Hello All,
I am sorry if I am repeating others here, but I have tried so many different things and he just doesn't nap more than 45 mins at a time. The only time he does is when he falls asleep feeding and I keep him on my lap WITH my boob in his mouth!! This is terrible I know but sometimes I just want him to get a good sleep and will just stay on the couch and stick it out.
At the moment I just let him do LOTS of short naps during the day, which seems to sort of work for him, but it does sometimes mean he falls asleep while feeding (as above - means I am anchored to the couch), and it is quite draining for me in general (very selfish i know).
He falls asleep no problem, with a little help from me - that's one thing I feel I have done right, teaching him to fall asleep on his own, TG!
He seems so much better when he sleeps longer than the 45 minutes so he must need more sleep right?
I have tried:
1. wake to sleep (not sure if doing this right)
2. waiting for him to wake & trying to help him through the transition
3. walking the earth!
4. car seat (marginal success with this but really only when car is moving)
5. swaddling (he is 3 months and we always swaddle which does help at night but not much during day)
6. soother - loves this but does not help him back to sleep
7. slumber bear - helps him get off to sleep initially but no joy after short nap
8. leaving him mantra cry a bit and then giving soother - this worked once!
He's on a pretty good 3 hour eating routine, though i find it a bit messy in the morning e.g. if he wakes at 5.30 I will try to feed him to top him up at 7 so that we can start the day at the right time. Is this wrong?
Any advice would be appreciated. I am quite confined to the house and my mammoth walks each day because he will not nap properly and I find myself just winging it during the day and reacting to his need for naps as we go. He tends to get cranky outside the house with other people (i think because he is so tired?).
Sorry for long winded post.
Thanks ladies
Mummy07