
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Post by: Aly Mac on August 30, 2007, 04:34:57 am
It does get better!  I had some biting issues a couple of weeks ago and I was so sad to htink that this could be the end.  but we persevered and all is well again.  I like my time with Lil too.  I see bottle fed bubs feeding themselves, which is good, but I like that fact that i ahve to nurse her...
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Post by: Wink's Marmy on August 31, 2007, 02:42:55 am
OK, I have a new reason as to why I love BF...
DD now plays games with me while she nurses. She will take little breaks to play peek-a-boo with my shirt and when she has laughed enough, she tucks her head against me with this shy little smile and then resumes feeding. It is darling. She also has started clapping her hands while nursing. She manages to get that one arm that is pinned around me, up and over my breast to clap with her other. So cute! Its like she is saying "Yay for milk!"
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Post by: Erin (redstarfalling) on August 31, 2007, 13:48:32 pm
That is TOO cute!  ;D
Title: Re: Why I am so happy to be breastfeeding!
Post by: elliesmama on September 01, 2007, 01:57:55 am
Here's my new reason for loving breastfeeding (good to have after that downer of a post I did a couple days ago).  Ellie just started smiling up at me while she's eating.  And the other day when she woke up and I took out my boob, she squealed with delight!  My heart melts everytime she eats now!!!
Title: Re: Why I am so happy to be breastfeeding!
Post by: valeamalia on September 02, 2007, 22:08:47 pm
This board is so encouraging, I've been so obsessed on increasing my milk supply that I've forgotten to enjoy BF. My LO is trying to bond with me while BF, she smiles and sometimes even coos and I was missing all that.
Thank you

Ana
Title: Re: Why I am so happy to be breastfeeding!
Post by: Muriel - Elisa's mama on September 03, 2007, 16:34:31 pm
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Elisa'smama: BF just gets better and better the longer you do it!!! It gets easier too!! My boobs are smaller now overall... Good luck!!

nice! so true, i just been on hollidays and i can see that they are nearly back to normal! that feels good!! also no milk coming up unwanted!! elisa has to suck to make it comes and that is also more relaxing!!!
Title: Re: Why I am so happy to be breastfeeding!
Post by: Blessed on September 19, 2007, 01:36:12 am
I've read through this a while back and was looking forward to the precious pulling off at the end and the GIANT gummy grin and IT'S HERE.  She's been doing it for a few weeks and it just melts my heart. 
Title: Re: Why I am so happy to be breastfeeding!
Post by: marblelicious on October 24, 2007, 19:21:07 pm
Going through this thread again makes me very emotional b/c here I am trying to wean my 11 month old baby (so mommy who needs a break can go on vacation with daddy at the end of the year!) so he will take formula from the bottle/cup. I really do love the entire nursing experience even though it gave me very little freedom to do much else this past 11 months. I am feeling so conflicted about ending the nursing relatinoship w/ Daniel, I want to stop b/c I want to get away for just a couple of weeks, but if I had a choice I'd go on an nurse pass the 1 year mark.
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Post by: aisling on October 24, 2007, 22:43:49 pm
Hugs sweetie.

Aisling x
Title: Re: Why I am so happy to be breastfeeding!
Post by: Muriel - Elisa's mama on October 25, 2007, 09:50:20 am
sure we will all feel the same way.. i am just cutting slowly the DF out and it feels also like I am leaving a nice moment out.. even if I will get my evening free again! it is sweet and sour at the same time! well, 11mo is great and couple life is also important, your LO would want happy parents too in the next years so taking a break with your Dh is als important for your LO!!

Hugs!!
Title: Re: Why I am so happy to be breastfeeding!
Post by: nathan_smom on October 29, 2007, 01:19:19 am
This being my second, I still really really enjoy breast feeding! I can not believe how much it helps shrink your uterus back down, as well as help you lose weight!! I am so much more relaxed with this one, and just really enjoying every feed. She pauses and looks up at me and smiles and grins! I don t remember this with my first(most of it is still a blur!! LOL)
It is just so natural and wonderful!
It is also very demanding especially the first few months, I feel like she is attached to  my hip...or boob to be exact, and there really is no "me" time. Can be overwhelming at times, but when I look at the big picture, what I am "giving" to her and the special bonding time that only "I" can give, it really is fulfilling and ABSOLUTELY worth every second!!! :)
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Post by: *Nicola* on January 21, 2008, 14:57:50 pm
Hello

Just noticed this and thought I'd join in  :)

Feeding Ciara was fantastic but stressful too as she was constantly attached to me and had a strong feed/sleep feed/comfort association.  I was terrified of the same thing happening with Callie using EASY we have been able to prevent this happening whilst still being able to snuggle/snooze etc during feeding  :D

It has really enabled me to enjoy bf-ing again   :D :D

We've just made it through the 3 month growth spurt where she was really fussy at every feed, twisting, squirming etc and I am SO pleased that we are finally back to nice, cosy, calm feeds  :D :D 

 :-*
Title: Re: Why I am so happy to be breastfeeding!
Post by: nathan_smom on January 23, 2008, 01:45:06 am
Nicola...I remember that phase too....glad its getting better!
Title: Re: Why I am so happy to be breastfeeding!
Post by: yaya on February 12, 2008, 12:57:21 pm
Jumping in here...
Had the worst experience BFing DS and sorely regret giving it up after 4 months. With DD it went much more smoothly BUT there were a lot of feeding issues which have made my supply hard to keep up, I have made it almost 8 months now and feel pretty proud of myself SO
I love BF because:
In the midst of our daily chaos, it's mine and DD's special time ( I still feed in bedroom!)
DD pulls off the breast and smiles at me!
DD latched on great whereas latch has previously been an issue!
Like others have said, it makes travel much less compliated
Sad but trues, I hate cleaning and sterilising!
I feel as though my body is doing what it's supposed to do.
 :)
Title: Re: Why I am so happy to be breastfeeding!
Post by: liacarmen on February 17, 2008, 05:06:15 am
My son is six months old now and I am truly in love with this nursing business! We had a really hard time getting started - nipple shields, fussy eating, constant eating, blah, blah, blah - but I stuck with it and we are so good at it now! I am so proud of him. Our feeds are such a nice peaceful time in the day and he is just thriving in every way. It makes me feel great to be able to do this for him, and me too!
Title: Re: Why I am so happy to be breastfeeding!
Post by: jennyb133 on March 11, 2008, 16:23:18 pm
Hi Breast-feeding Mommies!!
I BF my 1st DS for 1 year, & am now nursing my 2nd DS who is 7 mos. old. I love it! Thought I would share this with other nursing mommies, who are enjoying it too.

In honor of Dr. Seuss's b-day last week and us nursing moms, I give you:
Seuss for Nursing Mommies

Would you nurse her at the park?
Would you nurse him in the dark?
Would you nurse him with a boppy?
And when your boobs are feeling floppy?

I would nurse her in the park.
I would nurse him in the dark.
I'd nurse with or without a boppy.
Floppy boobs will never stop me.

Can you nurse with your seat belt on?
Can you nurse from dusk til dawn?
Though she may pinch me, bite me, pull,
I will nurse her til she's full.

