Last night was an improvement - she went down at 7pm, had DF at 11pm then woke at 510am followed by further sleep until 7am. It's still a little way off from what we were doing, but much better than the previous few nights.
Today she had the following routine:
E - 830am
A - 0845-920
S - 0920-1005 followed by a wake then ssh/pat in my arms she went back down in the cot until 1115am (this is the longest nap time that she's had in a long time)
E - 1115-1130
A - 1130-1230
S - 1245 - 115 (couldn't get her back down as we were at family and too much disturbance)
E - 215pm
A - 230 - 315pm
S - 315-4pm ( Fell asleep in pushchair as were out walking) followed by a further nap at 455-530pm
E - 530
A - 545-645pm (bath at 630pm)
E - 645pm
S - 7pm
I am having trouble with the naps, and just as we start to get somewhere it's disturbed by having to go out or take my other daughter somewhere, it's a real pain. However, this time last week she was averaging between 25-60mins a day nap so we have come great guns in a week. I hope to desperately try to work on more naps in the cot this week, but it is tricky with every day demands, but I suppose if you don't put the effort in you don't get the results out!
When she awakes after 45 mins, does it matter if I ssh/pat in my arms and then put her back down once semi-asleep as if I ssh/pat in the cot at this stage she refuses to co-operate. I tend to ssh/pat at the beginning of the nap and then when the seven-mile-stare arrives I put her in the cot and further pat her until she falls asleep, but she refuses this method after the 45mins.
I know that most babies differ, but how long on average is it anticipated before the babies learn to get past the first 20min jolts and sleep for longer than 45 mins on their own? I appreciate these questions should maybe go on the nap board, but since I'm posting here thought I might ask your opinion first!
Sarah