So, i WON'T be waking that girl unless absolutely necessary!
Wowzers!
She was fine doing the task we needed to. Upon returning home, she hit/yelled/screamed at everything in sight--peed her pants twice (pretty sure she only does this when tired)--and was just in general, crappy.
At 1pm...let's see....after being up for 4.5hrs....she is now asleep. I think. Well, i'm pretty sure. (it's about 130pm now)
I think i won't limit her nap, except for not letting her sleep past 3pm.
guess she answered my question about whether to wake---only from nap, never from nightsleep---i'm too scared now, lol!
sami