Can you nurse and make some soup?
Can you nurse and feed the group?
It makes her healthy strong and smart,
Mommy's milk is the best start!

Would you nurse him at the game?
Would you nurse her in the rain?
In front of those who dare complain?
I would nurse him at the game.
I would nurse her in the rain.

As for those who protest lactation,
I have a perfect explanation.
Mommy milk is tailor made
It's perfect food, you need no aid.

Some may scoff and some may wriggle,
Avert their eyes or even giggle.
To those who can be cruel and rude,
Remind them breast's the perfect food.


I would never scoff or giggle,
Roll my eyes or even wiggle!
I would never be so crass or crude,
I KNOW that this milk's the perfect food!

We make the right amount we need,
The perfect temp for every feed.
There's no compare to milk from breast-
The perfect food, above the rest.

Those nursing smiles are oh so sweet,
Mommy milk is such a treat.
Human milk just can't be beat.

I will nurse, in any case,
On the street or in your face.
I will not let my baby cry,
I'll meet her needs, I'll always try.
It's not about what's good for you,
It's best for babies, through and through.

I will nurse her in my home,
I will nurse her when I roam.
Leave me be lads, leave me be ma'am
I will nurse her, MOM I am.

Title: Re: Why I am so happy to be breastfeeding!
Post by: Erin (redstarfalling) on March 11, 2008, 20:19:29 pm
I LOVE IT!!!!!  I want the board book version, with pics!!  ;D
Title: Re: Why I am so happy to be breastfeeding!
Post by: NoelleChristine on March 28, 2008, 19:05:47 pm
Gunnar is the first baby I've nursed past 4 months.  We are down to 4 nursings a day, and 1-2 at night, and I love every one of them.  I am amazed at how every nursing seems to get more special. 

I'm not even sure when it happened really but I didn't realize it changes so much as they grow.  Now he has this sweet, special, need/desire to nurse like he knows he's warm, loved and safe.  Like, when it's time to nurse, he knows it, and it's just as wonderful for him as it is for me.  Make sense?

When I dreamed of how breast feeding a baby would be...this is how I imagined it!
Title: Re: Why I am so happy to be breastfeeding!
Post by: Mum of 3 + 2 stepkids on May 22, 2008, 15:00:48 pm
Never thought i would want to go past 6 months but now im here im going strong and look on to 9 months as my next goal. Im really loving it and this is my last. I just wish i had all the support i have on these boards now when i had my first, it would have been a lot easier.

Kate x
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Post by: fifibobandmore on May 22, 2008, 20:53:30 pm
Fantastic Kate and that poem is SOOOOOO sweet and I have another reason why I love BF my Edward. This reason is he is my last so I want to have that extra special time with him that no one else can have an giving him his bf is that time. He is now 10 months old he is the only one of my 3 precious gems that I have not had a touch of PND with and I am so proud to the extent that I am trying to encourage my friend how is TTC to try bf her baby when she has it and told her I will help her in everyway possible even show her the right and wrong positions now so that she has some pre-knowledge as she formula feed her last 2 and at the moment says she will not entertain bf as she will not feel comfortable but she is asking questions so maybe I might be convincing her to give it try even if it is only for a few weeks
Title: Re: Why I am so happy to be breastfeeding!
Post by: Jocasta on May 25, 2008, 19:55:12 pm
I came onto this thread to put my 2ps worth in - why I'm so happy to be breast feeding.

I guess for me there are lots of reasons.  I'm suffering PND and breastfeeding is a massive positive in my life - something that enables me to feel good about myself!  Having that closeness with another human being that is never equalled in any relationship other than the breastfeeding mother and her nursling relationship!  Never having to be particularly organised when I leave the house - Sophie is old enough that she doesn't need any "baby" things, so I can just get the girls in the car, put a nappy or two in my handbag, and we're away!

To be completely frank, the list goes on and on and on!  All I know is that I love breastfeeding - now that the cracked nipples are well in the past, there's nothing I don't love about breastfeeding!!!

And yes Kate, it's horrible knowing that we'll not experience this again with future babies huh?  I'm enjoying nursing so much right now that it kinda makes me want to have another... (remember SPD, remember SPD, remember SPD... ;))
Title: Re: Why I am so happy to be breastfeeding!
Post by: Mum of 3 + 2 stepkids on May 25, 2008, 20:24:31 pm
Just wanted to say how much your short story ment to me, you truly are a wonderful mummy. To give your lo the start in life they need and to be suffering from PND and all your other things you deal with. You really should be proud of yourself.

And yes i too toyed with idea of having another one for this time again, but..............................nice thought though.

Kate x
Title: Re: Why I am so happy to be breastfeeding!
Post by: jobi on May 25, 2008, 21:30:24 pm
it's horrible knowing that we'll not experience this again with future babies huh?  I'm enjoying nursing so much right now that it kinda makes me want to have another...

Ahhhhhh i'm glad its not just me then!!
Title: Re: Why I am so happy to be breastfeeding!
Post by: NoelleChristine on May 25, 2008, 23:32:49 pm
it's horrible knowing that we'll not experience this again with future babies huh?  I'm enjoying nursing so much right now that it kinda makes me want to have another...

Ahhhhhh i'm glad its not just me then!!

I use to feel that way too!  That was a huge part of me wanting another baby after Ben.  I really really wanted breastfeeding to work out and I had major guilt when I stopped breast feeding him.  I quit for the wrong reasons and was totally uninformed and unsupported at that time. 

Now, Gunnar and I are almost to the 1 year mark and only you ladies know how wonderful a feeling that is.  I have experienced some guilty regret at not nursing my other children this long.  I have this wonderful experience of an older nursling with Gunnar that I don't have with my other children and I sooooooo wish I got to experience that with them too. 

But...no use beating myself up about it huh?!  What's done is done.  I just hope I can pass on my knowledge and experience to my daughter (and maybe even my daughters-in-law) when she has children of her own.
Title: Re: Why I am so happy to be breastfeeding!
Post by: Mum of 3 + 2 stepkids on May 27, 2008, 09:36:21 am
Yes im hoping to pass it all on friends, friends DD's, my DD and anyone else who i cross paths with.

Thanks god for the 'BW'

Kate x
Title: Re: Why I am so happy to be breastfeeding!
Post by: lisi's mum on May 28, 2008, 11:24:55 am
GO KATE!!!

Why am I happy to be breast feeding? 'Cause I just don't really think I could do it any other way.
Title: Re: Why I am so happy to be breastfeeding!
Post by: Lex444 on June 01, 2008, 10:19:22 am
Just wanted to add my piece, because I've been breastfeeding my first child for four months today (yay!) and I'm so pleased I'm doing it.

Although I've had mastitis four times (from my oversupply and bimbo breasts which have trouble regulating), I still love nursing. I've been loving these stories, I find this thread so inspiring.

Not only do I find the time we spend nursing peaceful, I find it a sensual pleasure. Does that sound odd? I like the hormone rush I get with nursing, and find the connection with my son is more intimate than any other I've ever had, I think, except perhaps with a lover. Bizarre, huh? But true!
Title: Re: Why I am so happy to be breastfeeding!
Post by: Jocasta on June 01, 2008, 20:40:15 pm
Not only do I find the time we spend nursing peaceful, I find it a sensual pleasure. Does that sound odd? I like the hormone rush I get with nursing, and find the connection with my son is more intimate than any other I've ever had, I think, except perhaps with a lover. Bizarre, huh? But true!

