Thanks for this Paula - sorry you're going through it too but I appreciate the support.
Poor Stan had another rough day today. An hour after lunch, but only TEN MINUTES in the morning. I'm a bit annoyed about that really. I mean, to me, if he wakes after ten minutes it's not the end of the nap, it's just that he hasn't fallen fully asleep yet, iyswim??
**sighs**. I don't know. His main carer said that they tried rubbing his back, tried walking with him, but every time another child coughed or made a noise, he was wide awake and looking around. Trouble is I don't even know how to suggest they help him sleep, because at home he goes straight off to sleep and, more often than not, I have to wake him up!
At nursery he doesn't seem to get all whingey when he's tired, so maybe they're not seeing the importance. Today he was totally manic with tiredness. He basically went straight up for a bath and to get ready for bed as soon as we got home at 5.30, and he had this huge grin on his face the whole time, and in the bath he was completely over-excited, splashing so much he scared himself, then inconsolable, then when he recovered grinning and giggling like a maniac - but I could tell it was because he was completely exhausted and his emotions were out of control. He was in bed and fast asleep by 6.05. I feel upset because when he doesn't sleep at nursery I don't get to spend any nice time with him in the evening, and I miss him!
I am working from home on some freelance bits while he is at nursery but tomorrow I think I will pick him up early at say 4 so that if he hasn't slept I can get him home in time to have a catnap before bed. The poor soul I hate to see him that way.
Hope things get better for both of us soon, and thanks again so much for the support.
((hugs))
anna
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