Hi, been having trouble with my 17 wk (13.5 adjusted) with putting her down at night, and more recently for naps. On the 3hr easy that seems to work for the most part, will soon be trying for 3.5.
Last week or so it's been lots of crying and then sh/patting to get her to sleep at night. Tonight was no exception. She did have some gas I did notice, she's had trouble with that in the past. I have her swaddled and on her back so sh/pat is on the shoulder usually (on her back if I'm holding her). However tonight she was so fussy, I turned her slightly to pat her back in the bassinet and she settled almost instantly. I've tried a positioner before and it didn't really work and felt awkward with the swaddle cuz the arm underneath is straight at her side. But tried it again and she fell right to sleep! She's more towards her back but slightly on the side, snug fit in the positioner and it's around her waist (her head is same orientation as when she's on her back, she turns her head usually to one side).
Is this safe and ok? I've always been leary of putting her on side or tummy, but I know the side can help with tummy issues. If she's swaddled is she ok like that for night sleeping? Will her arm lose circulation if there is too much pressure on it? I'm a bit worried but it seemed to help her so much.