Not odd at all - I completely agree with all of that! 
Title: Re: Why I am so happy to be breastfeeding!
Post by: Kimberly® on June 01, 2008, 22:59:36 pm
I want to say I am happy because I really didn't think I could do it. I never thought I was strong enough or good enough to do it and I am. That more then anything makes me happy.
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Post by: binxyboo on June 02, 2008, 05:44:13 am
It is a very empowering feeling, isn't it Kimberly. It's a very natural progression, you nourished your baby for 9 months inside your body, now your body is providing her with everything she needs to grow and thrive. It really is a miracle when your baby grows bigger and you look down at them one day and think, "Hey, I did all that".

You are doing amazing xx
Title: Re: Why I am so happy to be breastfeeding!
Post by: Samuel's mum on June 02, 2008, 09:25:17 am
Your message has put a very big smile on my face Kimberly. I agree with Michelle it's a very special feeling to know that you are providing for your baby just as in pregnancy and giving that magical cocktail of immune- boosting, species- specific goodies. Way to go!!!
Title: Re: Why I am so happy to be breastfeeding!
Post by: sky,boosmomo on June 03, 2008, 03:51:01 am
I am so glad to be the one my lo needs. The one she looks for when she cries. The one she needs when its time to eat. Just knowing that it is our special time. I love her lil smiles when she's full, I love the why she holds my hand while she feeds. Knowing that she is so healthy/happy makes me know I am doing something right in her life!!!!  I LOVE BREASTFEEDING!!
Title: Re: Why I am so happy to be breastfeeding!
Post by: woopster on June 03, 2008, 07:23:47 am
I was gutted when Harry stopped bf.  I really missed it. Everything about it. The way he would smile at me with milk dribbling out the side of his mouth, the way he would touch my face when he was feeding, the way he would stroke my hair when he got bigger (even now, stroking my hair is a comfort for him).
When I couldn't feed Sam and Lydia I was heartbroken. I tried, but they were just too small. Even latching on would knock them out! I pumped for 9 weeks with them.

This time though, I was determined! I am SO glad I stuck at it. We've had our ups and downs, and I've had to give some formula feeds but we're still feeding at 10 months!

it's horrible knowing that we'll not experience this again with future babies huh?  I'm enjoying nursing so much right now that it kinda makes me want to have another...

Ahhhhhh i'm glad its not just me then!!

Or me!
Title: Re: Why I am so happy to be breastfeeding!
Post by: clh on June 17, 2008, 18:26:14 pm
I love the relationship that I've had with each of my boys while they were/are breastfeeding.  I was reminded this past week that the benefits continue, even past a year.  (I know that, but it's good to be reminded.)  Isaac (13 months) was sick with a tummy bug, and when I told our pediatrician that I had bf'd him a bit, she just smiled & said that breast milk was the best & most gentle thing for him.  ;D  So he got the best stuff AND all the cuddles/snuggles that come with it.  Sigh.  That makes me happy to continue. 
Title: Re: Why I am so happy to be breastfeeding!
Post by: Lex444 on June 18, 2008, 11:50:23 am
Awwww aww aww! I just LOVE this thread.

I've had low-grade mastitis for the FIFTH time this week now in four months. Luckily, I have a brilliant physio who gets rid of the blockages through massage and ultrasound, so I can avoid the antibiotics (touch wood. I've had to do two courses and it's horrible for me and the baby), and this thread reminds me of why I love breastfeeding so much and why it's completely worth it.

Here's another gorgeous little bf moment.

I love the way my son grabs for my thumb or finger and clings on while he feeds.

At first, I thought he just wanted to hold something so I've offered him a toy, but he always knocks it away and grabs for my hand. So he wants me!

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Post by: Mum of 3 + 2 stepkids on June 18, 2008, 11:52:22 am
Dito Zane does that too, its lovely isn't it.

Kate x
Title: Re: Why I am so happy to be breastfeeding!
Post by: Jocasta on June 18, 2008, 12:12:29 pm
Mae holds my breast instead!  If I'm BIP, she always pushes my top up so that she can still hold on lol.  It's a little embarassing have the whole world flashed, but it really sweet too :D
Title: Re: Why I am so happy to be breastfeeding!
Post by: NoelleChristine on June 18, 2008, 13:24:42 pm
Gunnar now reaches to touch my face.  Really sweet and gentle like.  It's the sweetest thing!
Title: Re: Why I am so happy to be breastfeeding!
Post by: woopster on June 18, 2008, 14:57:04 pm
Don't know if I should be happy about this but the King has taken to blowing raspberries while still latched on! Tickles!!
Title: Re: Why I am so happy to be breastfeeding!
Post by: Jocasta on June 18, 2008, 15:04:16 pm
Don't know if I should be happy about this but the King has taken to blowing raspberries while still latched on! Tickles!!

LMAO!
Title: Re: Why I am so happy to be breastfeeding!
Post by: NoelleChristine on June 18, 2008, 17:16:28 pm
 :D  That's cute!
Title: Re: Why I am so happy to be breastfeeding!
Post by: lisi's mum on June 18, 2008, 17:33:13 pm
That could get messy!
Title: Re: Why I am so happy to be breastfeeding!
Post by: fifibobandmore on June 19, 2008, 13:11:13 pm
Edward has to have my hand under the breast he is feeding from the other rubbing my cheek or hair and his leg that is on the top he kicks. The other day when his dad came home from work he was feeding and his dad came over to give him a kiss and he growled at him for getting in the way of looking at me and because his dad did not move away and kissed his cheek he stopped rubbing my cheek and smacked his dad right in the eye.
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Post by: Mum of 3 + 2 stepkids on June 19, 2008, 18:32:52 pm
lol :)
Title: Re: Why I am so happy to be breastfeeding!
Post by: woopster on June 19, 2008, 18:42:49 pm
 ;D Clever Edward!
Title: Re: Why I am so happy to be breastfeeding!
Post by: mum101 on July 30, 2008, 03:05:36 am
I was reading this thread while pregnant with some anxiety hoping breast-feeding would go well. Now Leobin is here, and he's feeding well and EBF, I am pleased to be posting on here.  (By the way it's a GREAT topic, as I really feel the urge to be god damn proud of feeding  :) without burdening all who come close   ::)  :P ). )

I am really excited and proud to be feeding a second time around, I really appreciate it much more and feel a real joy knowing that I am keeping my son going and growing him each day.
Now he sometimes tries to look at me while feeding, and tries to smile which is just adorable. 

I struggled feeding Rory past 8 months and wish I'd taken more time to seek help such as on here or through a lc.  I had mixed feelings about feeding Leobin for more than 8 months and I wish I could have gone longer with Rory. For a moment I considered expressing milk for Rory, even though she is 3 LOL!
Even though I know she is fine, healthy, smart and happy and she did fine without it. I didn't want to feel like I had robbed Rory.  But I have to say those anxieties have mostly gone out the window and the reality of feeding him is wonderous.  Come hell or high water I was going to bf Leobin, just so glad it's so far a joyous experience!

