My dd is 19 weeks old and we are working toward the 4 hour EASY. She wakes at 7 and goes down at 9 but only sleeps 45-1 hour. Then she goes back down around 11:30. This 11:30 is the trouble. Two days a week we are at ice skating with ds and the nap is 45 minutes. Then she takes a 1 1/2-2 hour afternoon nap.
So my question is when we are home the rest of the time should I wake dd at the 11:30 nap to keep it 45 minutes in favor of a long afternoon nap? It has worked a couple times but always makes me nervous.
I know my goal is to get the first morning nap to be longer but I have been unsuccessful with doing that. She has taken short morning naps and a long afternoon one for quite some time.
Any suggestions are appreciated!