HI,
Cadie's Mum has given some great advice
. I would just echo AP'ing the CN to preserve bedtime. It should be for such a short period of time and he clearly needs a sleep more than he does training at that time of the day! I used to take DS out daily for his CN as like yours he refused it in his cot more often than not (and this was after sleep training from 4 weeks old!). Now he is older he won't sleep in his pushchair though
We haven't had NW from OT but did have them from about 4-6 months due to a VERY long growth spurt
. Again agree that once your LO is sleep trained he will do much better at night.
Not sure on your LO's sleep needs but if my LO sleeps more than 1.5 hours in the am than I know I won't get more than 1hr in the pm. I would normally wake him up after 1.5 hours unless I know we are going out in the aft and he won't get a good nap.
You are doing great - it will be worth it