With Rory I wanted to feed until 1 or more, this time I want to go until he is 2!   :)
Title: Re: Why I am so happy to be breastfeeding!
Post by: Jocasta on July 30, 2008, 13:19:13 pm
Charmaine, that's how I feel (although it's not going so smoothly here) I want to get to 2 years with Mae too :D

And as for expressing milk for Rory, Sophie has breast milk pretty much every day - she prefers it to cows milk but unfortunatley I can't express enough to replace the whole 2pnts she drinks every day :P  I still try to put some aside for donation too but alas Sophie has been drinking most of the excess over the last few weeks.  DH thinks it's really icky giving Sophie EBM but I pointed out that I hope to still be nursing Mae at her age and besides, logically it makes far more sense to give my daughter human milk than it does to give her cows milk!  Aside from the chicken pox, she's not been ill at all since she's been having a bottle of EBM per day (c. 3m which is good for her lol).  Certainly worth thinking about!
Title: Re: Why I am so happy to be breastfeeding!
Post by: mum101 on August 06, 2008, 05:32:51 am
hi jo, that is a great idea for Sophie, as you say you planned to feed until then. 
and surely a fresher, cheaper option than buying cows milk.   :)
Title: Re: Why I am so happy to be breastfeeding!
Post by: rinajack on August 06, 2008, 06:23:42 am
Only read this page, but I LOVE Bfing too.  Hugh is nearly 1, and he too sometimes blows raspberries, and he tries to catch my eye and laugh while still latched.

I am his total prop, not necessarily the breat, but he touches my face, my hair, by necklace anything of me, whenever he is feeding or sleepy.  He it a total Mama's boy and I love it.  I am hoping to feed til age 2.
Title: Re: Why I am so happy to be breastfeeding!
Post by: mum101 on September 20, 2008, 04:38:01 am
I'm loving the mumma's boy I have too, I think how soon it will be he'll be fobbing me off to run outside and smash wood with DH or build a bike  :P

Leobin is nearly 5 months now, and I'm excited about solids soon.  It's funny to start thinking of and planning solids, bf is such a part of the day, I usually forget he's on while life goes on.  Cooking meals etc. for him will be fun, but not quite as easy... or special  :)
Title: Re: Why I am so happy to be breastfeeding!
Post by: rinajack on September 20, 2008, 23:58:24 pm
Wow, 5 months already.

Hugh is nearly 13 months.  His latest BF antic is to latch on, nurse for a few sucks, then let go, roll away, sit up etc pretend he is finished - then repeat, repeat, repeat....it is so funny and so frustrating at the same time.

Now, I can't let him see my breasts at all (shower, bath, dressing etc) unless I am prepared for him to BF!

People are starting to wonder when I will stop BF - for me, the end is no where in sight, I love Bf him, it is so easy, so natural, and feels so perfectly normal!
Title: Re: Why I am so happy to be breastfeeding!
Post by: mum101 on September 21, 2008, 09:21:00 am
Hugh sure is a character!  I wonder too when people will start wondering when I'll finish, it's a shame that it's ever even their business!!

Now, I can't let him see my breasts at all (shower, bath, dressing etc) unless I am prepared for him to BF!


LOL
Title: Re: Why I am so happy to be breastfeeding!
Post by: rinajack on September 21, 2008, 11:49:49 am
Many times, it isn't so much that they wonder out loud, but when I am invited for drinks or something, or say I have to be home to BF Hugh, they look surprised, and then you can see the wondering in their faces iykwim.

Yes, he is a character!  Just now I wanted to put him to bed (late he is sick and his last nap ended at 7pm) he wouldn't come to me when I offered BF.  Eventually, I just showed him my breasts, and he crawled straight over with a HUGE grin on his face LOL.
Title: Re: Why I am so happy to be breastfeeding!
Post by: Jocasta on September 21, 2008, 13:56:30 pm
Eventually, I just showed him my breasts, and he crawled straight over with a HUGE grin on his face LOL.

That is the sweetest thing!

I'm beginning to get some of that with Mae.  When we bath together, she'll play and be giggling and then she'll catch a glimpse and her expression will become all serious and she'll stare.  I'll turn her around to continue playing and the same thing happens over and over.  It has me in hysterics!

She's just started the "grab and plunge" too which I've heard others talk about but have never bf for that long before Mae.  It's so darn cute!

I too just absolutely love nursing Mae.  I can't imagine not having a nursing relationship with her anymore and despite all the comments I'm getting (I've warned my nearest and dearest that I do NOT intend to stop at the magical 1 year mark!), I'm really hoping that she doesn't self wean too early!

It's funny because we've had a programme aired over here recently called "other people's breast milk" and it was very popular - most people watched out of morbid curiosity lol!  It did touch on extended nursing and as such this discussion has come up loads at mother and toddler groups lately.  I just sit and listen to the "OMG that's so digusting" and "ew, did you see that mother still nursing her 4yo" and think to myself "I'm gonna get some people talking about me soon..."  Maybe this is a topic for a new post lol!
Title: Re: Why I am so happy to be breastfeeding!
Post by: mumto5cuddlebugs on September 21, 2008, 15:46:09 pm
Yesterday while bf Jem unlatched and gave me the biggest smile and then latched on again...i laughed so now it is his little game. Soooo cute.
I love bf ;D
Title: Re: Why I am so happy to be breastfeeding!
Post by: mum101 on September 21, 2008, 23:52:03 pm
Yesterday while bf Jem unlatched and gave me the biggest smile and then latched on again...i laughed so now it is his little game. Soooo cute.
I love bf ;D

I love that too!  Often if I start talking to someone else, he stops, and stares at me until I look down, then he throws me a huge grin and pops back on.  *just checking you know I'm here and being soooo good*

He can stay on for ages too, long after the milk ends, just hanging around   :P I hope that's a good sign for long-term feeding. Rory, at the same age, was a handful to feed.
Title: Re: Why I am so happy to be breastfeeding!
Post by: mommy of BT on February 16, 2009, 21:16:41 pm
i really love that im BF for a completely different reason...well in addition to all of the above!:) I had a breast reduction and thought I  wouldnt be able to BF at all....i thought i would give it a shot but really didnt want to get my hopes up!........but lo and behold after three weeks of BF from either side then feeding my DD whatever i could pump...then topping her up with formula and THEN pumping for 10 minutes (it was exhausting!!)....my DD started rejecting the formula and only wanted to nurse!!!.........truely amazing! She is Thank G-d putting on weight and a very happy content little girl!

BF is such a pleasure i wouldnt change it for sterilizing bottles for nothing in the world!:)

so all of you out there who think BFAR (breast feeding after a reduction) is impossible im living proof it can be done and is definitely worth a shot!:)

Title: Re: Why I am so happy to be breastfeeding!
Post by: mum101 on February 18, 2009, 01:28:40 am
Hi mommy of BT, that is great news.  ;D

Title: Re: Why I am so happy to be breastfeeding!
Post by: Jocasta on February 19, 2009, 14:29:48 pm
Mae now says "mama muk" for feeding.  I've heard people say things like "when they're old enough to ask for it, they're too old" but tbh, I think it's the cutest thing! 

