speechie : no i find shortening his nap makes it worse!!!! I find he's in a better mood, sleeps better , etc when he's had atleast a 2 hr nap, any shorter and he's moody and wakes earlier in the am even if i compinsate for the lost sleep in bedtime... never has worked.
jcsmom: i know what you mean, sometimes i have done just so, increased his A time / bedtime due to a long nap and it has backfired on me and other times it backfires on me keeping it the same... i never know what to do. he seems to go though phases and sometimes needing more and others needing less adn i never know what his CURRENT need is!!!! i hate when i think i've made a wright choice nad then he's up at 4:50 am! i am totally happy with a 6:30 wake up time, anything before is just too early and if it's later he doesn't go down for a nap at a decient time at daycare adn then that messes things up big time! so i'm at a loss all the time on what to do.
your schedule sounds just like mine for the most part except nap, at home he will nap 2-3 hrs but at daycare i'm lucky if i get a 1.5 hr nap. I don't remember the last time i get past a 6:30 wake up time..... ahh the decisions on what to do... nothing seems to work or make it longer/better....