Hi there and (((hugs))) it's hard seeing them in pain (btw - CUUUUTTTEEE picture~!)
With us it showed up about 4 weeks - BUT I had eliminated all obvious dairy from birth and was only having hidden dairy. I believe it can show up 7-10 days later though. Regarding the OALD and over supply - we had the same issue, and fixing that around 3 weeks helped trememdously (i.e, block nursing, letting the let down off into a cloth then latching bub on).
Honestly I would take out all obvious dairy since your ODS has a history and then trying to correct the OALD/oversupply and see how it goes from there. It should take a week for the oald to balance out and if after that there are still issues take a look at all symptoms (i.e., any blood in stool, congestion, excema, etc etc). Also - LOs are VERy gassy at this age normally - maybe take a look at your diet and remove gassy foods?
I hope this helps a little! Good luck, I'm sure some of the experts will be along soon for some information. Congrats on your new LO!
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