She normally only has one side but the last few days I've been really poorly and DH has brought her to me in bed to nurse.  She'll drain one side and then play for a bit.  She's then been climbing over and helping herself to the other side.  She keeps having a little suckle and then coming off and saying "num num", grinnin the biggest cheesey grin and then having some more.  It just completely melts my heart!
Title: Re: Why I am so happy to be breastfeeding!
Post by: clh on February 19, 2009, 19:26:05 pm
That's lovely, Jo!
Title: Re: Why I am so happy to be breastfeeding!
Post by: shivi on February 20, 2009, 19:34:42 pm
hi girls....

I am so glad to have the chance to do the BFing thing again.....6 weeks in tonight and am so proud that my little daughter is about 1.5kg up (about 3 pounds) than where she was this night 6 weeks ago and her scrawny little legs are now quite chubby and she has not a double but rather a quadruple chin! Such a nice feeling that its all thanks to my milk!

nice to be here!

hugs

Siobhain x

ps. fed Oscar till he self weaned eventually (had a strike at 8 months) at 16 mths....12 of those was back in work fulltime. This time I will not be back in work till Emma is almost 8 mths so feel the first half year will be easier...we will see what time brings! Would like to go as long so as she gets "the same" as him.....
Title: Re: Why I am so happy to be breastfeeding!
Post by: frymommy24 on March 08, 2009, 19:08:55 pm
I have a love hate realtionship with BF. I love I can nurse her and she calms down. I love feeling her get sleepy while nursing. I love not having to buy formula. I love seeing her gain weight and knowing my milk jugs are doing it =) I love how quick my extra 50 lbs are coming of.

I hate it when she fights me when she is nursing sometimes. I hate that she cant just nurse to put her to sleep. I hate that when im away from her i have to pump to keep my supply up. I hate how much it hurt for the first week.


I will BF my next baby for sure. There is a bond that I wouldnt give up to formula. 
Title: Re: Why I am so happy to be breastfeeding!
Post by: mum101 on March 11, 2009, 10:08:49 am
Hi Siobhan, glad to hear feeding is going well for you! 

BF really seems to go through stages for us, now it is lovely. A month or so ago Leo used to pull my hair sharply all through feeds. I was starting to resent it. But he's back to gently playing with my hair, thankfully it's gentle as he spends the whole feed running his fingers through my hair.

Reminds me of you Rina, I remember you saying Hugh loved to play with your hair to put himself to sleep. I had DS in bed with us when he was really unsettled and I got NO sleep because he played with my hair all night.
Title: Re: Why I am so happy to be breastfeeding!
Post by: woopster on March 12, 2009, 09:13:37 am
"when they're old enough to ask for it, they're too old"

Dan can ask for water. Should I stop giving it to him? Sam can ask for milk. Should he not have that?
Can't wait to use that response!
Title: Re: Why I am so happy to be breastfeeding!
Post by: Tamara on March 13, 2009, 10:16:23 am
"when they're old enough to ask for it, they're too old"

Dan can ask for water. Should I stop giving it to him? Sam can ask for milk. Should he not have that?
Can't wait to use that response!

LMAO - bloody well said Wendy  :-*

Ok, for me, it's a bit different this time around.  With Elin (who weaned at 16 months) I loved the fact that if all else fails I could BF her to sleep and she was hugely comforted by BFing.  I loved how much she enjoyed it, loved the closeness, the cuddles and how it actually felt.

With Ioan, it's a bit different, he doesn't seem to enjoy it very much - it's a means to an end for him and has never comfort BF.  However, at this point I still love the BF at the start of the day in bed (even if it only lasts a few minutes) and I am happy that I am still able to do this amazing thing for him that I'll never be able to do again for him and that no one else can do.  I still CHERISH those many many many many many nightfeeds we had where he actually fed properly, really relaxed and cuddly, not that I wish him to start NW again (after all, it's taken till 13.5 months for him to realise that he will not starve and can actually sleep 12 hours) but I do sort of miss those feeds.
Title: Re: Why I am so happy to be breastfeeding!
Post by: johanna01 on June 29, 2009, 03:48:21 am
I'm nursing my DS at 11 mos, and it's been so much more than just the convenience, or the money saving.  It's those moments that no one else can share but the two of you.  Some of my favourite moments were over the winter, getting up at 2 or 3 in the morning, and cuddling up in 'the chair' knowing everyone else was asleep.  Snow falling outside, and feeling such a remarkable peace at having this wonderful little boy in my arms completely dependent on me.  It's just blissful.
Hugs to all you Moms who get it!!
Title: Re: Why I am so happy to be breastfeeding!
Post by: mummytired on September 19, 2009, 20:19:18 pm
When he was very small and I felt like I had no idea what I was doing, the second we sat down the crying stopped and the wide mouthed grunting started.  It let me know that even if I was getting everything else wrong, as far as he was concerned I was getting feeding right  ;D

We don't get the grunting anymore but now I love the first feed of the day cuddled up in bed and how no matter how many things I think I ought to be getting on with I have to stop and have a wonderful quiet cuddle that always finishes with I big beaming smile.  :D

The things I love about it change as he grows up except for one thing, it's the best food for my baby and only I can make it  ;D
Title: Re: Why I am so happy to be breastfeeding!
Post by: ArdenJean on October 06, 2009, 13:24:36 pm
After early latching issues (go breast shields!!) I am happy to say we are still BFing at 7 months with plans to continue to one year.  I love breastfeeding because:
* I love the way she plays with my clothes, hair, glasses, Mommy Necklace, mouth, etc.  while she grunts contentedly.
* While I'm not a fan of pumping, I'm very proud to send my milk for her to have during the day at daycare.
* It gave me an easy excuse to escape for some quiet time away from in-laws on a recent vacation!!!
* How excited she gets and tries to latch on through my shirt - then through the nursing bra and - at last! - boobie!!
* How happy and proud it makes me when ladies comment "good for you" when they see me nurse in public.
* DH loves to see her disembodied hands and feet flailing from under the Hooter Hider! ;D
Title: Re: Why I am so happy to be breastfeeding!
Post by: teilvnav on November 17, 2009, 20:34:26 pm
Wow, you have all really managed to take the words out of my mouth. At first I hated BFing, because we didn't get off to a great start. I thought it would be so natural and easy, and when my nipples started cracking and he was dehydrated because I wasn't producing I felt it like a blow to my heart. We kept at it, and still struggle sometimes... he goes on strikes once in a while, and he has teeth (and knows how to use 'em). But we will still keep at it, because it is the best for him and I have grown to love it. Things I love about breastfeeding:
- it is so cute when he pulls away and smiles, then quickly goes back on to earnestly resume his meal
- the last drops of milk always seem to dribble down his chubby cheeks
- it is SO easy to go out, travel, etc and just need to grab a blanket to cover myself
- the burbs, barf, and poop don't really smell that bad (until you start solids, anyway)
- it is free
- he loves it and is curious about everyone else's "equipment"; even men get examined as possible food sources when they hold him
Title: Re: Why I am so happy to be breastfeeding!
Post by: LisbonMom on November 17, 2009, 21:47:54 pm
- he loves it and is curious about everyone else's "equipment"; even men get examined as possible food sources when they hold him

LOL!!!!!!
Title: Re: Why I am so happy to be breastfeeding!
Post by: nazmommy on November 18, 2009, 04:23:43 am
Awesome comments!!!  You ladies are fabulous and amazing!

