Jasmine loves fruit as well but I generally save it for snack rather than desert (so mid morning snack & after nap snack). For desert I do yoghurt or home baked cookies (sugar-free
) or home made custard.
You could get regular prunes & soak them in water & use that juice or just regular prunes or buy prune juice. I wouldn't be giving too many..... if real prunes I think 2 or 3 would be more than enough (usually 3 is enough for me iykwim
). You could try diluting the ready made prune juice as well if he doesn't seem to like the taste.
You are definitely not the only one in the poop boat. Bella did the mid-nap & night poops for a while... then I got the potty out at around 15-16m (consistently) & she took really well to doing a poop in her potty once a day (don't know if it was because of the potty or just a coincidence
).
Lunch about 1hr before nap so far has helped Jasmine (so same as Sari's idea).