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Re: help? whats going on????
« Reply #30 on: May 06, 2010, 20:05:05 pm »
ok so suddenly you go in and at a point that just stop?

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« Reply #31 on: May 06, 2010, 20:08:58 pm »
I'm not sure what the question is? There's more info on Walk In Walk Out here http://babywhispererforums.com/index.php?topic=80750.0 ... you just keep doing WIWO until they settle - because you don't stay in there very long, when they settle down, you're not in the room.





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« Reply #32 on: May 06, 2010, 20:13:08 pm »
i mean if i keep doing this he eventually will just stop crying, im worried he will be hysterical and i will just as bad as if i left him.

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« Reply #33 on: May 06, 2010, 20:15:01 pm »
well of course I can't 100% guarantee it, but yes, that's what happens. He knows how to go to sleep independently yes? If he's never slept independently you would choose Gradual Withdrawal, but if he knows how to go to sleep independently then WIWO is the choice.





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Re: help? whats going on????
« Reply #34 on: May 06, 2010, 20:18:10 pm »
we had probs in past, but since 8 months we have never sat with him to go sleep with exception of illness,teething when he cried he ends up in our bed!

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Re: help? whats going on????
« Reply #35 on: May 06, 2010, 20:19:31 pm »
Cool then there's no reason why WIWO shouldn't work for you, as long as he's not sick/teething etc.





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Re: help? whats going on????
« Reply #36 on: May 06, 2010, 20:20:09 pm »
when they are ill,what do you do?

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Re: help? whats going on????
« Reply #37 on: May 13, 2010, 20:15:45 pm »
i have done the test and my son is ' spirited'