I loved the reasons for bfing!!!

The reasons I love bfing are:
1. The awesome feeling of satisfaction I get
2. The excuse to go away from it all to BF
3. The dribbles of milk that run down her chin
4. The way she searches for her nummy mummies
5. The way she sits on my lap, facing me and comfort nursing in the middle of playing
6. Its free
7. The peaceful feeling she gets when she nurses, and the peaceful feeling I get

BFing really saved me.  I had a LOT of post pardum anxiety and I think that my determination to BF pulled me through.  We are still BFing and DD is going strong!

Hugs to you all!
Title: Re: Why I am so happy to be breastfeeding!
Post by: Chazziesmom on May 04, 2010, 05:26:49 am
I love bf too!  It took 2 full months for my barracuda baby to stop making it painful but I stuck with it cause I knew it was best for him and he is extremely healthy and extremely advanced for his age!  Aside from the precious time it gives me with him, cause he isn't a cuddler except for when he is bfing, once he is done, he's off like a shot:  I lost all my baby weight, 27 pounds plus 25 more pounds by 4 months!  It is way more convenient than I realized, I didn't have a pump until he was 6 months and I thought it would be so much easier when we were out in public or whatever if I could just give him his milk with a cup (no bottles for me, who wants to wean from the breast and the bottle? once will be enough!), now that he does that, I have to pump or wait until we get home while my boobs are like rocks and in pain!?!  Then you have to keep the milk warm, carry the cup and thermos, etc. etc. - it is much easier to bf than anything else - the grass is always greener til you get there  :)  Chaz is 7 months today and I am definitely going to the 12 month mark!
Title: Re: Why I am so happy to be breastfeeding!
Post by: waffler on June 12, 2010, 08:37:04 am
Lara is 10 months and while I weaned DD1 (self weaned) at 8 mths, I'm so happy things are going well with Lara. Now, when I BF her, she plays peek-a-boo with me. Took me a while to realise what she was doing, she has a blankie/hankie that she fiddles with, and one day, she hid her face with it, then pulled it away, looked at me (still BF) and giggled. So i went peekaboo and she loved it. She does it all the time now. It's too cute.

up until 3 wks ago i was pumping every single day, just for a bit of extra milk and to help with supply. in the begining it seemed such a chore, but then it was just 15 mins a day of nohting really. No biggie. i find my supply dropping a bit but we're dropping a feed now too, so i'm going to pump again to help keep my supply up. I hope she doesn't self wean herself too soon, would love to go to the 2 year mark. Intitially, i had so many clogged ducts I thought of quitting and giving formula every day. But i just kept telling myself to get to 1 mth... 2 mths... 3 mths... 4 mths... hnow i'm confident of getting to 1 year, and after that, there's no stopping us. I won't be stopping her anytime soon, i hope she wants to keep going to mummy for her feeds and comfort too. I love how she squiggles around and gets all comfy, and how suddenly a leg will pop up like a Jane Fonda aerobics routine! love it :)
Title: Re: Why I am so happy to be breastfeeding!
Post by: Manueli on July 20, 2010, 06:14:41 am
I love:
- the way his little hands feel on my skin when he feeds
- the big smile I get when he unlashes
- the calmness, closeness, peacefulness
- that, if everything fails, I can always feed to sleep (very handy when traveling)
- that I can clean his nose and ears while he feeds :P
- that he can still be half asleep while feeding after waking from his sleep and has a nicer transition to being awake
Title: Re: Why I am so happy to be breastfeeding!
Post by: my3girlsjde on December 16, 2010, 21:54:55 pm
As I sit here typing at 20lbs lighter than my pre-preg weight I have to say I'm quite happy to stull be bf'ing.

We had a horrible first couple of months but so glad we stuck it out.

I'm happy that we have finally figured out MSPI and reflux and boobie juice REALLY is the best thing for her.

I'm happy that it's FINALLY so much easier and I'm far too lazy to do bottles.

And I'm secretly happy that my in-laws (who are not fans of extended bf'ing past 2 months), have to wait for us to finish our quiet time together before they get to enjoy her. I often take much longer than I need to lol. 
Title: Re: Why I am so happy to be breastfeeding!
Post by: aisling on December 17, 2010, 01:26:20 am
LOL! Love it!  Good for you.  Well done.  Lots of hugs too.

xx
Title: Re: Why I am so happy to be breastfeeding!
Post by: LifeGiver on January 10, 2011, 18:23:10 pm
7: Because it's something only I can do for her!

that's why I wanted to (despite all the benefits blablabla...)
It was my joy when she was younger, but as another mom said it sees all is against us! :/

I like breastfeeding because it's God's designed way for us moms to feed our LOs.
Title: Re: Why I am so happy to be breastfeeding!
Post by: osutuffy on February 10, 2011, 18:17:52 pm
I never thought I would breastfeed. I don't know anyone in my family that has and never thought I would be the first. After reading about all the positives, I decided I would BF as long as I could up to 6 months. I never expected to last more than 8 weeks, TBO. It sounded complicated and like a lot of work. From the first time I fed her, I fell in love with BF and I may go longer than planned. I still take it day by day, but I do love to feed her. Here is my list:

It's mommy time with her.
I get to stare at her while she eats and look at all her little features.
It comforts her more than a bottle does, when she is upset nothing can calm her like nursing can.
Motherhood is scary, and I have had some fears about whether I had the skills to be a mother, BF has given me the confidence. I don't know what it is about BF, but I feel like if I can do something so important like make food for her from my body, then I will be able to give her advice about boys, bullies, school, etc.
Title: Re: Why I am so happy to be breastfeeding!
Post by: my3girlsjde on February 10, 2011, 18:26:10 pm
NOW I'm so happy because she's HUGE!!!! She really has done better on breastmilk and I'm the only one that can give it to her.

Motherhood is scary, and I have had some fears about whether I had the skills to be a mother, BF has given me the confidence.
I totally agree :D
Title: Re: Why I am so happy to be breastfeeding!
Post by: slawler on February 28, 2011, 18:00:43 pm
I love breastfeeding my dd and this was quite a suprise to me. I was so worried about it before hand and was scared that it would feel wierd. Yet, instead of being wierd, I actually found it feels the most natural thing in the world and is such a special time for me and my girl. She is just getting to the age where she understands on sight that milk is coming and she gets all excited with her gorgeous smiles and noises. It was hard for the first few weeks as she was a little and we struggled with the latch, but once achieved it has proved one of the most amazing things. I feel so lucky to be able to give her extra immunity from things and that I am giving her the best start I possibly can. :)
What a great thread! ;D
Title: Re: Why I am so happy to be breastfeeding!
Post by: crlynch on April 02, 2011, 02:19:35 am
I am grateful to be breastfeeding because there are so many women that want to and they are not able to (medically or otherwise).
I love the quiet time when its just DS and myself and we just relax.
I love looking at his face and noticing every wrinkle and crease.
I am just happy to be able to do this.
Title: Re: Why I am so happy to be breastfeeding!
Post by: Mummyluv on April 07, 2011, 11:42:37 am
I bf dd for 15 months and ds for just over 12 months. I got real sick and had to stop due to medication I had to take. But I was thinking about it this morning and thought I'd pop in and read some threads on the subject. It really is such a wonderful, precious thing; the way they stare up at you with such love and yes, reach up for you to kiss their hands. It been 5 years since I stooped bring dd but I can still see those dark black eyes staring up at me as she gives me a huge loving smile. Enjoy every minute of it lady's!

