Much more pleasant experience 2nd time round. 1st time, very engorged, cracked and bleeding nipples, took many weeks to even be able to stand front on in the shower. Never felt letdown 1st time, and almost never leaked either, but ended up finishing early due to supply issues (10 weeks ish)
This time - feed for 1.5 days, then pumped for 2 days due to tube feeding, paed made me pump after each feed to try to get my milk in quicker, then fed for 3 days, then pumped due to formula feeding, then back to BF. Only got engorged (and not as bad as last time) when I stopped pumping to return to BF the last time (was making too much by then, what a good pumper I was LOL). No sore nipples. Let down very strong though, sometimes quite uncomfortable, but only for a few seconds each time. Also, feel that let down sometimes when either of my babies cries! After pains much worse second time round...one tip from mid wife was to empty my bladder before feeding, and it did seem to help some.