Hi Everyone, I don't even know where to begin or even if this is the appropriate place to post. My DD was such an angel baby. She fell into the EASY plan with no problems and slept through the night at 3 months and napped on schedule and for at least 1.5 hours each if not longer. My DS however, is on the opposite page, I can't get him to follow a EASY plan I've tried it all. I thought I was a pro since my DD did so well, I thought wrong. His naps are short, he wakes in the night. I feel unsuccessful and like a failure for not being able to get him on a EASY plan. He falls asleep at night on his own with no problems a couple of whines here and there, but overall does wonderful. Nap time, however he needs assistant, but not much. I do not nurse to sleep, I did that with DD and didn't want to start that habit with him.
There have been a few times he slept until 6 am, but they are rare. Sometimes I can got in and just give him the paci and he goes right back to sleep. Other times I have to pick him up. Last night he woke 4 times and 3 of the times he put himself back to sleep and the 4th time I went in, gave him the paci and he slept until 7 this morning.
Last week my DH and I went on vacation and my brother took care of them. DS slept through all 5 nights for them, however the first night I came home he woke 3 times and hasn't slept through at all. He napped extremely well for them as well and this week I can barely get 40 min. each time. He was fed BM by bottle the whole week, so I'm not sure if he got more and that was able to help him sleep through the night which in turn helped him nap better. Maybe he is not staying on long enough to get enough milk via breastfeeding. Just not sure where to turn, he is tired, I am tired...I feel like I should be able to get him on a routine, but nothing seems to be working. I feel like I am failing him.
Please help!