@Marie- I had a terrible time bring dd in the beginning. I actually used to bite dh's finger as she latched on. A friend suggested to get a lactation consultant into the house to help. Much different than at the hospital. She spent 1.5 hours and I never had a problem after that. Best thing it was covered by insurance!  Just thought I'd share. Good luck xx
Title: Re: Why I am so happy to be breastfeeding!
Post by: KellyC on April 26, 2011, 17:22:11 pm
This thread is always popping up in my 'unread' list but it must be years since I actually posted on it - I don't know if it was when DS1 (5.5 years!) or DS2 (almost 4!) was a baby even.  I've now spent 4.5 years of my life breastfeeding and I don't resent a moment of it.  DS3 is 18 months old and only has 1 or 2 feeds a day - but always at bedtime and I love it because he doesn't stop for a moment during the day and is so big and independent and clever but we always have that wonderful cuddle before bed when he's still my baby.  Oh - and I don't have to wash any bottles up, yay!

Kelly x
Title: Re: Why I am so happy to be breastfeeding!
Post by: Mom-o on July 18, 2011, 21:28:31 pm
DD is 7months old and we have had a time of it.
She has reflux- its best to breastfeed
She had constipation- its best to breastfeed
She has now been diagnosed with milk protein intolerance and guess what? IT'S BEST TO BREASTFEED!!!

My instinct to feed my dd has been the best I've ever followed. I love to hold my baby close and feed her, To see her satisfied, to see her grow and to see she has not suffered because I chose to feed her. Some days were very tough and DH just said "Do it one more day" and I did and now we are 7 months in and planning to go to a year.
Title: Re: Why I am so happy to be breastfeeding!
Post by: alannon on September 28, 2011, 20:33:27 pm
Helena is my 3rd child and I BF all of them, with my first two children I only Bf for a few months, restriction sof work, blah blah blah.  Now I have a decent job and have been able to take 9 months maternity leave.

I love feeding my LO, the look you get when you tell her its milk time, the excited wiggles and murmerings you get when she gets your breast in her mouth and she gets the first mouthful of milk.

The satisfied sigh when she has had enough and her tummy is full.

I say that if you can BF give it a go, a survey recently said that only 2% of mums in the UK BF, we are behind most European countries in the polls.  The instant convenience of being able to feed anywhere and immediately without having to mix formula and sterilise bottles.  The more mums that are seen to be feeding in public will encourage the younger generation to BF their LO's. 

BF is best!
Title: Re: Why I am so happy to be breastfeeding!
Post by: teilvnav on September 28, 2011, 23:57:38 pm
How nice to see this in my 'new replies' box again! I am nursing our second LO now, and once again I am SO happy to be BFing. I love how she face-dabs me when she is hungry, like she is kissing me. I love the little hopeful sounds she makes and how she has her mouth open like a little bird. I really love those little satisfied sighs and murmers she makes once her initial hunger is fulfilled. Ahh... so nice!
Title: Re: Why I am so happy to be breastfeeding!
Post by: shivi on September 29, 2011, 19:34:34 pm
brought a tear to my eye and a burn to my ovaries, Amy xxx
Title: Re: Why I am so happy to be breastfeeding!
Post by: teilvnav on September 29, 2011, 19:50:14 pm
 :-* :)
Title: Re: Why I am so happy to be breastfeeding!
Post by: my3girlsjde on September 30, 2011, 00:57:23 am
I love how she face-dabs me when she is hungry, like she is kissing me.
Oh how I had forgotten this! :'( I want to have another baby to breastfeed again lol
Title: Re: Why I am so happy to be breastfeeding!
Post by: mamaJulie on September 30, 2011, 01:14:38 am
This brings tears to my eyes and I am still breastfeeding! It's just kind of sad how they grow up so quickly. I love this baby stage so much! And I'm so sleep deprived and yet so happy. She has funny nursing manners now that my older DD never did. When I nurse her in bed she likes to stop, crawl around, then crawl back towards me where I am lying sideways and nurse while lying on her belly... or sitting up, or half-standing.:)
Title: Re: Why I am so happy to be breastfeeding!
Post by: Mom-o on October 01, 2011, 22:15:50 pm
Reading this has actually highlighted some of my DD mannerisms.
Her panting to be fed makes me smile so much. So expectant and excited. Sometimes she just dives in, misses the nipple and tries to latch onto whatever flesh is in front of her!
My favourite thing is the way she strokes my arm with the back of her hand as she feeds. Such soft hands and such a precious moment.
I don't think I appreciated it as much until this thread got me thinking. DH declared he is envious that I have that time/bond with our daughter.
Title: Re: Why I am so happy to be breastfeeding!
Post by: Claudiamummy on November 26, 2011, 22:29:46 pm
What a great thread!!

Luckily I had a supportive dh and mum, who loved the fact I wanted to b/f. My mum in particular... She had fed my older brother but not me due to medical reasons.

When I am feeding DD, it feels such an achievement that I am "growing" this amazing little person, and those smiles when she has enjoyed a good feed, are just for me... It's totally priceless!

I hope that I can give dd the confidence and support to feeed her children, as it has been the most amazing gift that my mum gave to me.




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Post by: aisling on November 27, 2011, 00:14:42 am
How lovely Claire.  Well done too.  xx
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Post by: C&B&E on January 16, 2013, 22:14:25 pm
I realised today how great it is to still be bf as dd has the flu - high temperature, refusing food and drink - but keeps asking for milk  :).  It's so great to be able to give her cuddles, fluids, calories and antibodies all at the same time  :).  I shall ignore the snot on my boobs  :-X :P
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Post by: Fiver on January 16, 2013, 22:25:18 pm
Aww, how lovely (the feeding rather than the snot!) :)
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Post by: aisling on January 16, 2013, 22:26:33 pm
 :D :-*  Hope baby feels better soon.

