Thank you so much for replying so fast. That is amazing! Here is how the day went yesterday:
1.10 am nursing, right back to bed
3.25 am nursing, right back to bed
7 am nursing - A: swing 10 min , singing, talking to my mom on Skype
8. 15 asleep in crib
9.30 nursing A:
10.45 asleep in crib
12.45 nursing
2.05 asleep in crib
3.05 nursing A: going to great-grandparents (she slept there for 30 min in our arms)
5.30 asleep in crib
6.30 nursing A: talking, singing, bathing, massaging, being with grandpa (Rocking Chair)
8.00 asleep but only for 15 min.
8.20 cluster feed, put right back to bed but only asleep by 10.45 (missed dream feed)
1.45 am nursing
4.45 am nursing didn't really go back to sleep, was babbling and trying to get out of swaddle
- got her out of bed at 6.00 am talked, put her in swing for a little bit and she started yawing by about now 6.30 and i swaddled her again and put her in the crib, her eyes are already closed
I thought it takes her maybe so long at night to wind down, because she sleeps so much during the day. What do you think about it now? Her last A time is usually being with grandpa in the rocking chair. Yesterday was actually the first time I did the cluster feeds and putting her down that early. I wanted to try it out letting her sleep only those 40 and then 30 min. with the cluster feeds. Usually before that I didn't do the cluster feeds, I let her sleep like all other naps one to one and a half hours and put her back to bed around 9.30 pm. And then it usually took her those 20 min to unfortun. sometimes 4 hours to fall asleep. Her last activity in the past was usually being with grandpa in the rocking chair - they talk and she gets rocked for about an hour. She slept fine during the night, usually slept first 4 hours and then 3 hours again. Thanks so much for your help!!!