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12mo old refusing liquids.
« on: March 30, 2010, 16:46:24 pm »
 My son is 12.5 months old and is taking in very little fluids during the day. I would say he takes about 2oz whole milk and maybe 5oz of anything else (water, juice, soy milk, even chocolate milk on one occassion....tried everything) and then a 4oz bottle (however, the past two nights he's refused this as well). He knows how to drink out of a sippy, and will do so, but then spits the liquid it right back out.

This is relatively new behavior. We started him on a sippy around 5 months, and for the most part he just played with it, but I at least wanted to expose him to it. He started to get better at it as the months past and around 10ish months he took water out of it frequently, but would never take formula, I thought he was just used to having formula in a bottle and would take milk from the sippy when we introduced it.

Anywho, now that he's refusing his night bottle I would say we are doing good to get 7-10oz of liquids all day in him. I offer constantly, and I've used a million different sippy cups, straws, camel back, water bottle....and there is no difference. I am starting to worry about dehydration and constipation. He's recently starting having to strain a lot to have a BM, and when he does it's really solid.

Is this a phase? What else can I do to get fluids in him? When should I start to worry?
toddler A 3/16/2009
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Re: 12mo old refusing liquids.
« Reply #1 on: March 31, 2010, 17:02:29 pm »
Mostly bumping this up for you as I don't have any real answer.  :-\

My only thought would be to try to increase his fluid intake via his food--like fruits which are high water content, melons, oranges, etc.  I would keep on eye on his urine/bm and contact your doctor if there seems to be a lack of out put which would be concerning.  

I would also just suggest staying low key about it.  If he senses your anxiety it may exacerbate the problem.  I'd offer milk or juice with meals and then leave sippy cups of water in his reach during play time, but I wouldn't push him to drink.  Just make it available and let him follow his own thirst cues so it doesn't morph into a weird power thing.  
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Re: 12mo old refusing liquids.
« Reply #2 on: April 03, 2010, 10:59:30 am »
Stephanie is he eating well?  I mean his solids and snacks.  I am always worried about dehydration with Finn but paed tells me their bodies won't allow it physiologically - they are programmed for survival.  Unless something is interfering with his ability to drink - is his mouth sore?  Teething and the sucking is causing pain?  then I agree with Bethany - don't power struggle just keep offering.

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Re: 12mo old refusing liquids.
« Reply #3 on: April 03, 2010, 23:58:28 pm »
He is eating normal. I've upped his fruit/veggie intake (the high water content ones), he's just not into the liquids. Good grief kid, can you make something easy.....one thing just ONE?

I'll keep offering, so far, the intake is on the rise, milk he's still is SO not into, but again, I'll just keep plugging away :)
toddler A 3/16/2009
baby B 4/20/2011