I LOVE this thread.  Went back and re-read some old posts of mine and others.  Gives me that falling in love feeling in my tummy.   
 :D
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Post by: Erin M on January 17, 2013, 01:53:58 am
LOL, snot on the boob. BTDT.  :)
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Post by: anna* on January 17, 2013, 09:13:08 am
I realised today how great it is to still be bf as dd has the flu - high temperature, refusing food and drink - but keeps asking for milk  :).  It's so great to be able to give her cuddles, fluids, calories and antibodies all at the same time  :).  I shall ignore the snot on my boobs  :-X :P

Absolutely. Audrey nursed like a newborn during that flu, I was so grateful we still had that option!
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Post by: lily_layne on February 18, 2013, 20:35:33 pm
DD and I had an extra lovely nursing moment this morning :D  I went to bed late last night so I was feeling quite lazy when DD woke up so I asked DH to get her up and bring her to me in bed.  I've never really nursed DD in bed because it was quite uncomfortable for me when she was a newborn but I was tired enough this morning that I thought I'd give it another go.  I nursed her in the side-lying position and she was quite content to lay with me and have a huge breakfast (and it was lot more comfortable for me now that she's bigger) but the real fun started after.  I moved her onto my tummy for a play and she looked down at my breasts and her eyes got huge and she got the biggest "I'm in heaven" grin and proceeded to dive in for more milk.  Every so often she'd come up, smile, and dive onto the other side.  She LOVED that she got to choose the side and switch as often as she wanted and she was so enthusiastic and excited it was hilarious - this went on for 20 minutes (she usually is done nursing in 10 or less).  I love that I can make my LO that happy while nourishing her growing body! ;D
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Post by: Fiver on February 18, 2013, 21:34:14 pm
That is such a lovely story, thank you for sharing ;D
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Post by: binxyboo on February 19, 2013, 07:43:08 am
Such a sweet story! :)
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Post by: cuckoochick on February 19, 2013, 08:06:55 am
Gorgeous story! I'm so looking forward to nursing again! Loved feeding in bed as found it so comfy snuggled up together ;D
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Post by: anna* on February 19, 2013, 09:39:59 am
Sooooooo grateful to be still nursing my big baby... she has had a bad tummy bug for four days and not eating ANYTHING. But she's been nursing 6 times per day and I'm so glad to be able to feed her something that I know won't irritate her little tummy.
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Post by: aisling on February 19, 2013, 14:58:47 pm
Love reading all these and nodding my head "yes, I remember that too. "  Hugs and all.  xo
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Post by: BabyKain12 on April 22, 2013, 21:45:21 pm
I love bf'ing my LO! It was hard at first he started on formula and pumped bottles because he refused to latch, but then he got it down and he's such an angel. My favorite part is when he finishes and rolls back and smiles at me. :) or when he strokes my face while eating. I love when he stares at me, and when he closes his eyes and just enjoys his meal. Every moment is perfect!
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Post by: lily_layne on August 27, 2013, 20:02:22 pm
DD and I had a wonderful nursing moment on her 1st birthday.  DH got up with her and brought her to me in bed to nurse.  She snuggled right in with me (she doesn't usually cuddle) and stroked my skin while she nursed. I just couldn't believe that my baby had gotten so big and I was so happy to be still breastfeeding (I thought for sure we'd be done by now).  Afterwards, I let her play on the bed and she kept crawling back for more. I go back to work tomorrow and I know that I'm going to look forward to nursing and cuddling even more now that I won't see her all day.
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Post by: Joy-filled on August 30, 2013, 11:43:04 am
What a beautiful moment for you lily_lane!  Thanks for sharing :D.  I'm still Bfing too and I feel so blessed to be able to.  I'm not sure why it isn't the norm here in Canada as I think it is such a beautiful thing to be able to offer.  My son has only in the last couple of week started to "sign" for milk and it is such a blessing to be able to have him ask and meet that need for him. 
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Post by: nanavel on September 01, 2014, 15:10:23 pm
Thanks for posting this...I am new member here and i would to share my feelings on breastfeeding: my son 3 months 3 weeks

1. I love it when he is hungry and as i pick him up and say the word ( AAAAMMMM) he opens his mouth wide and waiting for me to put it in his mouth.
2. I love it when he is feeding and suddenly my boob slips from his mouth and he stats to quickly move his head right and left searching for it. (so funny)
3. I love it when he falls a sleep with  boobie in his mouth and he starts making that tiny nibblings on it.
4. I love it how he keeps his tiny hand on my boobie as if he is holding bottle.
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Post by: *Ali* on September 01, 2014, 15:36:28 pm
Welcome nanavel. i love all those things too.  I can't wait to experience them again with number 3!
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Post by: 1stimer on September 03, 2014, 19:31:27 pm
I LOVE watching DS feet while he nurses...watching his toes flex and point and relax. Baby feet are so cute!!!! We also had a sweet moment the other night. DD crawled into our bed in the middle of the night and I was feeding DS. He was nursing and DD was just stroking my arm while she was trying to fall asleep. I looked over at her and she just looked at me and smiled the biggest smile.
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Post by: twinmama2 on September 17, 2014, 00:28:28 am
My twin boys are 10 months and we are still breastfeeding, after a very bumpy start.  I knew when I was pregnant that I wanted to breastfeed as long as possible and was devastated when my boys were born premature and unable to suck.  After 7 weeks and a lot of tears (mostly from me) they were finally done with bottles and we were breastfeeding exclusively!  Christmas Eve was their last bottle...being able to breastfeed both of my boys was the best Christmas present ever!  That time with them is so precious to me.  It was such a struggle in the beginning, but it was well worth it.  I am so proud of them and myself for sticking it out. 
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Post by: lily_layne on September 17, 2014, 01:46:38 am
Thanks for sharing your story!
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Post by: *Ali* on September 17, 2014, 20:45:27 pm
And proud you should be. Your boys are very lucky to have such a dedicated mama!
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Post by: Fiver on September 25, 2014, 21:23:41 pm
Good going, twinmama! :)
Title: Re: Why I am so happy to be breastfeeding!
Post by: *Ali* on December 09, 2014, 19:50:22 pm
I don't expect you will get a reply from Samuel's mum since her post was 8yrs ago and she hasn't been on this site for about 5yrs!

Personally I found BFing just so useful when traveling as there is none of the storage or sterilising issues to think about like there is with formula. Security often make mums taste the formula as well which can mean it doesn't keep as long and they have to source more upon arrival.

Feeding a baby on a plane is a great way to keep them calm and comfortable especially during take off and landing when ears tend to pop. They are normally just loosely tethered to mum so can easily be maneuvered to a feeding position. Feeding to sleep is also handy if LO finds it difficult to settle on a long trip.

I didn't use any BFing books but got the info I needed from fellow mums irl and on this site who kindly shared their experience with me.  Kellymom.com is a useful, evidence based BFing website. It was even recommended by the BFing specialist at my antenatal class last week.

ETA: I deleted prior post to this but have kept your useful info for others thanks Ali. 
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Post by: LaraAndrea on March 30, 2017, 16:52:59 pm
It is nice to post in a celebration thread.

I have had la very challenging BF experience... Tongue tie, numerous trips to Dr. Newman's BF clinic, desperate calls to my local Le leche league.

But I have made it to 6 months of EBF. I am so proud!  When feeds are rough I think of all that me and my LO have been through and accomplished and makes me smile.

It also helps to think of all those positive health benefits for my LO and myself.

A message to those who are struggling but really hope to continue. Take it one day at a time and each day is an accomplishment.

My next goal to 1 year (when I go back to work) and maybe beyond.
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Post by: binxyboo on March 30, 2017, 16:59:52 pm
Aw, that is fantastic to read x You are right..one day at a time, one feed at a time!