Thank you both for your reassurances! I guess I should be focussing on my lo's cues, and not conforming so rigidly!
Just another question - my lo falls asleep for his naps on his own, no problem (first 45 only, obviously!), so does it really matter if he falls asleep when feeding just before bedtime? What problem could this cause?
Thanks again - I appreciate your help ;D
Mama
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