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Offline jane07

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Nightmare keeping 1 yr old entertained when eating in restaurants!
« on: September 22, 2009, 10:55:23 am »
I would love anyone's tips and suggestions for eating out in restaurants with a toddler.  This has never been a problem with my 1 yr old until recently.  I think now she can walk she gets v fed up v quickly in a high chair.  She is fine at home, think maybe because ours straps her in nice and snug.  We went out for dinner last night and it was a total nightmare.  She was trying to climb out of the highchair, wouldn't sit still, we then tried her in her pram, she screamed, went prepared with toys/favourite snacks etc but she would just push them away, it was a disaster!  Help! x

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Re: Nightmare keeping 1 yr old entertained when eating in restaurants!
« Reply #1 on: September 22, 2009, 11:56:08 am »
Was it a baby-friendly place or were you there under sufferance? If it's baby friendly I would tend to let let your LO out of the high chair and wander a little. I've done that with both my LOs and I've never had a problem. Obviously you need to keep an eye on them and make sure they're not in the way but I think people would prefer to see a little toddler tottering around harmlessly than hear one screaming because s/he was strapped in somewhere....

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Re: Nightmare keeping 1 yr old entertained when eating in restaurants!
« Reply #2 on: September 22, 2009, 11:59:56 am »
Also, you could not sit until you are ready to eat, it helps if there is a lounge area where you order your food, that way she is not strapped in for any time longer than is necessary. 
Things like small pots of playdough, books, press button toys are good to keep them quiet, but I think that you are fighting a losing battle for the time being if you expect her to be strapped in the highchair for any time longer than to eat her food.

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« Reply #3 on: September 22, 2009, 13:06:04 pm »
We haven't found a solution to this either, although I know for us one of the problems is the amount of things that are "going on" in a restuarant, including all of the stuff on the table.  Waiters walking by (not waving anymore after the fifteenth time), other people talking, walking around, noise, music, and so on.  It sends my spirited LO into a tailspin.

So, also looking for tips!

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Re: Nightmare keeping 1 yr old entertained when eating in restaurants!
« Reply #4 on: September 22, 2009, 13:37:00 pm »
My only tip with a spirited is to avoid the situation  :P No way could Leorah sit at a table in a high chair in a restaurant for a whole meal so we just avoided it as it would be stressful for us too, I did/do feel jealous of those with little angels sitting at the table for a few hours over a leisurely dinner but my babe just aint made that way! Now she is nearly 3 we are going to test the waters with brunch but will be taking lots of activities with us and will be in a booth. Is it a particular restaurant you have to go to or can you pick places that are child friendly, some have a little play area and some also provide crayons, we have even heard of a place with a children's corner that plays Disney cartoons!
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Re: Nightmare keeping 1 yr old entertained when eating in restaurants!
« Reply #5 on: September 23, 2009, 02:10:39 am »
I have to agree with Leora.  Often, the best thing to do is avoid the situation.  One thing we have found is that lunch is much easier than dinner.  Most places, particularly chain restaurants, tend to turn over tables faster at lunch than at dinner.  Also, I think most other patrons tend to be a bit more understanding.  We tend to eat lunch out far more often than dinner for this reason.  Now, that might not be possible for you, so if you must eat dinner or a long meal out, one recommendation I would have is to order as soon as possible and let the waither know you are on a limited timeframe due to your toddler.  Lots of times I feel like I am playing beat the clock before my 23 mo old hits the wall.  And, last but not least, if your lo is having a particularly bad time out at a restaurant, you must be prepared to get your food to go, or leave.  I'm sorry, but I absolutely believe it is my responsibolity to cut my meal short rather than inconvenience an entire section of restaurant patrons.  Sometimes you will have good experiences, and sometimes, you will have bad ones.

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Re: Nightmare keeping 1 yr old entertained when eating in restaurants!
« Reply #6 on: September 23, 2009, 14:14:29 pm »
er, I remember when DS1 was 1 we had family visiting so were out for dinner a lot. It usually ended up with every single person at the table (about 6-8 of us) taking turns walking him in and out of the restaurant before the food was served up, and again after he finished eating. I was grateful for those Asian restaurants that had fish tanks - worth a good oh 10 minutes of amusement. Definitely no upmarket restaurants!

I can remember my niece at that age sitting quietly in her high chair just waiting for someone to offer her food...

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Re: Nightmare keeping 1 yr old entertained when eating in restaurants!
« Reply #7 on: September 23, 2009, 21:09:56 pm »
well- I persist in taking my kid out places, sometimes it's no fun, other times he does better. We now bring his own booster seat from home. I bring novel toys, Mr. Potato head, etc, books, walk him around, talk with him...etc.
See this old post of mine, if you want to feel better:
http://babywhispererforums.com/index.php?topic=139897.0
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Re: Nightmare keeping 1 yr old entertained when eating in restaurants!
« Reply #8 on: September 23, 2009, 21:41:48 pm »
For us, it's all about two things: comfy booster seat from home (the fisher price one we have is great). And crayons, crayons, crayons. Lots of new and old crayons with paper.
Our daughter is very active but can last about 30-40 minutes with snacks and crayons.
Trying to get her to eat more than 2 bites is another story.